grace the amazing corn bag maker

“I will love you forever and a day.”

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Grace sat in front of the sewing machine last night and whipped up the remainder of her corn-bags to give as holiday gifts to her friends in Madrigals at school. 

She sure knows how to get things done, this girl of ours.  To begin with, she went through all my fabric and carefully chose just the right piece of material for each person, cut them out, ironed them, and put them in a neat stack by the machine.

When she ran out of corn she wouldn’t let up until I drove her back to Agway to buy more.  We came home with a 50 pound bag of it.  (anyone want a corn bag?)

She did everything herself, except, sadly, remedy the sewing machine problems.  The first problem was the foot fell off (gruesomely).  Then, she called me to come retrieve the bobbin thread four separate times (kept getting itself lost).  As much I I hated leaving my book, I was honestly pretty happy that I was (only) called five times.  She had the machine going as fast as she could and she completed about 15 last night, in a final rush to get the project completed.

When she was done I took a couple pictures of her beautiful work.  I’ve made corn bags before, but not this many at once.  Mama was impressed.

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As soon as I took the picture she jumped up, put them all in bag, laughingly realized it was so heavy that Jacob would have to help her get them to school in the morning, and took them into the living room to sit with us and chat while she labeled them with tape and a sharpie.

 HOW TO MAKE A CORN-BAG

“do feel
a little
crafty
at least
twice a day”
~dottie angel

grace and books

A daughter may outgrow your lap, but she will never outgrow your heart. ~Author Unknown

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She is in 10th grade and cheerfully talks about leaving right after High School.  

She wants to be in the military or go to Colorado for college.

Inside, my heart aches but I believe in letting the children go their own way, giving them freedom to make life plans.

In the meantime, my heart cherishes every moment with her.

On Saturday night, just the two of us went to Barnes and Noble to sit and read, sip chai tea, and journal.

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After wandering the bookshelves, I joined her at a little round table to look through the stack of books I picked out.

1) By the Book was interesting because in each chapter, a different literary person is asked several questions about books– their favorite book, what they are currently reading, what book they couldn’t finish, and so on.  I wrote down a few books that looked interesting.  2)  I find the story of Chris McCandless fascinating, so I thought I would browse his sister’s new book, The Wild Truth, which gave her own perspective of the tragic events.   All in all, I wasn’t interested in reading it in depth because it was more about her own life, rather than her brother’s.  3) Delicious Probiotic Drinks was great, and a book I will purchase through amazon.  4) A Room of One’s Own will be a book I borrow from the library.  5) Portraits and Profiles was a photography book with essays, well written and interesting.

“Whenever I read a passage that moves me, I transcribe it in my diary, hoping my fingers might learn what excellence feels like.”  David Sedaris, in By the Book.

“I like nonfiction books about people with wretched lives.”  David Sedaris

“…she is joyously healthy and undoubtedly eats an apple a day….”  Cecil Beaton, in Portraits and Profiles, writing of Katherine Hepburn

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Eventually, we left our little table and went over to the children’s section to sit on the floor.  We sat for quite a while, enjoying each other’s company and the wonderful new books we discovered.  Grace especially enjoyed Nuts to You, and kept reading me parts from it while laughing.  The Dark, by Lemony Snicket, was adorable.  The Squirrel’s Birthday and other Parties by Toon Tellegen, was a darling new discovery for me,  a book that was written over 25 years ago by a Dutch father who told the stories to his daughter as she was growing up.  He eventually wrote them all down and it has become a beloved book comparable to Winnie the Pooh.  Wainscott Weasel was about a weasel in love with a fish.  Can you even imagine?  Mean Margaret contains a story with animals that talk, and a terrible toddler from a family with nine children.  It made me chuckle.  Mister Max was written by a favorite author of mine, Cynthia Voigt.  Roland Smith is a favorite author of Jacob, Ethan, and Grace.  He has written a couple of series of books that they liked very much.  It is sad that the boys have grown up in the midst of the series and have lost interest in how things are going for the characters in the books.  Mutation and Alcatraz are two latest books in those series.  Grace and I had a discussion about how “you are never too old to read a children’s book.”  And I thought of C.S. Lewis, who explained it so much better:

“Critics who treat ‘adult’ as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”  CS Lewis

One of the wonderful blessings of having children of all ages is that you are compelled to keep reading books for all ages.

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After filling up our minds with books, we meandered over to Moes and filled up our tummies with nachos.

Talking all the way, my Gracie-girl and me.

 

madrigal feast

Good day to you.  It is drizzling cold rain outside and as a matter of fact, the children had a two our delay from school this morning because of icy conditions…… and, it was quite the morning, let me tell you.  There was a flurry of activity as the children did their best to enjoy the extra hours.  They are now gone to school and Sarah is playing in her room, so I have a few moments to give a report on the Madrigal Feast.

The music director at our local High School has put on a weekend of Madrigal Feasts for the last 28 years.  Grace was involved for the first time last year, as a Freshman, and I was so impressed by it that this year I bought tickets for Rich and I, plus Grace’s six siblings.  The tickets were 15 dollars a piece and the kids perform three times over the weekend to a packed house.  It is a great fundraiser for the music program, and they also donate money to a local charity.  The first two Feasts were in the evenings.  Rich and I went on the third day, Sunday afternoon, to avoid having the children out late.

On Sunday afternoon, while Rich (I love him) conveniently fell asleep and took a nap on the couch, I got the four younger children looking presentable.

Here is darling Sarah, all dressed up in her little dress, white tights, matching shoes, and itchy hair band.

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After the 10 minute drive to school in the backseat with her brothers, she looked like this:

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I mean, you just have to laugh, right?  I took the itchy hair band off the poor girl and then everything was fine.

When we arrived at the door to the cafeteria, where the feast took place, we told the doorman our name and they called out in a loud fanfare, “The ‘Smith’ Party has arrived!”  (only they used the correct last name; our last name is not Smith, by the way) and in we marched through two columns of choir children, to our assigned table.

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We each had a name card at our place, where a salad and fruit plate were waiting for us.  I sat in between Seth and Caleb.  Seth did everything in his chair but stand on his head, but it was nice for the most part.  David became cold and had no coat.  Jacob kept making eyes at his girlfriend.

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Grace and the rest of the choir were singing up front all during the salad course.  I felt shy, so I asked if one of the children could walk up to take a nice picture.  Seth was the only volunteer.  Thank you, Seth!

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When the singers filed past our table I took a quick picture of Grace, using the flash.  LOL Ethan.

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There was a wonderful song all about wassail.  Every member of our table asked me what wassail was, including my husband, who was in attendance last year and should have remembered that it is a nonalcoholic hot cider drink served in a punch bowl.

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Seth had three glasses of wassail and two full glasses of water, consequently he had to use the bathroom several times and was also too full to eat his feast.

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The number of wonderful songs being sung one after another were like a lullaby to Sarah.

We ate chicken, stuffing, a baked potato, bread, and mixed vegetables.  For dessert there was chocolate cake with cherries and whipped cream.  As we ate, the choir performed beautiful songs, skits, dances, and jokes for our entertainment.  There was a king and queen, a group of wenches, a jester, and so on….we were to imagine that we were in old time London.

In this picture, on the far left, you can see a door with a sign, “face painting”, which is where Seth was taken to sit and have his face painted like Spiderman (his choice).

Also, this is the picture I took during the final verse of “Silent Night”, when our Grace stood front and center to perform sign language.

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There were many, many items raffled off.  David had put tickets in several jars, trying to win things, but when he discovered that the winners had to go up front to claim their prize and perhaps do something embarrassing, he hoped and prayed he would NOT win.  (he didn’t).

OVER TWO HOURS later, the feast was over.  I had thoughtfully volunteered Rich to help tear down the sets so we hung around for another hour or so, until the cafeteria was a cafeteria again.

Mrs. Jones, the choir director (not her real name) is an AMAZING woman, so strong and capable, the children respect and adore her.  She wrote a little poem about each and every senior and had it read in their honor…provoking tears from every mother’s eye. Grace is her assistant this year and she made sure to tell me how much she appreciates Grace and her work ethic.

I can’t begin to tell you all the little ways Mrs. Jones makes the feast special for everyone involved.  It truly amazes me.

After the performance, every photographer took pictures of their children.  🙂

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The yearly groups form a close bond and Grace was thrilled to see graduating students return to visit;

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LOL Jacob (far right)

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I took the little ones out to the hall and sat as they ran around, waiting for the clean up to be over.

I had to laugh by the end of the evening I had a huge stack of coats, purses, shoes, etc, in front of me on the table to “watch” for the kids……

Spiderman!!  (make up remover wipes took it off just fine)

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This was embarrassing.  David, my magician, came to me with this plastic tie around his wrists and asked me to tighten it for him.  Even though my inner motherly instincts were screaming “NO DON’T DO IT” I tightened it.  “More than that, mom”.  Okay, I tightened it more, as per his request.  Well, he thought he could use magic to break free, but it never happened…..as he struggled, another mom came by to say hello to me, and to my horror, noticed Dave whose hands were turning an unnatural shade of pink, “Oh, that’s not good, David, you shouldn’t have that on your wrists.”  “It’s MY MOM’S FAULT,” he replied, “She’s the one who did it.”  Nice, Dave, nice.  We finally found some scissors and Emily cut it off.

It was eventually time to leave and we all left like a herd, 10 of us, a big family full of never ending excitement, the stressful kind AND the good kind.  Deep in my heart I appreciate each and every moment with these people.

We went home and decorated the tree (pictured in the previous blog entry).

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a proper photo, by another parent

 

fifteen

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Grace had a birthday yesterday.  She turned 15 and woke up early to hug her Dad before he went to work.  None of the children had school yesterday which was a treat for her….to have the day to celebrate.   Just after 9a.m. her big brothers finally woke up and she could open her stack of gifts that Seth and Sarah had helped me wrap.

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She received a candle, three fabric mesh bags for treasures, a book on nail polish styles, socks, a sketch pad, an art book, and a necklace.

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Then we sat around trying to figure out what to do.  She wanted me to take her shopping so we decided Jacob and Ethan would stay home with Seth, David, and Caleb.  Grace and I took Sarah and picked up Aunt Cassandra on the way to the mall.  It was a beautiful day.  After our day of ice we had a day of 65 degrees.  Grace sketched in her new sketch pad and played tunes for us, as we drove along.

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We ate a nice lunch at California Pizza Kitchen.

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Sarah needed to use the bathroom and I surprised Grace by asking her (even though it was her birthday) to take her little sister to the restroom.  While she was gone I took the opportunity to flag down our waiter (whom Grace was in love with) and order her a piece of chocolate cake for her birthday.  The girlies came back and after a while, Grace was surprised with a piece of heavenly cake with ice cream on top, placed in front of her by the charming waiter.

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When it was just the four of us again she asked, “How did he know it was my birthday?  Did you tell him or did he overhear something?”

There were four long handled spoons so we could share and it was DIVINE.  Cassandra only had one bite because she has been overindulging in leftover Halloween candy.

Grace bought herself a new ring and a belt with her birthday money and Aunt Cassandra bought her some thick comfy socks from GAP (Grace has a thing for nice socks).

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We left the mall way too soon because the boys needed to be taken to practice and Grace needed to go to Drama rehearsal.  Before we left the house for practices, I took a few “Look Who’s Fifteen Now” pictures to document her special day.

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Aunt Cassandra helped me with the children at the playground so I could get my Bible study lesson done and then we headed home so I could start dinner and make some phone calls.  I picked up the boys at 5:30 while the rest of the family watched Tangled with Aunt Cassandra.  Back home again (busy day), I finished Grace’s special requested dinner, chicken Alfredo.  Uncle Isaac arrived and Rich picked up Grace at 7:30.   We were all singing a rousing rendition of Happy Birthday by 8pm.

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It was a Reese’s peanut butter ice cream cake.

*****

A daughter is a day brightener and a heart warmer. ~Author Unknown

Grace is an adorable, well adjusted 15 year old teenager who loves school, family & friends, sign language, reading, her pets, Jesus, singing & drama.  She is a responsible and capable teacher’s assistant to her beloved chorus and drama teacher.  She is in Honors English.  She knows what she believes and she is not afraid to share her beliefs in a loving, respectful way.  She has her tough days but has good friends to talk to.  She is very loving and likes to give out hugs.  She hates to see people she loves hurting and would do anything to help them.  She likes texting, pinterest, and instagram (at home on the iPad).  She is a jeans and cute/casual top, with sneakers or UGGS kind of girl.  She has lovely long hair and pretty brown eyes.

I am thankful to have a daughter GRACE LILLIAN,  watching her grow is a blessing and a joy.

She said when her Dad hugged her the morning of her birthday he called her a little girl about five times.  She understood what he didn’t say, “I don’t want you to grow up too soon.”

 

 

 

i see fire

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It’s raining this morning, I love the sound and the smell!  Caleb just got on the bus.  Seth and Sarah are playing together for about 20 more minutes before Seth’s bus comes to get him for school.

The trees are colorful, I wonder if we are at peak fall beauty?  God’s creation never ceases to amaze and delight!

I am leaving here soon for Community Bible Study.  Our group is studying Romans and this morning we also have a brunch.   I look forward to getting to know my ladies better today.

Last night the High School had a Variety show.  Ethan and Grace sang a duet together.  I was so proud of them!  All the kids did so well, it made us smile no matter what the quality of performance is.  As Jacob said afterwards, we clapped because they did awesome or we clapped because they were brave enough to perform.

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They sang a rather dark song that had the phrase “I see fire” repeating in it enough that it also keeps going through my head all day, everyday (from hearing them practice).  The song was from the Desolation of Smaug.  I just looked it up, the title is not surprising, “I See Fire”.

Here’s the official music video from the movie:

 

Jacob taped their performance, and if i can figure out how to load it I will do so.  They were so cute together up there.

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At the end of the song, Grace gave E a cute look, like, “Wasn’t that fun?”

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Our church youth group and leadership came out to support them, making the night even more fun!  Thanks, guys!!

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Want to hear something neat?  Two of the Youth Group leaders are brother and sister…..and their names are Seth and Sara!  So this is a picture of the four of them, big Seth with little Seth, and big Sara with little Sarah.

It was a great night.

Grace’s costumes in Singin’ in the Rain

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My daughter Grace is a Freshman in High School and has fallen in love with singing, dancing, and acting in Drama.  She is currently (as I type) at the cast party for Drama’s production Singing in the Rain….the last performance was this afternoon.   Rich and I went last night to see it with my parents, and Jacob, Ethan, David, Caleb, Seth, and Sarah.  Grace’s friends Ethan and Erinn also came (we filled up a row).

Grace didn’t have any speaking parts but she was in several dance numbers and Mom and I greatly admired her in the many beautiful dresses she got to wear.

In black:

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In black sequins, clutching the arm of a gent;

 

 

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Red dress, long gloves, and fancy white hat;

 

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Black dress with swirly white stripes:

 

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Red sequins (she’s on the far right) in the song and dance number “What’s Wrong with me?” sung by Lina Lamont.

 

 

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(looking at camera)

 

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And, blue with white dots;

 

 

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a black pony tail holder around her wrist and a bright happy smile on her pretty face;

 

 

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They did such a good job, we loved the performance.  It was very entertaining and we felt proud of Grace and her friends.  They’ve been practicing long hard hours for so many months.  Grace especially struggled with tap dance, but she finally learned the steps.  Well done, Grace!

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Here she is after the show, with her Grandpa, Grandma, and little sister.

And flowers from her Dad.

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Oh, and by the way she did all this after seriously jamming her ring finger playing catch with her brothers a few hours beforehand….it caused her to almost pass out at the ball field, she lost her vision and was so weak she had to lay with her head on my lap while her Dad went to get food and drink (she had also skipped breakfast).  Someone at drama had to cut the ring off her finger and today her poor finger is black and blue and swollen almost twice the size as her other one.  She’s a trooper.  xoxoxo

first morning in may

“Oh give us pleasure in the flowers today;
And give us not to think so far away
As the uncertain harvest; keep us here
All simply in the springing of the year.”

Robert Frost

 

He sends you abundant showers, both autumn and spring rains, as before.  Joel 2:23

 

It is the first morning of May 2014.  Little Sarah went with me to the chicken coop wearing her pink water boots.   Oh, we had a lovely time.  There were plenty of clear, cold puddles for us to walk through, and a roaring stream to visit, too.

Grace had a dentist appointment at 10am.   Our family dentist is right in town so these times are nice.  I like to take the opportunity to spend quality time with whatever child has an appointment (last week it was Jacob).  Grace has been working overtime in her High School musical, “Singing in the Rain”, the rehearsals are each afternoon until 8pm and opening night is tomorrow.  I haven’t seen much of her lately because when she gets home she has to do homework and get to bed and sleep.   We had a lovely visit today, she talked and talked to me after her appointment was over.  She didn’t want to go right back to school so we went to the thrift store and then to the diner for lunch.  I love looking at her pretty face and hair as she talks and laughs.  She’s such a good girl, so level headed and secure in herself.  She loves school and her *people* (the word she herself uses).   I am just so proud of her and who she is becoming.

Meanwhile, Seth and Sarah were a terrible twosome and when I came home after dropping their big sister off I had to sit down and give them a little lecture.  I can’t tolerate nonsense while shopping.  I was at Rite Aid with them while Grace was getting her teeth cleaned and they would not stay with me and would not stop touching every interesting thing they saw.  After about five minutes, I put them both in a cart and it still didn’t help, they were full of it.  Oh well, it’s all part of the training we must do as mothers, but it does get old after a while.  They seem to think going to Rite Aid is right up there with Six Flags.  I plan on “practicing” with them here at home by taking their hands and walking around as I go on and on about Proper Shopping Behavior.   They will love it, I’m sure.

It rained lightly all morning long, but it has stopped for the moment, the sky is pure white with clouds.  The road is starting to dry.  I wonder if the boys will have their little league games this evening?

It’s a laundry day and things are humming.  I do love the smell of clean clothes.

I finally remembered to buy matches and I have some pretty candles lit in the kitchen.

For the moment it is quiet and peaceful, a nice beginning to this new month.

Happy May!

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What would the world be, once bereft
Of wet and wildness?  Let them be left,
O let them be left, wildness and wet,
Long live the weeds and the wildness yet.
~Gerard Manley Hopkins

*****

Lavender-Lemon Shortbread

3/4 cup unsalted butter
1/2 cup confectioners’ sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon lemon extract
1 1/2 cups all purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 1/2 teaspoons dried lavender
1 tablespoon fresh lemon zest
3 tablespoons sugar

In a medium bowl, and using an electric mixer at medium speed, beat butter, confectioners’ sugar, vanilla extract, and lemon extract until creamy.

In a separate medium bowl, sift together flour and salt.  Slowly add flour mixture to butter mixture, beating until combined.  Fold in lavender and lemon zest.

Shape dough into a ball or disk, and wrap in plastic wrap.  Refrigerate at least 2 hours, or overnight.

Preheat oven to 350.  Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

On a lightly floured surface, roll dough to 1/4 inch thickness.  Using a 2 inch cutter, cut cookies, re-rolling remaining dough only once.  Place cookies on prepared sheet, and evenly sprinkle each with granulated sugar.

Bake for 10 to 12 minutes, or until edges of cookies are slightly browned.  Cool on pan 1 minute; transfer to wire rack to cool completely.

Makes about 36 cookies.

Recipe source:  Victoria magazine,  April/May 2008

the sisters of the family

a simply wonderful life

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Rich and I have two beautiful daughters.

About four years ago they looked like that up there^^

Since it’s spring vacation this week, I had a little extra time to take a few sister pictures.

I bought new shirts for them at target; Grace can wear a size 14/16 and Sarah Joy a size 4, from the girls department.

I waited ten years to have two girls but can you believe this is the first time they’ve dressed alike?

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And now,

 

 

get ready,

 

 

for an explosion,

 

 

OF PINK……..

 

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“For there is no friend like a sister
In calm or stormy weather;
To cheer one on the tedious way,
To fetch one if one goes astray,
To lift one if one totters down,
To strengthen whilst one stands”

Christina Rosetti (one of my favorite poets)