jacob and emily got engaged again! (*not really*)

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Ah, young love in the springtime, is there anything better?

We were all outside and I was reading my book when Emily ran up to me all excited.   Jacob proposed to her!  This is his second proposal.  The first one took place at the mall with a peach ring candy!

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Don’t you agree that this ring is much better than a peach ring (which Emily ate)?

Jacob found it embedded in the mud outside on the lawn!  Hard to believe, right?

It’s beautiful silver, heavy and well made, with a gentle rust design.  Quite artsy.

I congratulated her over and over.

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While Jacob looked on, sheepishly.

Oh no, a sneak attack!

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Brothers are so disrespectful when it comes to ultra-romantic moments!

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Admiring their ring.

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Silly kids.

mascara: observations of a four year old

Yesterday Sarah was standing by my side, intently watching me put on mascara.

“Are you putting black on your whiskers?” she sweetly asked.

When I began to laugh she quickly corrected herself.

“Wait.  Are those eyebrowls?”  (guide to pronunciation:  rhymes with growls)

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Can you tell she’s all about animals these days?

 

how to make homade slime (his own spelling)

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What a great morning this has been, sun shining and so much accomplished like laundry, cleaning bedrooms, dishwashers, and matching tons and tons of socks.  I started a new photo album on FB of my church family, which I’ve wanted to do for a while.  And Sarah Joy had a bath.  She is feeling much better today for which we are thankful.  Everyone has had the stomach bug except Ethan and Rich, time will tell!

Aunt Colleen made an apron out of old blue jeans yesterday!  We were messaging on FB and she inspired me to make Sarah a purse out of the jeans I ripped when I fell on my knee.  Here are pictures:

The apron:

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and the little purse made out of the back pockets sewn together back to back:

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When Sarah woke up I gave her the purse and she said a soft “thank you, mama.”

Sewing is great but what about something else to make?  Like a science project?  I’m constantly growing mold in the fridge and the shower, but lately I’ve been in the mood to do something more challenging and this is the area in which Davy-do has become my inspiration.  Perhaps you too would like to do a simple science project.  How about homemade slime?

Here is Davy’s original recipe, with original spelling.  He was so kind to write it all up for the blog.

What you will need

1.   1 1/2 T. of elmers glue
2.  laundry detergent
3.  food coloring (optional but your choise of color.)
4.  water
5.  flour
6.  1 bowl

Steps!  Put your 1 1/2 tablespoons of glue in the bowl then pour 1/4 of a cup of water in it, then put 1 tablespoon of laundry detergent in it.  Next let it sit for 2 minutes, then pour it all out on a flat surface that you don’t want wet, quickly scoop up your slime and put in a small container, nows the time to put 2 drops of food coloring in it and store if you want it thicker add flour, the more you put in the thicker it will be.

I have so many questions!

And a few opinions.  One of which, as a mom, I do not suggest allowing the food coloring to be used.  It’s just really stressful.  Also, the laundry detergent is not a good idea.  My little scientist used so much that my hands felt funny after one touch of the slime….also, doing laundry now gives me flash backs to the slime situation, because of the aroma.  Other than that, you’re good to go with this one.

He moved on to recipes from outside sources, all of which used GEL & CLEAR ELMER’S GLUE(s) and borax.  I have gotten him about 7 containers of glue so far and he has had the most wonderful time making slime.  We have it in baggies and bowls all over the place but he still doesn’t let the little kids play with it. (he is very possessive of his slime!)   The recipe is here.

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And/Or you can make a rubber egg.  This was sooooo weird.  He let the egg soak in vinegar all day long and the shell turned rubbery.  He loved his rubber egg so much but I accidentally dropped it on the floor after playing with it.  It broke, the dog ate it, and he will never let me hear the end of it.

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more information here.

Last but not least he has been making “instant ice” with FIGI bottled water.  He requested FIGI water one day and I forgot to get it at the store so after I dropped off Ethan at school I had to go to the store AGAIN because I was afraid of disappointing my little scientist.  Thankfully the local grocery store had it in stock.

Here is the fun explanatory video on “instant ice”: click here

Dave loves to watch youtube videos to inspire him to try different experiments.  I can’t wait to see what he tries next!

 

 

funny morning

“Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life.”  Psalm 23:6
DSC_1158(yesterday, early morning) The snow was falling and blowing all over the place….the flakes were small and icy cold.

DSC_1159(yesterday, around noon).  The snow was till coming down and the road wasn’t plowed.

DSC_1166When the snow let up in the afternoon, Rich went out to plow the driveways with his tractor.  Ethan, Seth, David, and Caleb got dressed to play on the mountains of snow their Dad made.

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DSC_1179Torturing his brother.

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DSC_1184They came inside with blotchy skin, it was so cold that it took a little while, and some hot chocolate, to defrost.

DSC_1204We began to see a little traffic on the roads again.

DSC_1168Sarah began throwing up.

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DSC_1188Grace and Jacob, who was recovering from being sick,  played a card game.  David searched the cupboards for something to eat, Rich was in the other room on a phone call.

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DSC_1208The rest of these pictures are from this morning.  We rarely get a snowstorm that causes us to have to shovel our porch.

DSC_1220“This is ridiculous!” ~Sherlock the Cat

DSC_1210Shadow of the house where I was standing on the porch, and drifts against the garage.

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DSC_1213You would think that with a three car garage I would not have to deal with this.

DSC_1231Sherlock is cute because he likes to all of a sudden dive into the snow and play like a crazy cat.  it was too much for Parker the Dog, so he pounced on the cat to play, too.

(Emily are you reading this?  I love you!)

DSC_1235a walking path through the snow

DSC_1249I took this picture back in the house, through the glass door.  The chickadees line up to get a sunflower seed from the bird feeder.

DSC_1253Seth was the last child to leave for school this morning.  He walked carefully to the bus.  He normally runs full speed, perhaps he didn’t want to go?

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This morning was a two hour delay and frankly, we needed it.  I woke up to discover that Rich was already gone to work and all seven children were awake.  Sarah was sick on the couch, and Ethan was making french toast. As soon as my door opened Seth ran to me and asked if he could have a piece of French toast, too.  I stumbled into the kitchen and used the last of Ethan’s eggs to make Seth his requested breakfast.

Grace wandered around asking me for safety pins and I told her where to find them at my sewing table.

Jacob wanted french toast so I gave him directions on how to make the egg dip for the bread.  I made myself a cup of coffee and added French Vanilla creamer.

By the time Jacob was done making his breakfast, Seth asked for another piece, so this time I used Jacob’s left over egg.

David made himself scrambled eggs and asked me to put toast in the toaster for him so I did.

Sarah asked me to sit with her.  I got my Bible from my room and began reading the portions for the “bible in a year” program, with a reading in Exodus, Matthew, Psalms, and Proverbs.  I read it all out loud to her.  I read about the Nile being turned into blood and you should have seen Sarah’s face.  She gasped and was properly disgusted.  She asked several times, “Is this true?” and I was able to say in a motherly sort of tone, “This is the Word of God, and everything in it is true.”  We laughed over the names in the genealogies of the Israelites.  She said she thought they were weird names and I told her she was smart.  (I was impressed that she listened so intently, but when you’re sick you don’t have as much fight in you.)

Grace was trying to wear a pair of pants that fit almost perfectly; the waist was about 2 inches too big.  First she pinned them and then she tried a belt.  She was getting annoyed with the pants so I had her slip them off in my room and I took them in on my sewing machine.

As I sewed, screaming began in the boys’ room.  David found Seth playing the DS and took it away from him and Seth screamed at him and came to tell me about it.  My bobbin had just emptied (of course!) so as I talked to him, I got out my manual and refilled the bobbin, letting Seth help me by pressing the pedal.  “Slowly, Seth!  Slowly!”  David came and perched on my bed and I stopped what I was doing to say, “Dave.  SETH was not the problem in this situation.  YOU were the problem.  If you see Seth doing something that you don’t like, you need to come straight to ME and I will help you.  You are NOT Seth’s parent, I am his parent.  You are only Seth’s brother so he is offended when you boss him around.”  I made him give Seth back the DS (which Dave had put in his own dresser, even though it wasn’t even his) and then of course the GAME cartridge was missing, so I had to send Dave back to give Seth the game.  *sigh*  David was upset and wondering why HE was “always the bad guy.”

I got Grace’s pants taken in and now fit perfectly.  She was happy and asked if I would put her hair up in a bun for her.

I left my room and immediately smelled burning eggs.  Caleb was trying to make scrambled eggs and he did really well except he didn’t scramble them as they cooked.  Instead, he stood there and watched them burn, wondering when to “flip” them.  I ran over and flipped the eggs over and sure enough, there was a smoking, burned skin that I promptly tore off the top.  I took the egg patty out of the pan and placed it into the bowl containing french toast egg dip remnants.  I got Caleb a plate and some cheese, hoping with the cheese to make the eggs more palatable.  He didn’t complain or say anything. He just ate them.  I’m sure they had a taste of ash and cinnamon to them, but like I said, he had no comments.

Sarah was thirsty and requested a gatorade.  I went in the pantry but did not find any so I got her a juice pouch.  She wanted it in her teacup so she put the straw in and squirted juice into the cup, and some onto the coffee table, too.  I got the wood cleaner and paper towels to clean it up.

I sat Grace down and  put her hair in a pony tail, then braided it and sent her upstairs to pin it into a bun herself.  I noticed later that it didn’t happen.  She smiled and said that she gave up. She went to school with just a pony tail.

I noticed Jacob and Ethan both quietly reading their Literature books and secretly fumed, wondering why I hadn’t seen them doing their assigned reading YESTERDAY when they had the entire day off.  I may have even said something sarcastically but received no reply.

Finally, the High School bus came and took four children away to school.  I had another hour to get Caleb and Seth ready by washing faces, making sure their teeth and hair were brushed, and turning on an episode of Arthur.  I had nuts and a banana for breakfast and Seth ate a hotdog, a bowl of applesauce, and half a banana so I think it’s safe to say that his appetite is back after having the stomach bug.

I emptied a dishwasher, loaded the other one and pushed “start”.  I scrubbed off the island.

Eventually, the other two boys got on their busses and I could breathe a sigh of relief.  I love them all to death, I was amused by the chaotic morning, but I admit it was nice to have them leave for school.

{this moment} I’ve never found a child in this place before

I know the photo quality is terrible…this was taken at twilight yesterday…if you read yesterday’s post you know I’m dealing with a house full of sick people this week.  Well, Seth is healthy now and not only healthy but twice as active, impulsive, and mischievous as usual.  (I’m blaming the meds he’s on for his cold)…anyway, after an afternoon of dealing with his shenanigans, it was finally almost-but-not-soon-enough-for-Seth time to go to wrestling practice.  I still had to go to the bathroom, put on my shoes, and grab Rich’s dinner, so I sent hyper Seth out to wait in the car, with the admonition to “not turn it on!!!!”

*I’m impatiently going out the door into the frigid air to go on my THIRD trip of the day to the High School.
*I’m leaving sick children calling out to me for one more act of service before I vanish.
*I’m crying for my mom.
*I’m cursing the stomach bug.
*I’m hating the sport of wrestling.
*I’m limping on my bad knee.
*I’m feeling old ugly and worn down.
*I’m hungry and need a warm meal.

When I see this:

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All of a sudden, the Lord restored unto me my sense of humor, I took a crappy picture, drove him to school, and was still laughing about it in my bed last night as I fell asleep.  Dear, dear little boy.

But Jesus said, “Let the children come to me.  Don’t stop them!  For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to those who are like these children.”  

a valentine in november

Yesterday evening four year old Sarah sat at the dining room table all by herself.  She was busy with a guitar pick maker that was given to Ethan a few years ago.  The pick-maker is a hole punch that makes a single guitar pick out of old credit cards, thick plastic, and what have you.  She was having a lovely time going around and around several pieces of scrap paper with it.   She ended up making about 50 guitar picks, all from paper.  She carefully wrote on some and decorated others.

She called them Valentines.

She took a handful upstairs to the boys’ room and bestowed them to brother Jacob.  He accepted them with gratitude.

She had lots more to give away, and wandered over to me,  “Mom, do you want a Valentine?”

“Why yes, Sarah, thank you!” I replied, honored.  She carefully placed one in my out stretched hand.

Along with the letters “SMI”, this is what I discovered written on my *valentine*:

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I had to find the paper this came from to see how it happened:  It was a letter from school about a “school wide assembly”!!!

how to get a free coffee

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(sharing just for fun, not to recommend thievery!)

1. you must have mama-brain, you must go through a drive-thru
2. order the coffee, and order other things
3. when they hand you your coffee first, take it, put it in your cup holder and forget you have it.
4. pay for food, wait for food
5. hand donut to child while continuing to wait for food.
6. when they say, “there you go, have a nice day” tell them they forgot to give you your coffee
7. receive free coffee
8. drive away

 

 

I’m seriously losing it!  This was completely unintentional I would never steal!

The next time I go I’m going to tell them the story and pay for the extra one, I guess.  That’s the honest thing to do, right?  SO embarassing.

I showed Dave and he said I should do it again, only nine times, with hot chocolate.

last night

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a simply lovely life

Caleb, our eight year old, had his chorus concert last night so I made him take a shower.  I slicked his hair back good and used gel to make it hold.

Doesn’t he look handsome?

Even more than his Dad’s good looks, it’s what I see coming from his eyes….his gentle, sweet soul…..

Rich was at Jacob’s track meet (J got fourth in Javelin) and Grace was at youth group.  Ethan sat in the back of the auditorium (he had baseball practice so I brought him dinner on a paper plate) with Dave and I sat up toward the front, with Seth on one side and Sarah on the other.

During the performance, Sarah whispered into my ear, “Caleb was being a good singing.”   I immediately sent that one to Rich.  (kid quotes)

During the performance, Seth whispered into my ear, “I’m so so hungry!”  Come to find out, I had completely missed giving Seth his dinner.  (large family problems).

When we were leaving the school he asked, “Mom?  Can we go someplace to eat?”  I said, “Sure!  Home!”,  to which he replied indignantly, “That’s NOT A PLACE!  IT’S A HOME!”

It began to rain and we saw a big rainbow.

Rich was in the kitchen loading the dishwasher when I stepped in the house.  We hugged for a long time.

being seen when you don’t want to be seen (today, so far)

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We talk about the weather in January, and did you know that pretty much the whole USA is cold today? It’s 10 degrees here, what is it in your “neck of the woods?”

Rich wore suspenders (with dress pants, dress shirt, and tie) to work for the second day in a row and my does he look snazzy!

I started a fire in the fireplace today after going out and daintily gathering 10 of our smallest logs off the wood pile.

Do you have any idea what happens when your husband and teenage boys neglect to take the garbage to the road for 2 weeks? And meanwhile, Christmas came with all the packaging and wrapping paper happened, too?  With a family of nine, it piles up. My poor porch has been a temporary garbage holding place and I have been BUGGED.

Thankfully, they got it out last night, the garbage truck went by this morning and (because I was bugged) I asked David and Caleb to bring the empty, big, lidded cans back to the house and push them right up to the steps so I could clear my porch. We live on a typically quiet road but it runs kind of close to the house. As soon as the boys left for school, I went outside to throw all the trash bags into the empty cans….and wouldn’t you know it, JUST as I was getting IN a can to jump up and down (they were quickly filling up) a car went by very slowly, and then a bus parked down below (why?), and the next door neighbor, and another, went by very slowly, as I was IN the can. I couldn’t “smile and wave” so I ignored them and *pretended* to be fully concentrated on my job. It was so cold I didn’t blush (couldn’t). My porch is clean now, all except for a big huge box. We have no room left in the cans for this week’s garbage…….

Ethan called to tell me that he forgot his wrestling stuff and could I get it to him before 2? I don’t like having to bundle up Seth and Sarah and take them out into the cold for a 10 minute trip to school….but since I had to do it, I did it right away. I was wearing stretch pants, no make up, pony tail and my bangs were pulled straight back with a bobby pin. I looked pretty ugly but I put on a loud kid’s music cd (from Eli) and went through the drive-thru at Dunkin Donuts to get us some treats only to find that my window was frozen securely shut. I had to pull around out front and actually go in, in all my hideousness. Two chocolate creams and an apple n’ cinnamon, and a chocolate latte. Seth and Sarah Joy LOVED their donuts (I usually always get them plain because I try not to give them too much sugar).

I really wanted my donut, too, but then I got to thinking, “Ethan would be so surprised if I slipped this into his bag and he found it when he got to wrestling practice.” “But it will only REWARD him for being forgetful.” “Well, just this once. I’ll talk to him about it later. I have quite enough calories with this latte.”

Decidedly, I rolled down the top of the donut bag and put it in his string bag, right on top of the shoes.

I had a nice little chat with the school secretary and then I was on my way.

When I got back home I put the preschoolers to bed and now I’m enjoying the fire and a quiet house. I went out to get the mail at 1pm wearing my slippers and bright red fuzzy robe and ….. you guessed it, the mail lady went back through just as I got out there.

But that time I did smile and wave.