Caleb and I made cookies today and I thought, “I’ve seen this *face behind a beater* before!”
Sure enough…..from 7 years ago…..January 4, 2008…..
Caleb, now and then.
Caleb and I made cookies today and I thought, “I’ve seen this *face behind a beater* before!”
Sure enough…..from 7 years ago…..January 4, 2008…..
Caleb, now and then.
“Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life.” Psalm 23:6
(yesterday, early morning) The snow was falling and blowing all over the place….the flakes were small and icy cold.
(yesterday, around noon). The snow was till coming down and the road wasn’t plowed.
When the snow let up in the afternoon, Rich went out to plow the driveways with his tractor. Ethan, Seth, David, and Caleb got dressed to play on the mountains of snow their Dad made.
They came inside with blotchy skin, it was so cold that it took a little while, and some hot chocolate, to defrost.
We began to see a little traffic on the roads again.
Grace and Jacob, who was recovering from being sick, played a card game. David searched the cupboards for something to eat, Rich was in the other room on a phone call.
The rest of these pictures are from this morning. We rarely get a snowstorm that causes us to have to shovel our porch.
“This is ridiculous!” ~Sherlock the Cat
Shadow of the house where I was standing on the porch, and drifts against the garage.
You would think that with a three car garage I would not have to deal with this.
Sherlock is cute because he likes to all of a sudden dive into the snow and play like a crazy cat. it was too much for Parker the Dog, so he pounced on the cat to play, too.
(Emily are you reading this? I love you!)
a walking path through the snow
I took this picture back in the house, through the glass door. The chickadees line up to get a sunflower seed from the bird feeder.
Seth was the last child to leave for school this morning. He walked carefully to the bus. He normally runs full speed, perhaps he didn’t want to go?
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This morning was a two hour delay and frankly, we needed it. I woke up to discover that Rich was already gone to work and all seven children were awake. Sarah was sick on the couch, and Ethan was making french toast. As soon as my door opened Seth ran to me and asked if he could have a piece of French toast, too. I stumbled into the kitchen and used the last of Ethan’s eggs to make Seth his requested breakfast.
Grace wandered around asking me for safety pins and I told her where to find them at my sewing table.
Jacob wanted french toast so I gave him directions on how to make the egg dip for the bread. I made myself a cup of coffee and added French Vanilla creamer.
By the time Jacob was done making his breakfast, Seth asked for another piece, so this time I used Jacob’s left over egg.
David made himself scrambled eggs and asked me to put toast in the toaster for him so I did.
Sarah asked me to sit with her. I got my Bible from my room and began reading the portions for the “bible in a year” program, with a reading in Exodus, Matthew, Psalms, and Proverbs. I read it all out loud to her. I read about the Nile being turned into blood and you should have seen Sarah’s face. She gasped and was properly disgusted. She asked several times, “Is this true?” and I was able to say in a motherly sort of tone, “This is the Word of God, and everything in it is true.” We laughed over the names in the genealogies of the Israelites. She said she thought they were weird names and I told her she was smart. (I was impressed that she listened so intently, but when you’re sick you don’t have as much fight in you.)
Grace was trying to wear a pair of pants that fit almost perfectly; the waist was about 2 inches too big. First she pinned them and then she tried a belt. She was getting annoyed with the pants so I had her slip them off in my room and I took them in on my sewing machine.
As I sewed, screaming began in the boys’ room. David found Seth playing the DS and took it away from him and Seth screamed at him and came to tell me about it. My bobbin had just emptied (of course!) so as I talked to him, I got out my manual and refilled the bobbin, letting Seth help me by pressing the pedal. “Slowly, Seth! Slowly!” David came and perched on my bed and I stopped what I was doing to say, “Dave. SETH was not the problem in this situation. YOU were the problem. If you see Seth doing something that you don’t like, you need to come straight to ME and I will help you. You are NOT Seth’s parent, I am his parent. You are only Seth’s brother so he is offended when you boss him around.” I made him give Seth back the DS (which Dave had put in his own dresser, even though it wasn’t even his) and then of course the GAME cartridge was missing, so I had to send Dave back to give Seth the game. *sigh* David was upset and wondering why HE was “always the bad guy.”
I got Grace’s pants taken in and now fit perfectly. She was happy and asked if I would put her hair up in a bun for her.
I left my room and immediately smelled burning eggs. Caleb was trying to make scrambled eggs and he did really well except he didn’t scramble them as they cooked. Instead, he stood there and watched them burn, wondering when to “flip” them. I ran over and flipped the eggs over and sure enough, there was a smoking, burned skin that I promptly tore off the top. I took the egg patty out of the pan and placed it into the bowl containing french toast egg dip remnants. I got Caleb a plate and some cheese, hoping with the cheese to make the eggs more palatable. He didn’t complain or say anything. He just ate them. I’m sure they had a taste of ash and cinnamon to them, but like I said, he had no comments.
Sarah was thirsty and requested a gatorade. I went in the pantry but did not find any so I got her a juice pouch. She wanted it in her teacup so she put the straw in and squirted juice into the cup, and some onto the coffee table, too. I got the wood cleaner and paper towels to clean it up.
I sat Grace down and put her hair in a pony tail, then braided it and sent her upstairs to pin it into a bun herself. I noticed later that it didn’t happen. She smiled and said that she gave up. She went to school with just a pony tail.
I noticed Jacob and Ethan both quietly reading their Literature books and secretly fumed, wondering why I hadn’t seen them doing their assigned reading YESTERDAY when they had the entire day off. I may have even said something sarcastically but received no reply.
Finally, the High School bus came and took four children away to school. I had another hour to get Caleb and Seth ready by washing faces, making sure their teeth and hair were brushed, and turning on an episode of Arthur. I had nuts and a banana for breakfast and Seth ate a hotdog, a bowl of applesauce, and half a banana so I think it’s safe to say that his appetite is back after having the stomach bug.
I emptied a dishwasher, loaded the other one and pushed “start”. I scrubbed off the island.
Eventually, the other two boys got on their busses and I could breathe a sigh of relief. I love them all to death, I was amused by the chaotic morning, but I admit it was nice to have them leave for school.
Rich and I went to Orlando with Caleb and Seth this summer. I have already blogged about the majority of our vacation except for the fact that we went zip lining. Gatorland doesn’t allow people to zip line with personal phones or cameras, so our group was photographed by a Gatorland photographer. We purchased the CD of all the photos, and I just got them saved to my computer this past weekend.
When Rich told me that the activity for our group was zip lining, I didn’t say anything. I was thinking that it would be a very easy thing for me to get out of. It was an activity primarily for him and his team (from work) and I imagined I would explore the rest of the park while they had their excitement, which to me sounded exactly like a panic attack waiting to happen.
But somehow, maybe it was peer pressure, I found myself being pulled along with the whole group, until I was in the building signing consent forms for myself and my two little boys, and then watching the educational video and listening to the bearded young men teasing us about what was about to happen.
I felt like I was going to faint or wet my pants or cry, and I looked at my excited sons’ faces and thought what kind of mother am I??
But still I kept going with it!! I didn’t want to make a scene, so perhaps it was pride that made me zip line that day.
I wasn’t the only one fearful, several of the others were obviously unsure of the whole thing, so that was one small comfort. However, the whole group loved having the boys with us, because they were so cute and truly inspired us scared adults. “IF THEY can do it I can do it!!”
“Clip in and ‘zip’ off on an exciting outdoor adventure with the all-new Screamin’ Gator Zip Line at Gatorland Your journey will take you along 1,200 feet of high flying, heart pounding adventure from some of the finest zip line towers in the world. Standing over seven stories tall, these amazing towers feature multilevel launch pads and breathtaking views from high above the treetops.” ~from the brochure
After walking up several flights of stairs we took turns getting hooked up and watching each other zip along….this is dear Caleb.
As a mother, it was hard for me to see them do this activity, but I was proud of them, and knew they were in good hands.
They will never forget this experience, I know.
Tiny Seth sometimes felt as though he wouldn’t make it to the other end, his body didn’t gain the speed necessary to go as fast as he wanted to.
He looked concerned.
Rich loved it.
I held on for dear life.
The worst thing was the bearded young men and their teasing. One time they got me hooked up, let me go off the platform, and as I zipped away, he leaned after me yelling, “No, WAIT!!” It took a moment to realize he was joking, and that moment was terrifying.
They took another group photo at the next platform. We’re all happy we survived the first run.
If you click on the photo, you can see it larger. These were the best photos of us…over the gators!
I’m thankful for Rich because if it weren’t for him I would not be having such an exciting life.
They were encouraging us all to let go and pose for the camera but I didn’t remember until I was almost to the end of the line.
There was a bearded young man waiting to catch me.
(they all had beards! LOL)
Click on this to see Caleb’s adorable face!! I asked him this morning if he would ever zip line again and he yelled “YES! OF COURSE I WOULD!”
My baby boy.
He waved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can’t stand the cuteness.
Seth going in for the landing…….after these two zip lines there were more to do but no more pictures were taken.
Just writing this post increased my heart rate.
*****
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” — Mark Twain
There have been many times when I refused to do something because it was scary. I will never be a daring adventurous person, but it does feels good to say yes sometimes, experience something new, and have the joy of making a fantastic memory.
((SETH AND CALEB in the plane. Caleb, a more cautious type, was quietly worried and gave up his window seat to Seth. They were excellent travelers. Seth loved going to the bathroom.))
The first thing Caleb did this morning was go to the table to continue working on his first big lego set. He is 9 and the set has 738 pieces in it. He has three older brothers and typically lets them put his sets together for him. I am proud to see that he is getting old enough to follow the directions carefully and do it himself. It takes some concentration and determination for a boy to put a lego set together, and it’s so healthy and good for their minds. Before you know it, you’ve convinced yourself that fifty odd dollars on a box of plastic bricks is worth every penny!
My husband had to work in the Orlando office after lunch, so the boys and I walked to Downtown Disney. They were already enlightened by the knowledge of a LEGO STORE, and I figured we may as well cross that off our list of things to do…..with springs in our steps we practically ran to find the legos.
Isn’t it funny how a girl’s mind changes when she becomes a grown up and a mom? I’m so used to giving the children experiences that I almost forget what I myself enjoy! If I was a little girl the last place I would want to go to would be the Lego store. (I know some girls love them and that’s great and all, but not me). On the last day in Orlando I went alone to a completely girlie store in Downtown Disney….I smelled every bar of soap and bath bomb in the place and treated myself to my own souvenirs…and everything was PINK.
We stopped to give Buzz a pat. I have pictures of this same Buzz with baby David (first trip), and then the older children, too (second trip).
Caleb likes “How to Train a Dragon” (he just finished reading the book) these days, so he was thrilled to be greeted by a fire breathing dragon made of legos.
We also found the seven dwarfs made of legos.
While admiring the sea monster made of legos in the water, the boys excitedly told me there was a bird to take a picture of. This happened all through our trip, they would point out bits of nature and I knew my family’s love for God’s creation was being was passed along to them, even if unintentional. They collected a white feather to give to Grandma, and wanted me to pack palm tree bark to take back for Uncle Dave. I am sorry, Uncle Dave but I never did pick any up for you.
A somewhat disturbing image of Snow White.
We entered the store of happiness. My job of keeping my eyes on two little boys just got even more exciting.
Seth had no trouble picking out his new set. It kills me that he lost Bilbo Baggins before we even got home. He still has the golden ring, though.
They are always so thoughtful to point their fingers, grab my arm, and say LOOK! over and over because they know how much I appreciate the legos.
This is 17 year old Jacob’s dream lego set. Only three hundred and ninety nine dollars! Awesome!
Actually, they have so many legos at this point that he put together a pretty decent death star with instructions off the computer. (=free)
( did I just say death star? like I know what I’m talking about?? who am I??)
Caleb really and truly wanted a Lego Movie set and at first I said no to the one he wanted because, if I remember correctly, it was 10 dollars more than Seth’s. But then I thought, “this is Disney, where dreams come true” and said yes. I can’t even show you a picture of it because I didn’t take one. But it’s the “Lord Business’ Evil Lair” set which includes a tiny sign that says “Where are my Pants?”, and other fun things you will only understand if you watch the movie, which I have about five times now.
I don’t know, they just pointed it out to me so I took a picture.
The Incredible Hulk was there.
Seth with Lego Woody and Lego Buzz, and trying to keep his lego set in his arms.
At the register I joined the lego VIP club, it’s about time, right? We also received a free lego set (of a car) for spending over 100 dollars.
Next, I made them go to into a shop so I could get a sweatshirt. I lost my anthropologie white sweater at the airport 😦
I made them go into the Ghirardelli chocolate store so I could get a frozen latte. (caffeine!)
Then we headed back to the room(s) so the boys could put together their mini figures.
The hotel messed up our reservations so we ended up staying in the best suite of the entire Hilton…the presidential suite.
It gave the boys plenty of room to spread out their lego sets without mixing them up.
Caleb was here::
And Seth was here::
If you have boys, perhaps they would like to see this blog post. Tell them, when you go to Disney, there are legos there!
After half a day of travel and an adventure in the Lego store, Caleb and Seth settled into their covers for a movie::Kung Fu Panda 2. Seth fell asleep.
After their rest time, we left to go to dinner with Rich’s team.
*****
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I see a Caleb.
In just a few short baseball seasons, he went from Caleb the Clueless, to Caleb the Catcher. He’s turned into a legitimate little leaguer!
In general, I’ve gotten over taking photos at ball games, because moments at the fields are as common place now as loading the dishwasher. However, something possessed me to take the camera on Monday, and I got these great shots of Caleb the Catcher.
CATCHER! To me, it seems a scary position to play. Indeed, I’ve heard errant bats hit my Caleb several times, but he’s always fine (doesn’t seem to faze him at all). He’s got the gift.
There is this other kid on the team who wants to be catcher, too, and Caleb doesn’t say a word. He just goes out to right field and waits until the next “at field”, when the other kid all too predictably relinquishes the position back to Caleb………….
Here is Caleb, coming in to home plate. Have I mentioned, he’s a good hitter, too? His technique is to smash hit the first pitch that comes in (and I usually miss it, he’s that quick). He has a job to do for the team and he’s gonna do it, by golly.
He got the run in and now he stands in the dugout and shouts words of encouragement to his team mates (he really does!, he’s an awesome boy, sweet, sweet, sweet).
Then, after the three outs, he comes out and lets his attendants dress him in the catcher’s costume (it’s so cool–is that why he likes to be catcher?)
He isn’t impressed at all by what’s happening to his legs (coach is fussing and buckling him into the pads), he keeps an eye on the competition.
To me, the funniest thing about the process is the way he keeps reaching and leaning to get the rest of his pads as the coach continues to deal with the legs.
You can almost hear the coaches thoughts, “will the kid hold still already?!?”
He’s putting on the face mask.
While yet another coach deals with the everlasting leg pads.
You can almost hear Caleb’s thoughts, “will they be done before Christmas?!?!”
Coach gives him a hit on the top of the helmet and off he goes.
He realizes Moms got the camera on him.
So he gets into the classic caleb-catcher pose.
Caleb wants you to know they won and are currently in 2nd place. There is another game tonight!
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I have some more news about Caleb. In all his rough and tumble adventures in life, this boy’s legs (in spite of all the protection during ball games) are covered in scrub marks, scratches, small cuts, bug bites, and bruises. And now, because of me, he has a burn across his beautiful FACE. First his legs, now his face (his comment). I swear, I was all alone in the kitchen when I took dinner out of the top oven last night. As soon as I turned around to put it on the island behind me, he was there.
He looks like a boy that got whipped in the face with a 350 degree casserole.
a simply lovely life
Caleb, our eight year old, had his chorus concert last night so I made him take a shower. I slicked his hair back good and used gel to make it hold.
Doesn’t he look handsome?
Even more than his Dad’s good looks, it’s what I see coming from his eyes….his gentle, sweet soul…..
Rich was at Jacob’s track meet (J got fourth in Javelin) and Grace was at youth group. Ethan sat in the back of the auditorium (he had baseball practice so I brought him dinner on a paper plate) with Dave and I sat up toward the front, with Seth on one side and Sarah on the other.
During the performance, Sarah whispered into my ear, “Caleb was being a good singing.” I immediately sent that one to Rich. (kid quotes)
During the performance, Seth whispered into my ear, “I’m so so hungry!” Come to find out, I had completely missed giving Seth his dinner. (large family problems).
When we were leaving the school he asked, “Mom? Can we go someplace to eat?” I said, “Sure! Home!”, to which he replied indignantly, “That’s NOT A PLACE! IT’S A HOME!”
It began to rain and we saw a big rainbow.
Rich was in the kitchen loading the dishwasher when I stepped in the house. We hugged for a long time.
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