{this moment}

{this moment} ~ A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. ~ inspired by soulemama

 

DSC_2140

Sarah’s 4th Birthday

DSC_1907

The baby of our family just turned four years old.  My friend Heather and I were trying to get together and that morning (of Sarah’s birthday) was the time that worked best for us both, so I turned the visit into a little playdate for Sarah and some of her (my) friends.  We had 8 little ones amongst us four mamas and only two of the children were girls.  Sarah was thankful to have one little girlfriend attend, but with five brothers of her own she felt quite comfortable with the boys, too.

 

DSC_1909

We played for a couple of hours outside, and then we had lunch together which consisted of pasta with butter, cut up hot dogs, applesauce cups, and juice boxes.

The mamas had turkey burgers.

 

DSC_1910

What a gift it was to have little babies in the house.  I so love to watch a woman with her baby, it’s a beautiful thing to see and brings back so many wonderful memories of those days, for me.  This friend of mine loves her babies passionately (she & her husband have four sons)…..

 

DSC_1911

And this friend thoughtfully bounced her baby’s seat with her foot as she ate.  So darling.

 

DSC_1912

Grace calls this baby boy HER baby, because I took her with me to see him in the hospital when he was born.  We both got to hold him when he was just a day or so old.  I met his mama at Community Bible Study, she lives the next town over, we are the same age and have become friends.  (so thankful!)

 

DSC_1914

 

DSC_1925

So yeah, this was a crazy attempt at a group picture.  I laugh every time I look at it.

 

DSC_1922

This was the best we did…..I think a few of us were shrieking to get them to look forward.   They were all so good that day, and I loved watching them explore the ponds, see the chickens, chase cats, jump on the trampoline, blow bubbles, and dig in the sand.  So busy, so energetic, such a zest for all of life, and no one got hurt!

 

DSC_1927

After our group photo we had cupcakes and ice cream.  (I only wish I had planned ahead to order the cupcakes from Nicole, our town’s lovely c.cake baker!)

As soon as we began singing, Sarah looked at her brother with the most thrilled expression.  She was waiting and waiting for this birthday and it was really and truly here!

 

DSC_1928

 

 

DSC_1932

Such a good mama…..she delights in her new son.  I thought it was cute that they sort of dressed alike.

 

IMG_3705

After Heather and Michal left, Alysha and I sat down by the stream to chat and let the children play some more…..isn’t she so adorable?  We met last February when she skidded her van into our stream and we rescued her and the boys.  True story.  (God does things so interestingly).  I was telling her son (not the baby) as he got wet, “You’ve been IN this stream before!”  ‘Cause we can laugh about it, now that it’s been over a year.

*****

(hours later)

DSC_1941

There are times now when the whole family cannot gather around to watch the birthday child open gifts and blow out the candles.  For Sarah’s birthday this year we were all home except Ethan.  We missed him.  He was at a baseball game.

 

DSC_1942

She opened her gifts with Caleb on one side and Seth on the other.

Grace wrapped the gifts in blue paper tape because of course we didn’t find the regular tape until the next day.

DSC_1946

It was so nice of Caleb to immediately offer to hold Sarah’s money, wasn’t it?  Such a good big brother.  With her money, Sarah has been trying to bribe Seth into playing what SHE wants to play.  I hear her saying, “I’ll GIVE YOU A DOLLLLAAAR” in a sing-song voice.  (but I do not allow bribing, although I am known to give a dollar to the child who finds me the remote to the TV).  I don’t know how I get on these topics.

 

DSC_1951

I just love the way Caleb and Seth were so happy for Sarah to receive this princess dress.  “rejoice with those who rejoice”

 

DSC_1959

Opening the tea set  *that face*

 

DSC_1964

I think she was telling him that don’t worry, she would let him use it with her.  He can’t wait.

 

DSC_1967

Then, oh joy, it was strawberry cake time.  I let Sarah place the jelly beans on it herself.  It was a new, buttery, fussy, for-real a recipe from a legitimate bake shop down south….the flavor was great but I didn’t let it bake long enough so it was gummy.  (so disappointed=take it from me, in life’s perfection there is much more to go wrong, so say these little words with me, “OH WELL”–and learn the art of letting go.)  What matters is the love, my friends.  It’s the thought that counts most of all.

I am determined to try again with the recipe!

DSC_1969

Smiling through another (the second, what a lucky little girl) rendition of the birthday song.  My darling blond baby who is now “big”, it’s true.

 

DSC_1971

 

DSC_1973

 

m213972825

she was born on a sunday morning

 

 

 

home for her (quote)


DSC_2136

(old cookbooks from my friend Kara)

“She dreamed up her home, filled it with the abandoned goods of other people’s lives, rejected the perfect housekeeping standards of the woman who lived in it fifty-four years before her, opted for imagination over monotony, overruled perfection for authenticity, and out of necessity accepted her role as ‘housekeeper’, but in spirit is a ‘homemaker’.  Home for her is inspired by experience, tastes, and the strong desire to keep memories of everything she does not want to lose.  She believes fervently in intimacy and comfort and asserts with her philosophical Russian soul, “that beautiful homes bring up beautiful people, in every sense of the word.”

pg 117,  A Perfectly Kept House is the Sign of a Misspent Life,  by Mary Randolph Carter

DSC_2105

(wall in my bedroom with little bits and pieces of my heart)

DSC_2117

 (freshly picked lilacs on a doily made by Great Grandma)

DSC_2119

(beautifully messy bookshelf)

DSC_2108

(small things)

DSC_2125

(nature art purchased from the antique show, and thrift store)

DSC_2132

 (latest pages from scrapbook/journal)

at home, outdoors

Image

In him
we live
and move
and have our being.

Acts 17:28

Good morning friends, a beautiful day has dawned bright and fair.  I am putting my feet up after cleaning the kitchen.  This morning I made a pancake breakfast for David, Caleb, Seth, and Sarah Joy.  David said, as he ate his second big ‘cake, that I made The Best Pancakes and I said,  “I used your Grandma’s recipe, you know”.

(Thanks, mama.)  

There are candles flickering yellow, and the dishwasher is humming.

Little Seth is climbing up into the recliner to snuggle up close.

Today Grace has a follow up appointment for her fractured finger, and this afternoon the boys have dentist appointments, so I thought I would use some time this morning to post some pictures from the weekend (and yesterday)….these early summer days are utterly inspiring with their beauty.  It’s so good to be outdoors with the trees, flowers, and grasses turning brilliant green.

 

DSC_1980

I draped the camera with a kitchen towel to take a picture of the children’s melting chalk drawings, in a pouring rain, the colors swirled and Sarah was sad.

 

DSC_1983

joys of childhood (watching with a mama’s heart, content)

 

DSC_1995

 

DSC_1999

 

DSC_2001

 

DSC_2005

 

DSC_2008

playing jacks (with fresh, new chalk drawings)

 

DSC_2009

 

CSC_2032

 

DSC_2014

 

DSC_2021

an old wooden crate planted to bachelor buttons~

 

CSC_2031

David was silently  mouthing “help” to me.  He is at the age when any display of affection toward himself is embarrassing.

DSC_2034

Jacob and Ethan

 

DSC_2036

muffin lunch

 

DSC_2038

 

DSC_2041

under the pine trees

 

DSC_2043

 

DSC_2053

I was thrilled to discover this pink flowering bush hiding behind the other trees down at the pond.  It is about 10 feet tall and must have bloomed every summer since we moved here without me ever noticing…….(how?)…..a happy surprise.

I recognized the blossoms from Grandma’s garden but looked it up in a flower book just to be sure; it’s a PINXTER FLOWER; pink azalea

“This much-branched shrub is especially showy in flower.  It is relatively tolerant of dry sites and can be transplanted into wild shrub gardens.”

 

DSC_2055

 

DSC_2059

 

DSC_2064

 

Jack-in-the-pulpit, or Indian Turnip

These aremgrowing in the forest.  I’ve always been amused by them, probably because they have such a personality as preacher-men.

DSC_2065

See?  Here is “Jack” in his pulpit.  Is anyone listening?  All the other flowers in the forest, perhaps?

“Because of needle-like calcium oxalate crystals and perhaps other acrid substances in the swollen, underground stem, it is peppery to the taste and causes a strong burning reaction if eaten raw; this unpleasant property can be eliminated by cooking.  Native Americans gathered the fleshy corms for food.”

DSC_2066

This was growing up straight and tall in the middle of a group of ferns.  When I touched it I was surprised by how dry and “scrubby” it felt.

DSC_2072

 

DSC_2083

Seth has been spending a lot of time silently walking around and around the ponds, trying to catch bull frogs.  When he caught this one he brought it to show us, holding it high over his head with a grin and yelling, “Praise the Lord!”

God smiles.

DSC_2085

Millions of toad tadpoles in our pond.

DSC_2088

My beautiful son all tired out from the very best of activities; running wild in the great outdoors.

 

DSC_2093

Our window-shelf of nature books.

 

“I wonder if anything will be–can be–any more beautiful than this,” murmured Anne, looking around her with the loving, enraptured eyes of those to whom “home” must always be the loveliest spot in the world, no matter what fairer lands may lie under alien stars.”  Anne of the Island, LM Montgomery

 

 

Have a wonderful day, my friends.  Look around you at all the interesting things in this world, there is much to see.

You are loved.

 

3 little stories from the past 24 hours

IMG_3688

Blue Sweater

There is just something extra special about a handmade sweater, especially if it’s made by an old white haired lady.  After receiving it, the young mama puts it on her little one with thoughts of the granny who made it, and it’s like wrapping up that child up in a hug.  Yes, years ago, when my firstborn was a little boy, his Great-Great Grandma made him and his little brother both warm sweaters.  These sweaters, everyone agreed, were special, because they zipped up the back.  Through the years of putting the sweaters on the children, I would get a little thrill as I told them to *turn around* so I could zip them (up the back).  The oldest wore his light blue sweater, then the second oldest wore it, then the third oldest, then the fourth oldest, then the fifth oldest, then the sixth oldest, and last but never ever least, it was Sarah Joy’s turn.  (she’s the youngest)

This sweater is one of the only articles of clothing that was worn by all seven children.

(Unrelated:  “Why are we Still Wearing Sweaters at the End of May?”)

IMG_3687

 

DSC_1906

Morning Milk Delivery

You know how some mornings you wake up just ready?  Ready to pleasantly tackle any ol’ problem that comes your way?  You’re full of optimism, you have a song in your heart, and can’t wait to wrap your arms around your loved ones?   I don’t either, but some mornings are definitely better than others.  The first thing I do when I wake up is stumble out of my bedroom, say good morning to the teenagers, and make my way over to the coffee pot.  This morning, I was extra and beyond tired.  When I made my way to the coffee pot, I discovered to my horror that Jacob had beaten me to the remainder of the half and half.  He thought he had the right to finish it!  I said, “If this ever happens again, and the carton is almost gone, DON’T USE IT UP, DON’T TOUCH IT, LEAVE IT FOR ME!”  Jacob was offended, “Then I won’t get any!” he cried.  “Yes, yes, that’s right.”  I nodded.  To make matters even more discouraging we were completely out of milk (and we had been, for days).  We have the $ to buy milk, rest assured, it was just one of those things that I hadn’t taken care of yet.  It would ruin my morning to drink coffee without cream or milk.  I ran into my bedroom to whine to my husband, who laughed at me and said “You’ll have to go out this morning and buy some!”  I whined some more about not wanting to go, I couldn’t go, I just couldn’t handle going shopping with Seth and Sarah and………..”  He left for work still laughing!  I thought and thought about what to do, and I had no gumption.  Should I put the kids in the car and go through a drive through for coffee?  But, that wouldn’t help with the milk situation.  Should I buzz down to the grocery store?  It was only 6:30!  I went downstairs to wake up the boys for school and then went to my room to get dressed.  I was downcast and my spirit was low within me.  I could hear the boys in the kitchen.  I went out to put cream cheese on their bagels and saw …… my husband was back home, and at the coffee maker.  It took me a few seconds (did he forget something?) before I realized that he had indeed BOUGHT MILK and BROUGHT IT HOME to MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!  I squealed and ran toward him.  He took off running around the kitchen and I chased him around the island saying thank you!  thank you so much!  As I hugged him around the neck I could hear Caleb saying, “Does this mean I can have cereal now?”  Rich pointed dramatically at Caleb like I was choking him and he couldn’t get away, “Your son wants some cereal.”

Sometimes milk is even better than a bouquet of flowers.

 

DSC_1913

This is Such a Weird Coincidence 

So, as I drank my wonderful coffee this morning, I got on the computer.  I went to the blog and clicked into the archives, looking at and reading about what we were doing as a family last year.   I could hear Seth and Sarah rummaging in my room but I was pretty much just telling myself that surely they were being good and not making a mess (uh-huh, yeah).  Presently, Sarah came to me and got in the chair.  She had a pretty little bejeweled fabric box in her hands.  Interestingly enough, I myself had come across the box this past weekend, in another box in my room, so I knew that she had done some serious rummaging to find it.  To me it was just another thing in the house, but she was agog over it and wanted to know if she could have it.  “No,” I answered, “that’s mama’s box.”  It was filled with embroidery floss and I told her to leave it alone.  She remained compliantly by my side and glanced at the computer screen.  I scrolled down, talking to her and showing her the pictures.  “Mom, wait!”  She pointed at a picture.  “See?  This IS my box!”  “What?” I said, astounded.  Because, there before my eyes was a picture of Rich last year, passing out gifts to the children from their Grandma Leslie, and there was Sarah, with bright eyes, holding on to the very same box she had found this morning in my room!

I immediately and humbly returned it to her, as I can’t argue with concrete evidence.

CSC_1914

 

It was just too weird!! What are the chances of 1) her actually FINDING the box  2) at the exact time that I came across the picture I took when she first received it! 3) Honestly, I really didn’t remember where the thing had come from!  I just thought it was my own pretty embroidery floss container.

She carried it around all morning.

 

last night

DSC_1901

a simply lovely life

Caleb, our eight year old, had his chorus concert last night so I made him take a shower.  I slicked his hair back good and used gel to make it hold.

Doesn’t he look handsome?

Even more than his Dad’s good looks, it’s what I see coming from his eyes….his gentle, sweet soul…..

Rich was at Jacob’s track meet (J got fourth in Javelin) and Grace was at youth group.  Ethan sat in the back of the auditorium (he had baseball practice so I brought him dinner on a paper plate) with Dave and I sat up toward the front, with Seth on one side and Sarah on the other.

During the performance, Sarah whispered into my ear, “Caleb was being a good singing.”   I immediately sent that one to Rich.  (kid quotes)

During the performance, Seth whispered into my ear, “I’m so so hungry!”  Come to find out, I had completely missed giving Seth his dinner.  (large family problems).

When we were leaving the school he asked, “Mom?  Can we go someplace to eat?”  I said, “Sure!  Home!”,  to which he replied indignantly, “That’s NOT A PLACE!  IT’S A HOME!”

It began to rain and we saw a big rainbow.

Rich was in the kitchen loading the dishwasher when I stepped in the house.  We hugged for a long time.

loving others

“When life is a weariness and escape impossible, it is wonderful to have a friend who can bring us peace with the touch of a hand.”

“Those were the good days.  They were serene days and quite undemonstrative, like the best days in one’s life; the boy never forgot them.  Nothing happens; one simply lives and breathes and wishes for nothing more, and nothing more.”

Independent People by Halldor Laxness

DSC_1852

new dress

DSC_1850

striking a pose but has a wedgie

DSC_1857

DSC_1860

“what are those brothers up to now?”

DSC_1862

two toy cats, one in each hand, named Stacey and Jessica

DSC_1871

 

I held her cats as she crossed the stream.

 

 

DSC_1876

how I love this daughter of mine

DSC_1881

with her big brother, they look so much alike

DSC_1884

What a blessing it is to have older children to help arrange days of fun with loved friends.  As parents, we desire and delight that the children *want to bring their friends* to our home.  It lifts the soul to talk and laugh together with a house full of happy people, comfortable and relaxed in our relationships.

DSC_1891

DSC_1892

DSC_1887

DSC_1899

10321096_10152419762081343_264803301826842615_o

 

Today is the delicious feeling of a good healthy TIRED, the result of yesterday’s full day of fun, and memories.  Oh how we need one another, our friends, our community, our families.  I watched with contentment in my heart as children from multiple families ran in and out of doors, ate their treats, teased, laughed, got dirty, and had a wonderful time of freedom and beautiful wildness.  All the children had dirty feet by the end of the day.

DSC_1895

Kathy, Caroline, and I went for a little walk, talked, and discovered wildflowers; two simple activities which are like therapy for the woman’s heart.  A good talk about all of life’s happenings, and the eyes to see and notice the beauty of the world around us.

DSC_1896

“Come in the evening, or come in the morning:
Come when you’re look’d for, or come without warning.
Kisses and welcome you’ll find before you,
And the oftener you come here the more I’ll adore you!”

Thomas Osborne Davis

DSC_1897

“The more I think about it,
the more I realize there is
nothing
more artistic than
to love others.”

Vincent Van Gogh

DSC_1868

 

for dave

DSC_1473

His birthday is tomorrow.

He is a steady support in my life.

We text almost daily.  We talk often.

He’s the the type that will fight for you, support you, do anything for you if you have a need.

I am beyond grateful for my family, and this brother has been there every step of the way.

 

Dave, I hope you enjoy this little slideshow I put together for you.

 

for dave