boy’s turn

When I was a mom of just two boys, I read an article in the Reader’s Digest titled, “Surrounded by Brothers”.  It touched me deeply, so much so that I tore it out and pasted it in my journal.  Little did I know that God would give us 2 more little boys!  Here are a few quotes from that article, which was written by James Schembari:

“They go to bed, one in the top bunk, and
the other in the bottom.  By morning they
are in one bed, curled up together
like puppies in a box.”

“I don’t know what kind of relationship they will
have when they grow up.  I want them to always
have each other.  So I imagine them going to the
same college, marrying sisters and living on the
same block.” 

“I sometimes things that the greatest thing I have ever done
is to help create these brothers.” 

“I am surrounded by brothers.  It is better
than I ever imagined.”

~

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Earlier today, I gave the boys each a “teddy bear” buzz cut. 
I usually do it myself but last time they needed cuts I took them
to a hair place in the mall.  It cost 50 dollars
for 3 little boy buzz cuts!  (I won’t be doing that
again any time soon!)  Today I got out the clippers and went outside
to clean, oil, and adjust them (the clippers are what frustrated me last time.)  Then I gave each of the boys
their hair cut – right out on the yard in the sun.  I
don’t have any hair to sweep up afterword – I left it
all in the grass!  I had fun but I can’t say that the
boys enjoyed it much. 

I think I earned myself a good 50 dollars, don’t you?

 

 

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“we have this moment, to hold in our hands
and to touch
as it slips through our fingers like sand
yesterday’s gone
and tomorrow may never come
but we have this moment, today” ~ lyrics from a song (I can’t remember who sang it)

 

home. . . .home. . . . home. . . .

 “There’s no place like home, there’s no place like home”
~Dorothy, from The Wizard of Oz

What comes to mind when you think about HOME?

Perhaps it is not so much what we think of but how we feel:  relaxed, peaceful, calm, loved, secure, wanted, needed, protected, happy.  How do you feel when your are home?  Or at your childhood home?

We haven’t lived in this house for a year yet.  When we came home on Sunday from a week-long absence, we were so happy to be back.  When we opened the door to the house I thought , “ahhhhhhhhhhh, home at last”.  The smell was familiar, the sights were familiar.  Our relationship to this place was bumped from “still feels a little new”, to “isn’t nice to be back where we belong”.

Where else can we sit and read a note from a friend on our very own front porch, in our very own rocker, next to our very own little table that’s decorated with a jar of roses and a doily made by our very own Great Grandma?

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I read a delightful children’s book when we were away.  The book was about animals in nature and each chapter was themed.  In the chapter titled, “Home”, I read this quote:

“Whatever the plant or creature,
there is a certain place that suits it best,
a place where it feels a measure of
abundance, security, comfort, and familiarity.
Such a place becomes ‘Home’.”

and this one:

“Find yourself a home, make it the seat
of your affections, respect it,
cultivate it, appreciate it.  For in the spirit
of home do you find all that is good and
decent in life.  Homes build communities,
communities make nations, nations of
home-loving people make civilization!”
(Sam Campbell)

I truly believe that God is honored when people have the character to secure a home in order to have a safe place to go to for refreshment and rest, to have a place to raise a godly family or entertain dear friends.

In another book titled, Home-making, which was written in 1882 by J.R. Miller, I read this quote:

“The benediction that falls upon the homes
of a country is like the gentle rain that
descends among the hills.  A thousand springs are
fuller afterward, and along the banks of a
thousand streamlets flowing through the
valleys the grass is greener and the flowers pour
out richer fragrance.  Homes are the springs
among the hills, whose many streamlets,
uniting, form like great rivers society, the
community, the nation, the Church.  If the springs
run low the rivers waste;  if they pour out bounteous
currents the rivers are full.  If the springs are pure
the rivers are clear like crystal;  if they are foul
the rivers are defiled.  A curse upon homes sends
a poisoning blight everywhere; a blessing
brings healing and new life into every channel.  Homes
are the divinely ordained fountains of life.”

The more I think about it, the more I say, “Yes, home is the place for me to work, to dream, to play, to be with my husband and my children, my family and loved ones.”  God made family!  Does our home reflect His love, goodness, grace, forgiveness?   I want the flavor of my home to be Christ-like.

Every wise woman buildeth her house:
 but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
Proverbs 14:1

What sort of dreams and goals do you have for your home life?
What special things do you do as a couple to keep your relationship strong?
What about the children?  Do you have any traditions or fun times that are unique?
What sort of things do you like about your home? or anyone’s home?

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“Homes are the divinely ordained
fountains of life” ~ J.R. Miller

getting used to flying. . . .

“You’ve been through the routine before. Just before your flight takes off, the flight attendants go through the aircraft’s safety features and point out where the emergency exits are. Sometimes you pay attention, sometimes you continue flipping through your magazine.”  –CBS

During the “aircraft safety” video. . .I happened to glance up from my magazine flipping to see this:

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my children paying strict attention! 

 

Vacation Photos

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Shadow picture of Mommy and Daughter

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“Natural Plum” blossom, they smelled divine!

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The boys “sat on the park bench like bookends”

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It’s going to take a long time for me to forget this fantastic dinner from the resort restaurant.  It was one of the best meals I ever had.

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Sunset at the beach and. . . .

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sunrise from our balcony.

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A kind lady offered to take a family photo for us.

But I took this one:

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Just for fun

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What is it about pigtails, you just have to twirl ’em? 

Our vacation was wonderful.  We’re thanking God for a safe and happy trip. 

We arrived home this afternoon and fell in love with home all over again–things are finally turning GREEN outside!  Also, I went grocery shopping and did a lot of laundry and housework.  The manicure and pedicure I got done (at the spa!) on Thursday won’t last long now!   But, it is good to be home all together again. 

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Update from Naples

I cannot tell you how wonderful it is to be here.  We are in our room at the resort right now, a gorgeous room with a balcony.  We’ve all just come in from a day at the beach.  The water is so clear and calm, the kids just play all day long while Rich and I read, walk, or swim with the kids.  The weather has been so beautiful.

I finished my book:  Anne’s House of Dreams and it was better than I remembered.  I’ve probably read it 10 or more times but it’s been a while. . . .I read most of it today with the sound of the ocean as the perfect background noice.  Here is a quote for you about friendship:

“‘I am your friend and you are mine, for always,” Anne said.  ‘Such a friend as I never had before.  I have had many dear and beloved friends–but there is a something in you, Leslie, that I never found in anyone else.  You have more to offer me in that rich nature of yours, and I have more to give you than I had in my careless girlhood.  We are both women—and friends forever.’  They clasped hands and smiled at each other through the tears that filled the gray eyes and the blue.”

I love my friends and think of friendship as a wonderful gift from God.

Well, Rich and I are taking the kids out to dinner tonight.  We’ve all had a light lunch so we would be good and hungry.  We are going to a seafood place.

Love from Naples!

“Purpleamethyst”

PS  I typed this on Rich’s laptop.  I couldn’t resist asking him if I could spend some time checking up on things here in xanga-land!  Also, we decided not to go to Disney.  I took the kids to the zoo yesterday and they did not like walking around in the heat. 

Jump
for
Joy!

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Laugh
Shout
Squeal!

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It’s time!
It’s time!
For our VACATION!

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Happy Happy Happy
is how we feel!

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Laughter is an instant vacation.  ~Milton Berle

 

We’re leaving in a few hours. . . .will you miss me?. . .and won’t be back until next weekend. 

I’ll miss you guys!  Have a wonderful week and I’ll catch up with all your sites when I return.  In His Love, “Purpleamethyst76”

One of my favorite verses:  “If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in Heaven give good things to them that ask Him?  Matthew 7:11