little things

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We’re done with our school work for today and it’s lovely outside!

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Catch of the Day:

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They also have a snake, a big water bug of some sort, tadpoles, and other frogs.

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These are the days to remember, have fun, smile, explore. . . .

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One of their thoughtful spots.

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Here I am, holding hands with my son and absorbing the loving expression on his face that I see so often.  He’s saying “I love you Mom” with his eyes.

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I’ve been busy in my garden. . . .but God’s garden is where I find the most pleasure.

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Like when I see the Violets

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I can’t stand it I just can’t stand it. . . .they’re getting so big!!!!!!!!!

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My Aunt Mary inspired me to put pansies by my side door.

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I found this in my mailbox today:

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Only a heart full of love would make a person fill a card with encouragement for a little boy (and his family), to console him after his dog died.  Thanks, onehappymomma,  You made tears come to my eyes today with your thoughtfulness.

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Have a Happy Day!

 

 

First of all, thanks to each of you for your kind comments about the loss of our poor dog.  I cried when I wrote the story and cried harder when I read all your responses to it.  What kind hearts you have!  The children have been reading each comment and I plan on printing them so they can save them.  Thank you over and over! 

This afternoon I took my son with me for a little walk.  It’s been raining for a few days and he was soaked (and whining) by the time we got home.  Here are some pictures that I took as we were out enjoying God’s beautiful creation:

1.  I love the colors of this wild rose bush.  The dusky purple and greens inspire me.

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2.   in the field near our house (state land). 

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3.  adjusting his shoe?  I think this photo is so sweet.

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4.  This grass was so thick and healthy that it loudly rasped against my boots as I waded through it.

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5.  A soaking wet dandelion head looks so exotic!  It’s a beautiful new way to see a common plant.

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6.  It was fun to find a natural trail of water running into the woods, which led us under an apple tree.  You may wonder if it’s a stream– it isn’t normally, there just has been extra water lately from the rain.  Son is amazed that Mommy is leading him through such a muddy wet pathway.

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7.  We discovered a small field of tall tall grasses in the edge of the woods. 

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8.  I got really wet trying to get a clear picture of this Jack-in-the-Pulpit. 

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I hope you enjoyed the pictures from our walk.  Whenever I spend time outside I feel refreshed and happy in the Lord.  His creation is so beautiful.  I see something exciting every day here at our country home.  Yesterday we had a crane land near the pond and I also saw a sweet pair of warblers in the bushes.  I need to start writing everything down in a journal!  I can understand why some people carry journals around with them wherever they go.

And now, here are the words to a favorite hymn with words that are meaningful and unifying.  This hymn came to mind as I read the comforting words in yesterday’s comments.

Blest be the tie that binds
Our hearts in Christian love;
The fellowship of kindred minds
Is like to that above.

Before our Father’s throne
We pour our ardent prayers;
Our fears, our hopes, our aims are one,
Our comforts and our cares.

We share our mutual woes,
Our mutual burdens bear;
And often for each other flows
The sympathizing tear.

We we asunder part,
It gives us inward pain;
But we shall still be joined in heart,
And hope to meet again.

John Fawcett

Have a wonderful evening!

 

Happy Mother's Day!

 

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“Everybody knows that a good mother gives her children a feeling
of trust and stability.  She is the one they can count on for the things that matter
most of all.  She is their food and their bed and their extra
blanket when it grows cold in the night; she is their
warmth and health and their shelter; she is the one
they want to be near when they cry.  She is the only person
in the whole world, or in a whole lifetime, who can be these
things to her children.  There is no substitute for her.
Somehow even her clothes feel different to her children’s
hands from anybody else’s clothes.  Only to touch her skirt
or her sleeve makes a troubled child feel better.”
Karen Butler Hathaway

How do I find the words to describe the meaning and purpose of my life and how much it means to me?  God placed the call of motherhood so strongly on my heart that it has been my main goal in life.  The reaction, sadly, of most women when they learn this about me is disbelief and even slight ridicule and teasing.

But it’s true.  Ask the 15 year old me what I wanted to be when I grew up?  I would have said, “I want to be a stay-at-home mom”.

When I think of how much the Lord has given me the desires of my heart, I want to cry!

He led me to my perfect match and life partner– and we were married young–I was 19 and he was 21.  We were married for 1 year and 3 months before we welcomed our firstborn into our hearts.

Jacob was born 2 weeks early.  As a first time mom I was not expecting that wave of love that I felt when Rich finally brought tiny Jacob to my hospital room after his first bath.  “He’s so beautiful” is what I said and thought so many times. 

So beautiful.

Jacob was 14 months old when Ethan arrived.  Once again I fell in love with a baby boy.  Ethan was and is a happy boy, in a calm, thoughtful way.  To see his bright eyes while he laughs is one of the biggest rewards in my life.

I found out I was expecting Grace shortly after Ethan’s first birthday.  I was scared, I admit.  She was born when Jacob was 2 months shy of his 3rd birthday and Ethan was 21 months old.  To have my first daughter was all I needed to carry me through those early days and months with 3 little ones in diapers!

In the few years before our next baby came along, I had so much fun with my 3 preschoolers.  Yes, there were difficult days, (but I won’t get into that).  I remember FUN and lots of it:  trips to McDonald’s play place, little amusement parks, lots of walks to the playground.  The sheer delight and enjoyment of simple things–like blowing bubbles and washing matchbox cars.

Jacob was in Kindergarten when David was born, so my “carefree” (doesn’t that word make you snicker?) days of being a Mom to preschoolers were over.  When I had David I thought I had never been so in love with a baby before!  (Aren’t moms funny?)  David was my 4th child, yet I took MORE pictures of him than any of the others thus far!  He was and still is a unique, bright part of our family.  He makes me smile and chuckle every single day.

Caleb, our fifth baby, was born when David was almost 3.   I felt so happy, peaceful, and content when he was a newborn, more than I did for any of the other babies.  For instance, I knew that it was okay to hold him (and did hold him) as much as possible!  The babies grow too fast. . hold your babies!  Too soon they wriggle themselves away to their own adventures, far too soon!   An added blessing of Caleb’s birth was the joy of seeing my older children enjoy their baby brother.  What a wonderful feeling it is for a mom to observe the love between her children!

Jacob is 10 now.
Ethan is 9.
Grace is 7.
David is 4.
Caleb is almost 2.

As for me, my life is so fulfilled.  My dreams are all coming true.  God gave me my family and I give all the glory and honor to Him.  I lay my family down at His feet. 

The tears in my eyes are there from sheer happiness.

Enjoy the photos, which were taken by my husband (whose technique is to start clicking and not stop):

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To be a Mom
you need to be very very
very very very very
patient
and
keep smiling

Day with Sissy

 

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So, what do we do when hubby has to work late?  Go to sister’s house to pass the time away! 

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 admired the babies. . . . .

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ran a big bath for the girls to giggle and play in. . . . . . .

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posed for pictures

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enjoyed the outdoors. . . . .

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and did our best to ignore the toads!

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By the way, the toads are almost gone.  They used our pond to “do what they had to do” and then hopped away.  I have never seen anything like it.  Husband said that the family who used to live here told him that it would happen.  I know it seems like nothing, but it was honestly quite disturbing to see so many.  I felt kind of sick by the end of the day, after an entire day of seeing them and almost stepping on them.  One toad is kind of cute, but hundreds are NOT.  The plague in Egypt really came alive for me! 

Despite the toads, yesterday was a lot of fun.  It was so nice to spend the day with my sister and her girls.

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There are no flowers grown in the vale
Kiss’d by the dew, woo’d by the gale,
None by the dew of twilight wet,
So sweet as the deep-blue violet
 

disturbing video!

(They are toads)

Warning! This is disturbing!

Mind you, this JUST HAPPENED.  The children forced me to go outside to see this!

You will probably scream!

More information:  The kids caught all these today, the pond is overrun with them. . .apparently it’s a good day to be a toad.    They are all over the place. . . . . .and we haven’t seen any until today!  I’m sure they’ll be gone in a few days.  They better be!

 

Just for fun!

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Isn’t he amazing? 

Have a wonderful day everyone!  It’s going to be beautiful here–sunny and warm–after school is over we are spending the rest of the day outside!  Do something fun and silly today and don’t forget to take a picture!  

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“We cannot stop the years from rolling on, nor can we keep back the gray hairs and the wrinkles and the lines of weariness.  These bodies will grow old in spite of us.  But there is no reason why our spirits should not be always young.  We ought to keep a child’s heart beating in our breast until God calls us up higher.  We ought to grow always toward youth.” -J.R. Miller (again!)  

Yesterday Evening: Making Memories

“God wants us to fill our homes with happiness.  He made childhood joyous, full of life, bubbling over with laughter, playful, bright and sunny.”

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“It is a crime to repress the mirth and the gladness and to try to make children grave and stately.  Life’s burdens will come soon enough to lie upon their shoulders.”

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“Life will soon enough bring care and anxiety and hardship and a weight of responsibility.  We should let them be young and free from care just as long as possible.”

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“We should put into their childhood days just as much sunshine and gladness, just as much cheerful pleasure as possible.  Human lives will never grow into their best in gloom.”

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“Pour the sunshine about them in youth; let them be happy; encourage all innocent joy; provide pleasant games for them; romp and play with them; be a child again among them.”

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“Then God’s blessing will come upon your home, and your children will grow up sunny-hearted, gentle, affectionate, joyous themselves and joy-bearers to the world.”

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“The young must have amusements.  The only question is, What shall be the character of the amusements?”

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“If there is clover at the home they will not care to fly abroad.” 

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“There is no parent of ordinary intelligence who may not make his home-live so bright and sunny that no one will ever care to go outside to see amusement amid the senseless frivolities or the debasing pleasures that the world has to offer.”

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“There is no need for argument to prove the influence of the home memories in the formation of character.  When one’s childhood home has been true and sweet, its memories never can be effaced.”

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“But the memory of the early home lives on like a solitary star, burning in the gloom of night.”

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“Will the memory be tender, restraining, refining and inspiring?”

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“It would seem worthwhile for every mother to try to weave such memories into the early years of her children’s lives.  There is no surer way to bind them with chains of gold to God’s throne.  Where is the busy mother who cannot find ti
me enough to spend thus a few moments every night with each child before it falls asleep, in sweet, loving talk and tender, earnest prayer?  Far down into the years the memory of such sacred moments will go.”

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“So the life of the true home flows on.  It shelters us in the day of storm.  Its friendships remain true and loyal.  It lays holy hands of benediction upon our heads as we go out to meet life’s struggles and duties.  It’s sacred influences keep us from many a sin.  Its memories are our richest inheritance.  Its inspirations are the secret strength of our lives in days of toil and care.  Then it teaches us to look toward heaven as the great Home in which all our hearts, hopes, and dreams shall be realized, and where the broken ties of earth shall be reunited.”

All quotes from Home-making, by J.R. Miller

This is why we do what we do.  It is so worth it. 

boy’s turn

When I was a mom of just two boys, I read an article in the Reader’s Digest titled, “Surrounded by Brothers”.  It touched me deeply, so much so that I tore it out and pasted it in my journal.  Little did I know that God would give us 2 more little boys!  Here are a few quotes from that article, which was written by James Schembari:

“They go to bed, one in the top bunk, and
the other in the bottom.  By morning they
are in one bed, curled up together
like puppies in a box.”

“I don’t know what kind of relationship they will
have when they grow up.  I want them to always
have each other.  So I imagine them going to the
same college, marrying sisters and living on the
same block.” 

“I sometimes things that the greatest thing I have ever done
is to help create these brothers.” 

“I am surrounded by brothers.  It is better
than I ever imagined.”

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Earlier today, I gave the boys each a “teddy bear” buzz cut. 
I usually do it myself but last time they needed cuts I took them
to a hair place in the mall.  It cost 50 dollars
for 3 little boy buzz cuts!  (I won’t be doing that
again any time soon!)  Today I got out the clippers and went outside
to clean, oil, and adjust them (the clippers are what frustrated me last time.)  Then I gave each of the boys
their hair cut – right out on the yard in the sun.  I
don’t have any hair to sweep up afterword – I left it
all in the grass!  I had fun but I can’t say that the
boys enjoyed it much. 

I think I earned myself a good 50 dollars, don’t you?