We were really rather silly last night at the baseball game. I guess being apart for 2 days and generally being over-exposed to little league baseball lately can do that to a couple. It was cold!! So he let me borrow his really nice jacket that he bought in “Norway” at Epcot in Disney. We did a little walking before the game started. It was just the two of us, no other children but Seth who was in the game. Seth had left his glove in the rain and had to borrow a glove which was too big for him. We got silly watching them play. Our team didn’t do very well and Seth struck out all but once. Rich says he needs another trip to the batting cages and I said, “Yes, lets go after church on Sunday, they have good food there.” And then he looked sad because he has another business trip coming up. And then as soon as he gets back I am leaving for 10 days on my trip to Alaska. But we sat together on the bleachers and leaned into one another and talked and laughed. We walked with our arms around each other trying to keep our legs going in the least awkward way. The bathroom doors were locked and I didn’t want to use an outdoor toilet (because too many little joyous boys use them *ahem*) so I ended up leaving an inning or two early (we had driven separately) and he walked me to the car and buckled me into my seat. I gave him back his jacket and drove home. Later on, we watched TV. We’ve been watching the original Star Trek series together and I almost always fall asleep before the ending.
On Friday night I started falling asleep before our tv program was over so I gave up and went to bed. A few hours later I woke up to complete stillness in the room and thought, “Wow, Rich never came to bed, he must have fallen asleep on the couch!” Nothing gets by me even in the middle of the night……I don’t even need lights to get to the bathroom at night. Thus I got up and blindly walked around the bed to the bathroom and then when I was done, to save myself some steps, I started crawling over Rich’s side of the bed to get back to my side. To my shock and horror, I landed right on top of my husband who was flat on his back, peacefully asleep. He woke up startled, grunted, and reached out his hands to grab my arms and help me over which I thought was strange but I quickly backed up while apologizing and went back the way I came, which was around the bed and not over the bed. I crawled under the covers meekly on my side and held my breath. Thankfully he fell right back to sleep and so did I. By the next morning I was laughing and laughing. I had never jumped on top of my husband while he was sleeping before. Although I secretly knew he wasn’t really trying to be chivalrous and gentlemanly about helping me get over him, it made for a good story. I also wanted to see if he would react to my altering reality slightly. After hearing me tell the tale to the children multiple times that morning he finally spoke up and teased, “You can go right ahead and keep telling yourself that I was trying to help you but I was really trying to protect myself, I was in a very vulnerable position.”