blueberry picking

 

My Mom grew up with her parents and siblings on their farm.  As is typical of farming families, when the children reached adulthood they each had the opportunity to own pieces of land from their parent’s original farm.  This was the case with my mother, as well.  Except for a few years after she and Dad were married, she has spent her entire life living on the same road.  I think that’s pretty special and I sure love to go back to the land that is in our hearts, and which holds so many memories for all of us (aunts, uncles, cousins). 

Mom and Dad’s property is on both sides of the quiet, country road.  On the other side of the road from the house is a wild blueberry patch.  Dad keeps trails mowed and each year they add more rambling paths around the many blueberry bushes, most of which are very big and tall and are never ever sprayed or tinkered with.  The whole patch is a beautiful and organic place, with a variety of native trees mixed in…all perfectly wild and unplanned, with only small, simple improvements (mowing, adding benches here and there, a circle of rocks for a fire pit, etc). There are wild raspberries, flowers.  Birds singing everywhere, insects humming.  Just as lovely as can be.

Typically, as we chat on the phone in the early springtime, the topic of the blueberries comes up.  I hear reports on how good or bad my parents speculate this year’s crop will be.  The early frost or the lack of rain were sure to effect the crop.  Then, one day in July, “I picked enough for muffins!” to the next:  “Dad and I are picking berries every night!  The bushes are loaded!”  Likewise, the freezer gets loaded… with bags of little purple treasures, to be added to pies, muffins, pancakes, or eaten as is.

It’s no surprise, then, that my mom was most thrilled that I would get to pick some blueberries for my family when I went out to visit this past weekend.

In fact, it was one of the first things we did after I arrived.  Even Sarah did a little picking.  I do love to pick, it’s like second nature….bending the branches down to reach the top berries, or stepping half inside a bush to reach the ones in the middle.  After years of experience, my fingers and wrists know how to move in order to pick the berries and let the twigs and leaves drop away to the ground.  We only want berries in the box, no rubbish!  An interesting thing is that the berries on each bush have a different taste and texture.  Some are sweeter and plumper than others, and they can be different shades of purple (I always liked picking the bushes with the very darkest berries).

My brother (how I love him!) was up to see us, too.  So, we all walked together; Dad and Mom, me and Dave, and lil’ Sarah Joy.

After we picked for a while, we walked in the woods and into the big field across from the old barn.  I had Dave take a couple pictures for me.

 

 

 

I made blueberry pancakes this morning for the children.  Mom’s recipe.  With the berries we picked from the patch.  I know that my aunts and cousins and sisters have been picking there lately, too.  It’s fun to think of us all using these same berries, grown in the same wind and sun and land that we did as children.

 

Cindy’s Pancakes

1 egg, beaten with a fork
1 cup milk
2 tablespoons oil
2 heaping tablespoons sugar
1 tsp salt
1 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp baking soda

Mix all together and add flour to the consistency that you desire for thinner or thicker pancakes.

This morning I used whole wheat flour to make them healthier and more filling.

As they sizzle on one side, sprinkle on those beautiful berries (can be frozen or fresh). Flip to cook other side, serve with butter and maple syrup. 

Any leftovers get eaten like cookies later, for snacks.  Save one for the hens, and one for the dog.  They love pancakes, too.

 

 

trip back home :: coffee shop

On Friday, I waved goodbye to my family and drove away to go to my parent’s house (four hour trip) for a weekend visit. 

10 minutes later I turned around and went back.  I couldn’t leave my youngest one, Sarah. 

She’s two now but I haven’t ever been very far from her, and my heart couldn’t bear leaving her behind for days

I quickly collected her and her stuff, buckled in the carseat and away we went, the two of us, for a mini vacation. 

Music blaring, sun shining, a perfect day to travel.

We had a great time–I’ll be blogging about our adventures all week–but, in the meantime, here are some photos from this very morning’s visit to the coffee shop with my Mom.

 

 

The coffee shop is located in the city that my Mom’s office is located–she works as an administrative assistant for a judge–and I had never seen her workplace.

We got in our cars and I followed Mom to the courthouse.  After a tour of the (really cool) building and introductions to some of her friendly coworkers, we walked across the street to the place where she gets coffee every day.   

Mom ordered a regular black cup, and I had a latte.  The three of us shared an organic brownie (YUM)

 

I loved the natural lighting from the big windows, and the exposed brick.

 

 

My mom had blond hair, too,  when she was Sarah’s age.

 

 

After our coffee, I had to leave…I was on the road for 5 and a half hours today, with a stop for lunch and another stop at a rest area. 

Tomorrow:  blueberry picking

 

Life is so good

We went for a little walk yesterday.  I was trying to tire out the little ones.

I asked the big boys to come along.  Going for walks with them isn’t like it used to be.

The brought along their (bb) guns.

Jacob gave Seth a bb to play with but I took it back.  Davy put one in his ear once and didn’t tell us for months after.  We had to take him to the ear doctor to get it out and it was rusty.  Notice Caleb…he has a (nerf) sword.   You would think I would feel safe with them around to protect me.  (no)

The sweetest thing happened to us yesterday.  My friend Caroline texted me to ask if we were busy.  She wanted to bring over an ice cream party.  She knew it was naptime so she brought it to our house! 

Yes, it was nap time, but still, I woke them up.  When I went to get Caleb out of my bed, I found him like this:

They didn’t mind waking up to “make your own” ICE CREAM SUNDAES.

She brought:  ice cream, frozen yogurt, whipped cream, fudge and caramel sauce, rainbow and chocolate sprinkles, plastic spoons, and paper bowls.  I would encourage any of you (and me, too) to surprise your friends like this, someday, too.  She brought everything over in a cooler and after the kids swam in the pond, they came back in for more.  It was great.

Guess what.  Sarah’s wearing a dress today that I made 10 years ago with my Mom’s help, for Grace.  I love it.  I remember picking out the fabric and sewing with my mom…and how proud I was when we finished it.

I have another book recommendation for you. 

Life is so Good, by George Dawson and Richard Glaubman, published in 2000

“In this remarkable book, George Dawson, a 103-year-old slave’s grandson who learned to read at age 98, reflects on his life and offers valuable lessons in living and a fresh, firsthand view of America during the twentieth century.”  ~back cover 

I discovered this book while browsing the biography section in Barnes and Noble.  I was intrigued as soon as I read the title.  “Life is Good” is a mantra of mine.  As I read the back cover, I knew I would be reading this amazing book very soon…..and I bought it that night (while on a date with my husband).  I started it yesterday and highly recommend it to you, my friends.

First sentence:  “Wanting to enjoy every moment, I stared at the hard candies in the different wooden barrels.”

ENJOY EVERY MOMENT:  Another one of my mantras!  Really, this man’s attitude is inspiring and such a good example of happy living. 

Sarah in the pond

 

 

Blueberry coffee cake, made this morning, stuck to the darn bundt pan

 

 

Life is Good T-shirt, Shanda, @ the playground with the children last week

(iphone pics)

 

I’m making dinner and blogging at the same time.  It’s sloppy joes and broccoli tonight.

I sent the children all outside to play and they rescued a baby bunny from the cat.  The baby bunny is missing some back fur but is otherwise fine.

 

 

 

great weekend!

 

This was how our weekend began.  With my husband getting Sarah Joy from her crib and discovering…..the worst case of bed-head we have ever seen.

Normally, her hair is baby-fine and so thin that a pony tail is about the circumference of a pencil.  How did she get her hair like this?  It was so teased out that it felt like wool.

It was frizzled!  I had to wet her down to get it combed out. 


@ the playground

Last week Rich was on a business trip from M-F.  Here at home, the children and I had a great time together.  We did fun stuff just about every day:

Monday:  Free day/cleaning/laundry
Tuesday:  Marcia came with her eight children for a visit
Wednesday:  Lunch and movie with Aunt Amanda and cousins
Thursday:  Breakfast at Crackerbarrel, playground w/ all 7, library and coffee shop with Jacob 
Friday:  Lunch and Mall, blood  (Caleb fell and broke a plate, cut wrist and finger.  Seth fell and got a bloody nose)

Rich got back on Friday night to find us all happy and healthy, with only minor injuries.  However, for some reason, I didn’t sleep well the entire time he was gone.  I was so focused and busy with all the many events of the week that by the time I got to bed I couldn’t get to sleep and I couldn’t STAY asleep. 

By Saturday morning I was beaten down, admitting defeat, tired with a roaring headache.  Rich said, “You need a break.  I’m going to take a shower and by the time I get out you need to have a plan or I’ll make one for you.”  I honestly wanted nothing more than to be HOME with NO ONE AROUND.

I’m so thankful for my husband.  He left about an hour later, with eight children…our seven and the neighbor boy, Nick.  They went to the track so he could run and they could play baseball, then to Moe’s for lunch, then the mall.  I had hours (4, I think) to myself in a quiet house!

I made 4 quarts of refrigerator pickles with cucumbers from my own garden, and from the neighbor’s vegetable stand.

I also read a book, took a nap and I don’t remember what else, the main thing was:  my brain got a rest.  🙂

Rich came back home at about 2 and put the littles to bed for naps.  In fact, we also took a nap. winky

After waking up, we sat on the porch in rocking chairs with our little ones……

And even though I told him I didn’t want to go anywhere, I was too tired, he made me go on a date with him.  It ended up being a blast, I think I talked his ear off. 

Getting on his back proved to be difficult.  LOL 

We went out to eat, walked around the mall (I had gymbucks to spend and Rich got annoyed b/c the outfit he wanted for Sare didn’t come in her size.)  And then, we got decaf coffees at Starbucks for the ride home (I had a cinnamon dolce latte). 

On Sunday we didn’t get to church…too tired and just wanted to be home together.

Seth wore his newest “baseball shirt”….he LOVES baseball.  I got this on clearance at Gymborree w/my gymbucks.  The lady dug around in the back room to find it for me.

He’s a dreamboat!

I fixed the girl’s hair.  They looked so pretty.

We went to the track again and then to the grocery store.

After lunch we took naps again.  It was truly a nice, lazy weekend.

 

After naps, Rich and Jacob mowed the yard and I puttered around on the porch, cleaning and rearranging and adding pretty things.  Like this teacup bouquet of wildflowers.

We went out for ice cream and Sarah matched her sprinkles.  I had the best strawberry sundae….so yummy.  Rich yelled at Seth for getting ice cream all over himself.  Jacob ate his while reading a book, and three of the others at theirs in a tree. 

Back home, we had watermelon outside (what gorgeous weather we are having!)

 

C H I C K I E S

My new baby chicks are growing nicely.  I am afraid it has been a bad season for my chickens.  One night, we lost most of our laying hens to raccoons.  On another night, we caught (at dusk) a raccoon in the coop eating my babies.  Even though they were enclosed in a dog kennel and couldn’t get out, a raccoon managed to pull three through and eat them all but a random foot or wing!  The last remaining layer does not lay anymore (trauma?) so we are eagerly awaiting these youngsters to grow up and start laying for us.

Jacob couldn’t put his book down.  Later that evening he finished it and reported that it was the first book he ever read that didn’t have a happy ending. 

 

Sarah was concerned because Dave and E were burying their legs in the sand. 

 

Oh it was such a wonderful weekend together as a family.  Rich and I both feel refreshed and energized for another week (no travel!)

I slept like a log last night and woke up at 5:30….with enough time this morning for devos, blogging and breakfast on the porch before the children woke up!

 

“Oh God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you……”

“Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you.  I will praise you as long as I live, and in your name I will life up my hands.”

“My soul will be satisfied as with the richest of foods; with singing lips my mouth will praise you.”

Psalm 63:1, 3-5

 

Happy Monday, my friends!  xoxo

You are loved.

 

 

pictures from our visit

 

I’m sitting in the dark livingroom with Seth wriggling next to me.  He’s watching Little Bear.  He’s already had his morning bowl of cheerios.   I’ve made my cup of coffee, started the dishwasher, threw in a load of laundry, and opened all the windows.  Thankfully, it’s much cooler outside this morning.

Yesterday, it was an oppressive 100 degrees outside, and so very humid…the kind of day that all the little one’s faces turned pink and sweaty with the heat.

Also, yesterday was the day I met Marcia, after we met each other through this blog years ago.  My friend came with her suburban filled to the max with her eight children.  Oh it was so exciting to meet face to face for the first time, after several years of letters and just a few phone conversations.  Inwardly, we were excited, but outwardly…..as the moms hugged and began chatting, the children stood around quiet! and shy! awkward!

Very soon, after introductions, and lunch, things began to warm up and we all headed outside in the HEAT to the swimming pond and dock.

 

I went up to the house to get pops…and this was her baby’s first one, ever!  She was so cute. 

After we baked ourselves in the sun for a while, the thunder started rolling in.  The older ones ran up to the house while Marcia and I talked and let the little ones dig in the sand for a while. 

One of my favorite memories of the day was when we went back into the house to find it so nice and cool, music blaring, and all the older children playing a game around the table.

While their older siblings played a game, the middle children went downstairs (just these three boys) to shave bark off of sticks with a knife.  They spent the rest of the day fighting with their homemade swords.  I think Jordan went home with his.

While we were inside it got darker and darker outside, until the sky opened and it rained buckets.  I wish I had taken a picture of it….I was so happy to see the rain.  It didn’t last long but it did cool off the land somewhat and Marcia and I took the little ones out on the porch to play.

I took Grace away from the game to take a few pictures for me.

(The second one she took is the one I posted first.)

After the older ones played some basketball, it was time for the visit to end.  They stayed for about 4 1/2 hours in all, and it sure went by fast.

Before they left, we wanted to take some group pictures. 

One of her older boys had a small Nikon (I also use a Nikon camera)….we used a little table for a tripod (couldn’t find mine) and I thought he was cute setting his camera up with his little brother looking over his shoulder.

And here we all are!

Grace and Brooklyn

 

The big, handsome older boys! 

Seth must’ve been watching….and just knew he should be in the picture, too.  (so cute!)

 

We wanted one more picture of the two of us…and this next shot is the best representation of busy moms of many…..

Marcia running away from the picture to save her child from falling off the hammock.

 

It took a few minutes, but she finally reappeared.

 

We said our goodbyes after a satisfying visit.  She came with a gift for me (actually,for Sarah)…a little fiesta cup. 

She left with a gift from me….a fiesta shaker and bowl.  Fun.  heart

 

I put the children to bed early last night (Rich is gone this week on business) and I hit the hay at 9pm to read my book and relax, happy to have met my friend.   

A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things
you can be.  ~Douglas Pagels

 

 

i am so excited

 

About four years ago, I met a sweet friend through this blog.  She doesn’t have a blog, but after reading mine wanted to introduce herself and be friends.  We started writing back and forth (old fashioned snail mail) and we’ve also chatted on the phone a few times.  She is from Massachusetts but when she got married she and her husband moved down south.  She is visiting her parents for a few weeks and is coming over to my house TODAY so we can meet face to face for the first time! 

And guess what else?  She has EIGHT children, all about the same ages as my seven!  Her daughter has been writing with Grace and they are both very excited to meet.

 

Yesterday, my sister and I took her children and three of mine out to lunch.  Then, we watched Ice Age 4.  (fun movie)

After the movie, I went to Target to buy stuff for lunch today.

To feed 15 children (some are teenage boys!):

4 packs of hot dogs, and buns

40 individual chip bags

40 kool aid drink pouches

homemade macaroni salad (using aunt colleen’s recipe!) so yummy, I also used the healthy, whole grain pasta

I want to do something sweet…I’ll probably make brownies.

 

She told me not to stress out getting ready and I haven’t, but it’s been a fun few days cleaning my house!  It’s amazing how I let things go, only to realize the fact when Important People are coming over.  We’ve even moved out furniture!  LOL  Today I need to vacuum floors, walk around with paper towels and windex, and throw the stuff I don’t know what to do with in closets, but that’s it.  I’ve got everything clean and the laundry caught up. 

My camera battery is charging.  She’s been reading my blog for years….I’m a little nervous….please pray, & send us your happy thoughts for a great day!

 

 

book recommendations

 

 

 

The Invisible Wall, by Harry Bernstein, published 2007

This is a memoir written by Mr. Bernstein when he was in his mid-90’s.  From the back of the book, “On the eve of WW1, in a small English mill town, Harry Bernstein’s family struggles to make ends meet.   Harry’s father earns little money at the Jewish tailoring shop and brings home even less, preferring to spend his wages drinking and gambling.  Harry’s mother, devoted to her children and fiercely resilient, survives on her dreams……  Then Harry’s older sister does the unthinkable:  She falls in love with a Christian boy.  But they are separated by an ‘invisible wall’ that divides Jewish families on one side of the street from Christian families on the other.”

 

The Rules of Inheritance, by Claire Bidwell Smith, published 2012

From the cover:  Claire Bidwell Smith-an only child-was just fourteen years old when both of her parents were diagnosed with cancer within months of each other….Defying a conventional framework, this memoir is told in nonlinear fashion, using the five stages of grief as a window into Claire’s experience, at once heart-breaking and uplifting.

 

I’ve been an avid reader since I was a child, racing through books as soon as I learned how (beginning with the “Little House” books).  I know a lot of you are also book lovers, so I thought I would start sharing my books, hoping to gain some feedback from friends with the same interest in reading. 

I read both of these books this weekend.  I read The Rules of Inheritance in one day, staying up way past my normal bedtime to finish it.  Next, I read The Invisible Wall.  What a great book, so well written with a lot to think about and learn from. 

I love all kinds of books, but lately I have been reading memoirs.  There is something about the knowledge that these memoirs are true (or, mainly true) that make them gripping, and wonderful sources of knowledge and inspiration.  Often, I come away empowered to face my own life with renewed energy and gratitude.

 

If you have recently enjoyed a good book, please let us know about it in the comments. 

 

favorite poem::The Summer Day

 

 

 

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?” 

 

I’ve come across this quote many times through the years and I’ve always liked it. 

A few months ago I found that this quote is actually part of a poem, written by Mary Oliver.

The entire poem is so much better than just that one quote…..

It’s now my very favorite, and often the essence of it runs through my mind.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Summer Day

Who made the world?
Who made the swan, and the black bear?
Who made the grasshopper?
This grasshopper, I mean-
the one who has flung herself out of the grass,
the one who is eating sugar out of my hand,
who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down-
who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.
Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.
Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away.
I don’t know exactly what a prayer is.
I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down

into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,
how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
which is what I have been doing all day.
Tell me, what else should I have done?
Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon?
Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?  Mary Oliver

 

 Hope you have a blessed Monday, my friends.  You are loved.  xoxo