Grace got sick in her bed in the night Friday night and when I went up to strip her bed on Saturday morning (in the middle of celebrating David’s birthday, making pancakes, and needing to wrap his gifts). . . . .anyway, when I was in her room I got all frustrated by the M E S S she was living in (poor girl). I had to wash (in hot water) everything on her bed and why go to all that trouble when there was stuff scattered everywhere else? We might as well do a complete job! Needless to say, her room started us off on a weekend of cleaning the whole house.
So, that’s what we did this weekend. Cleaned. A lot. And I kid you not, I had that washer and drying going nonstop on Saturday!
The kids helped and when they weren’t helping they basically ran wild, playing with David’s new birthday toys.
I was surprised by myself when I was working in Grace’s room. It was the first time I had been in there for a while, and as we were organizing her little toys, hair-things, books, clothes, I got all sad about not having another girl. I had been excited about maybe having a new daughter and now that I know I’m having a boy, even though I’m thankful, I had a time on Saturday of letting go. . . .seeing all of Grace’s girl things that she will grow out of, with no little sister to pass them down to, made me sad. I did a little crying, even! Grace has so much, so many pretty things. Her birthday is in November but I can’t think of much that I could buy her, so my idea is to maybe go on a little day trip together.
Of course today I am ashamed of myself, for being sad like that. I have so many blessings, I can just imagine how ungrateful I seem in crying just because I’m not having another daughter!
Caleb’s room needed work, as well. We had moved him into his own bedroom and a few months ago I had so much fun picking out new bedding and getting Rich to hang nice new curtain rods and curtains. Caleb was in that room for maybe a week before he somehow pulled the curtains right off the walls and they’ve been draped over the back of a chair all this time, waiting for Rich to hang them back up (he needed to buy new anchors). So we played music, Grace and I worked in her room, and Rich worked in Caleb’s room with Jacob and Ethan. David got a new webkinz for his birthday so he played the computer.
Rich noticed that Caleb needs some extra training over the next few days, mainly because he’s not obeying right away. He is also doing a lot of whining/crying/dramatics over very little things (like a bug bite or a spot of marker on his hand or his cracker breaking in half). Thankfully, dealing with Caleb is pretty easy because he is so tenderhearted. If I happen to say a sharp word, he melts and needs a big hug (that’s what he says every time, “I need a big hug”). I love how Rich is able to see where the kids need some extra teaching, because as a mom I do sometimes have a tendency to overlook their faults and sympathize with them, rather than seeing areas that I need to train them so that they (we) don’t develop deep-rooted problems.
We did take a break from cleaning in the middle of the day on Saturday. Rich took us to a local diner and then we went to Kmart so that David could spend his birthday money from Uncle David and his Great Grandma. He bought a nerf gun, a small Buzz Lightyear toy, and a horn for his bike.
I bought some yummy smelling baby detergent, because Grace wants to find all of Caleb’s old baby clothes and wash them up. This is something I typically do when I’m about 8 months pregnant, but Grace is getting excited so I don’t see the harm in getting organized a few months earlier than usual!
After we got home from shopping, in the late afternoon on Saturday, Grace and I went for a walk and I took these photos. I thought you might like to see some of the fall colors we have around here. Everything was wet from a rainy day, there was no bright sunshine, so the colors look even deeper and richer than usual.
During our walk I told Grace that I was feeling a little sad about not having another girl. She immediately said, “I’m not.”
“You’re not?” I replied, surprised.
“No, I’m not. IF I can have a pony.”
I was standing on the front porch when I took this picture. I’m continually thankful that all I can see out the majority of the windows of my house are trees! They are a feast for my eyes.
We had David’s birthday cake at the end of the day. It was really yummy (no, I didn’t make it, it was a Carvel ice cream cake) and as soon as it was consumed, the children were all put in bed. It had been a busy day. Sunday (yesterday) was nice, we went to church and continued a study about church history in S.S. and heard an excellent sermon about God’s glory during the morning service. After church we came home and spent the rest of the day relaxing and resting.
Today I am back to a normal routine of homeschooling the older three. David left for Kindergarten at 8. It feels nice to start the week with a clean house!
Quote from Sunday School that I loved:
“The well-spring of youth is Christianity” ~St. Augustine
Also, I thought I would share a verse that has been running in my mind for over a week now. The children and I have been studying ancient Egypt and as a Christian, I had to notice that they had all the wrong ideas about religion and worship. The ancient Egyptians did not know the true God. This concept got me thinking and when I came across this verse in Acts, it meant even more to me:
(this account is from the time when the people of Lystra attempted to worship Paul and Barnabus. These verses are Paul and Barnabus’ response to the people)
“Sirs, why do ye these things? We are also men of like passions with you, and preach unto you that ye should turn from these vanities unto the living God, which made heaven, and earth, and the sea, and all things that are therein: who in times past suffered all nations to walk in their own ways. Nevertheless he left not himself without witness, in that he did good, and gave us rain from heaven, and fruitful seasons, filling our hearts with food and gladness.” Acts 14:15-17
Those verses just amaze me! They show me so much about my heavenly Father, and the common graces that He gives to everyone. Even during the worse times, God still FILLS OUR HEARTS with food and gladness, in many ways, and according to this verse, through his creation. This is why I am a HUGE advocate of spending a lot of time in NATURE. Pastor talked about meditating on God’s glory and letting His glory transform our hearts and I could think of two basic ways that God’s glory fills my own heart in a real and personal way:
1. Through reading the Bible and coming to an understanding that God loves me as His own precious child.
2. Through spending lots of time in His creation, going for walks, taking deep breathes, collecting and studying bits from the woods–acorns, mushrooms, flowers, plants, leaves, etc. After all, Jesus Himself prayed on the mountains and in the gardens!
Okay, I’ve written a lot this morning and I better get moving on my day. I hope everyone who reads this has a wonderful day.
Love,
~Shanda~