Seth

 

 

 

Hello friends, how is your day going?

I had an odd thing happen to me this morning.  I was in the bathroom, helping Sarah go potty (yeah, we are potty training. again.) and she started talking to me in her high-pitched, sympathetic tone of voice.  “Oh!  Do you have a boo-boo, Mom?”  She was gazing sadly at my arm as I pulled up her little jeans.  “Can I kiss it?  Let me see it!”  I gave her my arm, wondering where this “boo boo” was, and she took it in her soft hands and turned it and ……. kissed my dry, wrinkled elbow!

I’m hideous!

I’ve been chuckling over it all morning.

I found a cool thing at that antique store I told you about on Monday.  Yes, I mainly came away with books, but I also found something that I decided to hang up in Seth’s room.  It’s a “Wild Animals of Britain” wall hanging.  He was thrilled to see it.  I had to iron it first and then find tacks.  We found three tacks and then I started looking in the junk drawers in the kitchen for a fourth.  I got so annoyed by those dang drawers filled with stuff that I took them all out and dumped The contents in one big pile on the floor.  All morning, whenever I had a free moment, I sat down to sort and throw away the little odd bits of junk that my family has accumulated.  And now, happily, I’m all done with that chore, the drawers are all EMPTY and the floor is CLEAN and swept.  Feels good.  Like the house lost weight. 

Here’s Seth’s new wall hanging (printed on “irish linen”–go figure–)

Isn’t it so very quaint?  I love the green background color, too.  He pointed to the animals and named them.  I told him the ones he wasn’t sure of “weasel, badger, hedgehog” and corrected his speech; “box” is actually a “FOX”.

Seth is growing and learning and changing.  My heart is so very pleased with his latest interest in Bible stories.  We take him to Sunday School and church each Sunday, and he also has a class to go to while I am in Bible Study on Wednesdays.  He has learned many stories from the Bible and I think they are wonderful for him because they are so adventurous.  This week he learned about Daniel and the Lion’s Den and how God shut the lions’ mouths so that they couldn’t bite him.

On Sunday, he thought about Jesus dying on the cross, a lot.  I don’t know whether to smile or sigh about all the times BLOOD is mentioned at church.  I smile because it is the marvellous gospel message that I know and believe, but I sigh because I wonder what the little ones are thinking as I shield them all week from any sort of violence and then we go to church and talk about Jesus dying on the cross in a bloody way, with nails in His hands.  I do know and believe that God’s grace covers the whole situation and that also, most of it goes right over their heads.  But, this Sunday, Little Seth tugged on my skirt at church, I bent down in the middle of singing “Nothing but the Blood of Jesus” and listened to him ask, “Will you tell me that story again?  About Jesus and the blood?”  So I sit and tell him the story again.  And when we get home, he wants to hear it again.  I wonder if “it’s okay” to tell him these things, to satisfy his curiousity about blood and dying.

Then, I realize, that it’s for him and for me, and my eyes fill with tears, because of the sweetness.  Because of the questions he asks and the longing we all have to hear the old, old, story again and again.  In my telling it, in the most simple way I can, my own soul is strengthed.  I remember again that God sent Jesus to earth to save poor sinful men and women who are tired and longing and hoping and needful…..of His salvation and grace….and nothing but His blood can wash away the tiresome sins of the world.  And I pray that my words burn into his memory, “Sethie, Mommy loves Jesus and believes in Him and someday I will be in heaven with Him, too.”

“And, Seth, remember, Jesus died on the cross, but He is not dead any more.  He rose from the dead!  He is alive right now and,” (because he asks I tell him) “his boo-boos are all better!”

He is finding our Bible story books around the house and took some to bed with him during his nap.

This one was another satisfying adventure story about how God helped a shepherd boy and the boy killed a big bad giant with a sling, and a stone.  The stone goes right into his forehead.

And the giant goes tumbling down.

“He’s killed, he’s killed!”  ~Seth (a boy through and through)

Someday I hope to tell him that the journey of his spiritual awareness all began when he was only three and had so many questions.

Will you pray for Seth today?  And me, too?

Thank you, friends.

the first green egg

the latest news from shanda’s henhouse

Most of you may know that I have chickens.  These days, I have been busy raising our second flock (the first one was wiped out by raccoons) and eagarly awaiting the egg-laying stage.  On December 12, I excitedly found the first four brown eggs.   But now I want to let you know (in case you’re interested in such things) that my Ameraucanas are beginning to lay. On December 29, I almost stepped on the first green egg.  It was right in the middle of the chicken coop floor, quite impossible to miss.  Eggs are usually put in secret places, and so I wonder if Hen was flaunting this, her first lovely offering?

These pretty eggs are my favorite.  For now, we are only gathering one a day so I try not to use them up too fast; in this way I always have several to look at in the midst of all the browns. 

 

Happy Wednesday, friends!

 

my rusty cast iron skillet

Before:

 

 

I mentioned last week that I had been organizing my kitchen cupboards. 

Imagine my surprise when I rediscovered one of my cast iron skillets, only to find it covered over in a layer of dismal rust.

Unlike the cheap nonstick cookware of today, well taken care of cast iron will last forever, so, I set about repairing my orange iron skillet.

 

It already looked much much better after a hard scrubbing with soap, hot water, and a stainless steel scrubbing pad; all the rust came off.

Then, I dried the skillet, poured in some vegetable oil and rubbed it in thoroughly.

After rubbing it with oil, I baked it in the oven with it’s little sister, which I also re-coated with oil.  I used a 350 degree oven and left them alone until I noticed that the oil had baked in nicely (an hour or so)…..

 

After:

Just look at the difference.  The larger pan was the one previously covered in rust.  It came out of the oven black and reseasoned perfectly.

I used the pan for my breakfast omelet this weekend and it cooked wonderfully.  Cast iron heats evenly and retains heat nicely, too. 

A well-seasoned iron skillet is practically nonstick, and never needs to be scrubbed.  I used a wet dishcloth to wipe out any leftover egg bits and then dried it with a paper towel.  I always try to leave or add clean grease, to keep a nice coating for next time. 

It will never rust unless you are dumb and throw it in the back of a cupboard wet and then leave it for a year.

You don’t have to use as much butter and oil when using cast iron.

Also, another interesting fact is, if you cook with cast iron pans you will end up with iron fortified food.  Which is a very good thing, indeed.

See:  3 Health Reasons to Cook with Cast Iron

For a lot more information about cast iron, see: Lodge Cast Iron Cookware

 

 

what we are reading

This post is dedicated to my husband, Rich, who has happily allowed me to fill our house with books.

 

Book love.  My earliest memories involve books.  First, my mother and father read to me.  Then, when I could read by myself, I began with Laura’s Little House books.  They will always hold a very special place in my heart because I started my reading adventures with them.   All through my growing up years, I was reading books, most of which came from the library.  However, I also had my own personal collection of beloved books; every single LM Montgomery book I could get my hands on, for instance.  I kept my favorite books in a row on the headboard of my bed, which had a shelf on top.  I was very protective of my books and remember being horrified when a friend returned one of them to me with the binding bent all the way through and the cover aged almost beyond recognition.  I am still sad about my copy of Anne’s House of Dreams, because I myself dropped it in a bowl of chicken noodle soup.  I taped the corners of my new books as soon as I bought them, to try to keep them from getting dog-eared and ripped.  I carefully wrote my name and date inside each cover and read these books over and over again.

There was a period of time in my twenties when I didn’t read very much at all.  Let me clarify.  I did read, and I read every day, but the books I read were now written by authors like Dr. Seuss, Beatrix Potter, & Mercer Mayer, and were about 20 pages long, tops.  I read these books out loud with small children in my lap.

Ah yes, I was very busy with life and having/raising babies, that I simply had no time to read much.

When life became more manageable, (and I am now in my thirties), I slowly came back to my books and discovered I still had an insatiable appetite for reading.  I realized anew that this was part of what made life good, in my opinion.  A big, delicious book and time to read it.

In the winter, my favorite time to read is at the end of the day, in my bed.  I also read quite a bit in the car when Rich is driving, or during Seth & Sarah’s nap time.

In the summer, I like to read outside in the sunshine while wearing sunglasses, as the children play.

This Saturday, Rich and I took Jacob and Ethan to their friend’s house, and because they live very near my favorite antique store, I asked him if we could visit it.

I had no strong desires to purchase anything, I just love to browse a good antique place (and this one is big and full of neat things to see).  What I was truly keeping my eyes open for was an old wire egg basket for my kitchen. 

But, while looking for kitchen things,  

I found a booth that apparently belonged to kindred spirits of the bookish sort!

Although not techinally antiques, I found several Tasha Tudor books, my friends.  Be still my heart, vintage (1970’s) editions, with hard covers.

This Tasha illustrated copy of The Wind in the Willows was 25 dollars and out of my price-range.

However, I held it, looked into it, and swooned.

“O terrible bad, sir, terrible deep the snow is.”

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This is what I took home on an afternoon in which I had no intention to buy (of all things) books, but the book fairy led me to them and placed them into my life!

The maroon one is an old and quaint animal-stories book.  The whole stack belongs to me, but is to read out loud to the family.

You see, I still have small children to sit in my lap, and I do still love a good 20 pager now and then. 

Snowflake Bentley is a newish book, a true story about a man who was obsessed with photographing snowflakes and kept trying until he succeeded.  Made me cry. 

In the same booth, I found SNAKE BOOKS!  Remember, my seven year old, Caleb, wants to know and see anything about snakes.  We purchased him this one:

 

Snakes from the World, with illustrations from life, 1944

The text will be challenging for him, but the photos are great and he loves the book.  He took it to school this morning.

I am currently in the midst of Leo Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina.  I purchased this one online and it came in the mail on Saturday (the book fairy was good to me that day) What a substantial, wonderfully-written novel it is.  I read it a long time ago and thought it was high time to read it again.  This one is translated by Richard Pevear and Larissa Volokhonsky, and in my opinion is much more readable than the last translation I used.  There is a lot to be said for old classic literature compared to some of the lighter fiction.  It’s like comparing a steak to a cookie.  My goal for this year is to eat more steak and less cookies.

(The old snapshots are something else I picked up from the antique store.  I plan on putting them into a journal.)

“I declare after all there is no enjoyment like reading! How much sooner one tires of any thing than of a book! — When I have a house of my own, I shall be miserable if I have not an excellent library.”   Jane Austen

 

If you enjoyed this post, please feel at liberty to send me a Barnes and Noble gift certificate.

a great movie

 

 

 

Do you have it, too?  An extra compulsion to clean and organize your house?  It happens to me every January.

I had SUCH a productive morning.  I cleaned and organized several of my kitchen cuboards, including my baking supplies.  I had a crate of new quart-sized mason jars and used them to organize my goods; coconut, cocoa powder, kosher salt, thick-cut oats, farro, chocolate chips, etc.  Everything is in jars now, neatly labeled.  In order to clear some space, I also took things downstairs to storage that I don’t use often (like my huge waffle maker and deep fat fryer).

I took down the ornaments from the Christmas tree, with help from Seth and Sarah (they loved helping).  I packed everything away as neatly as I could, and labeled every box on the top and the side.  All the Christmas stuff is on the very top shelf of my downstairs pantry shelves.  I plan on making an announcement to the children, warning them not to touch the Christmas things until next December.  (David and Caleb love to rummage).

I also cleaned the kitchen and vacuumed the livingroom.

After I was done, and we had eaten lunch, and right before I was about to put the littles down for their naps the school nurse called me.  (“what now”, I thought) She said that Ethan had hurt his ankle in gym class, it was swelling up, and he needed to be picked up.  It was 19 degrees outside, so I ran out to start my vehicle before getting Seth and Sarah all bundled into coats, shoes, and hats.  When I pulled up to the school, the nurse wheeled Ethan out in a wheelchair!  What a sight.  Ethan is a very cheerful personality and, even though he can’t believe he hurt himself, he is very accepting of his new, temporary lame-ness. 

I got him set up on the couch, it was naptime, and quiet in the house, so the two of us decided to watch a movie.  And what a movie it was, perfect to watch with teenage boys.  We highly recommend it.

OCTOBER SKY  “A beautifully engrossing true story about a boy who puts his thinking, creative mind above the herd — with inspiring results. Well written and acted, an excellent example of how the determined individual can rise above fear and conformity. A young high school senior, faced with a dreary future as a coal miner in West Virginia, works furiously to build a rocket in the wake of the Russian Sputnik launch of the late 1950’s.”  ~Dr. Hurd (from his recommended movie list)

And guess what?  It’s a book, too!  (now on our reading list)

 

 Happy Thursday!

 

snow, ice, stars

I was surprised by how very cold it was.  Grace and I wanted to go for a walk in the freshly fallen snow on Sunday.  I had to send her back to the house to get more clothes on.  It was the wind that chilled us to the bone.

We had avoided the woods for over a month (during hunting season) because our woods are visited frequently by lots of hunters.  I had missed the woods, and it was satisfying to be out in them, again. 

There is nothing like leaning against a tree, solid and sure.  In fact, I sometimes hug them.

On this blustery day, the tops were swaying back and forth.  Trees do bend, more than I would think they could.  The wind was strong enough to make me wonder if I would get hit by fallen branches……

…..but the risk was well worth it, as the beauty of snow blowing through the air was deep-down lovely and good for the soul.

We came out into the open field.

And visited the half-frozen stream.

Snow was blown through my hair, which whipped and snapped around my face.  (I did so wish for a hat!)  The sun had NO warmth whatsoever.

There was so much beauty, my heart ached and I said, “Oh Grace, will YOU go for walks like this with your children when you’re grown?”

The words were just barely from my lips when she was saying “NO” quite emphatically.  “I will NOT take my children for walks in the winter.  In the summer, in the spring, in the fall, YES, but NOT the winter.  They will have to go for walks on their own.”

At home, we met up with Caleb, who was having fun in snow piles.

 

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I was weepy this morning.  Although all is well, I missed very much all the children and my husband.  Rich went back to work today and the children all left for school.  The house was missing them.  I was missing them.  I love to focus on Seth and Sarah, so I spent a little time re-evaluating our mornings and reminding myself of what we love to do; sing, dance, read books, clean, bath-times, and nature.

So I bundled them up after lunch for some fresh air.  I pulled them around in the yellow plastic sled.  I let Seth go sledding (he loved it), and we also played on the edge of the frozen pond.  Sarah was timid and needed encouragement to step onto the ice.  But Seth was ready for anything, and was soon slipping, sliding, spinning, and falling.

Bright, happy face.

Shadows

Sarah only fell once, very gently, onto her bottom.

It was enough to completely ruin her fun.  It was time for naps.

I asked Seth if he wanted hot chocolate and he said, NO, he wanted it warm.

Let me show you what I worked on last night at the table:

Paper stars!  I’m taping them on the windows and they are so pretty.

 

( PS.  I had a few friends ask about how to make the stars.  I bought a kit on sale at Barnes and Noble.

You use origami paper (cut it in fourths or eighths), fold, and glue.  You could probably find directions online, too. )

 

new year

 

Today is the last lazy day of the Holiday season.  Jacob has his friend Erinn over today and we also had Kathy and the children visiting, too.  Despite a bout with the flu, we have still managed to have a fulfilling week of Christmasing.

Quite a bit of snow fell this weekend, and we bundled up Sarah this morning so she could experience it.  She had to wear an old pair of boots from her brother.

 

 

The ponds are almost frozen enough to walk on.  It is supposed to get as low as 12 degrees tonight, perhaps tomorrow we will skate.

Sarah played with Caleb, Seth, and the dog.  When they came in, she cried because her hands were cold.  I helped take off the snow clothes and then swept up the snow with the broom.

Jacob, Erinn, and Grace watched a show upstairs in Grace’s room.  There *may or may not* be a little love in the air.

Kathy’s children played outside with some of mine.  They had a snowball fight while we talked on the couch.

I love that Ethan called her to ask if they could come over….and she told him yes.  Kevin is getting tall, Emily is a beauty, Caitlyn had a short hair cut, and before they left, Tristan played me a beautiful piece on the piano, all memorized and just the most amazing song, perfectly played.  It was a gift to hear it.

Well, my friends, it is a New Year.  A fresh one, “with no mistakes in it, yet”.  (Anne Shirley)

There is so much to look forward to, so much learning and growing and enjoying. 

 

Glory to God in highest heaven,
Who unto man His Son hath given;
While angels sing with tender mirth,
A glad new year to all the earth.
~Martin Luther

 

Jacob’s 16th birthday

Oh my friends, I became a mother for the first time sixteen years ago today.

Jacob was such a beautiful baby boy.  I remember that I was overwhelmed when Rich wheeled him in his little crib, into the room to me after his first bath.  He picked him up and put him into my arms, and that was the moment when the motherly love hit me full force and I knew there was nothing like that feeling.  It was one of the most treasured gifts from God, the love I felt as a held a warm, sleepy-heavy newborn baby boy.  My firstborn son, born a week after Christmas, on New Years Eve.  I was 20 years old.

 

 

 

Jacob decided on chocolate cake this year.  I invited him to make it with me but he politely declined.  Little Seth ran over with happy eyes and said HE would help me!  and so with Sarah, I had two little helpers.  They even put aprons on.  Rich gave me a new mixer for Christmas, and when we realized it was the same size as my old one, we returned it and bought this red beauty.  It has a seven quart bowl with enough room to mix 14 dozen cookies.

 

Jacob sat with his sister at the table to work on his art.  He has a collection of Sharpies and colored pencils that he uses, along with a calligraphy set.  He enjoys drawing and lettering.  Grace joins him often, and draws in her sketchbook, too

When Ethan returned from basketball practice, Jacob opened his birthday gifts to an admiring crowd of siblings.

He was given a leather journal, a set of speakers, and new sneakers.  He had been hinting for them one day when he was out shopping with Rich, which is why he smiled like this at his Dad.  He understood why he was told “no” on that day…….

After he opened gifts, we went out shopping for party food.  Shrimp, sandwiches, chips and dip, and soda.

I was able to use my new fiesta chip and dip set, from my husband.

Jacob and Rich

In this next picture, their smiles are so wonderful because they are being stinkers (I was trying to get in the picture and they stood in front of me!!)

You can just barely see the top of my head.

With our firstborn.

Grace and I took pictures of each other, and practiced different expressions; trying to avoid the big bright standard smiles.

I went to bed for a nap.  Then, all of a sudden, David and Caleb came in the room to talk.  They had been outside, sled riding.

“Dave!  What happened to your nose?”  (it was redder in real life, the flash smoothed out the redness)

“It was a snow plow and my face was the snow plow!”

“But I was the first one to get a BLOODY CUT!”  ~Caleb

His face was cold and damp from the snow.  He told me that on his way down the big hill, he went through a pricker patch and a pricker took his glove right off his hand and cut his finger.

He was so proud of his bloody cut that he refused to put a band aid on it, so he could keep looking at it.

After that interesting news, I took my nap.  It was so cozy and warm under the covers.  heart

Seth woke me up after a while and we had an early dinner.

Then, the boys (all five) went outside to play in the snow.  It was dark out, but not as cold, and they had so much fun.

This is Ethan and Dave, with their snowboards.  I stood out on the porch to watch and cheer them on.

When they came in, we cleared the table and had birthday cake.

Happy 16th birthday, Jacob!

I love you.

 

“The Mother of Boys”

Praise to the High One for giving me joys
Peculiarly sweet, I’m the mother of boys!
Mud puddles, torn blue jeans, toads, whistles and worms.
The furred and feathered and whatever squirms.

Black knuckles, bats, arrows and thundering noise.
They’re all in a day for the mothers of boys.
But, ah, ’tis a dear joy to turn the blue eyes
To the manifold wonder of earth, sea and skies.

And, ah, ’tis a dear joy to watch a small hand seize
The hand of God in the knowledge of these.
Spare me, oh High One, to praise Thee more when
This mother of boys is the mother of men.

~ written by Miriam Sieber Lind, mother of six sons and one daughter ~

 

Davy’s haircut; before and after

 

 

David needed some tender loving care.  He was walking around the house with a big head of crazy hair.  This morning I finally had the energy to tackle it.  With five boys, I have some experience through the years in providing hair cuts.  I’m not a professional by any means but I can get the job done with these handy clippers, and save a few dollars in the meantime.  The older boys won’t let me touch their hair anymore but the little ones still have no choice but to tolerate it.  It’s a fine time together.  Me, humming and buzzing away, and the poor boy underneath, itching, scratching, and complaining about it all.  But secretly, I think it’s all part of the fun.

Isn’t he handsome?  10 years old, he is, and a remarkable boy.  Now sporting a MOM-approved and crafted hair style.

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