what the boys are up to

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Between the woods the afternoon
Is fallen in a golden swoon,
The sun looks down from quiet skies
To where a quiet water lies,
And silent trees stoop down to trees………

A.A. Milne

Happiness is blogging on a Sunday afternoon as a Muppets movie blares in the background and Seth is over at the counter eating a bowl of homemade ham and potato chowder.  He’s so cute over there perched on a stool with his little legs dangling.  David and Ethan and Sarah are on the couch with me, too.

Ethan is sick with bronchitis.  He’s had a bad cold for days and days, on Thursday his coach called me and said that Ethan had trouble breathing for over 15 minutes after running.  I wanted to rush him to the doctor’s but Ethan insisted that he was fine.  He went to practice again on Friday and Saturday (in the rain, no less), then last night he came down with a fever and chills.  I took him to a walk in clinic this morning and the doctor gave us a prescription for antibiotics and a note to miss school for two days.  He slept all afternoon.

He requested pancakes for dinner so I made my mom’s recipe for the children, and at the same time I made a pot of soup so I could use up leftover potatoes and ham.  I had ordered a big deli platter for Rich’s lunch meeting on Friday and there was so much meat left over that I decided to use up the ham in a soup–no recipe–I melted half a stick of butter and sautéed chopped onion and celery, with salt and pepper.  Then, I peeled and diced 6 small red potatoes, added them to the pot and covered everything with chicken stock.  Once it came to a boil, I turned it down low and put the lid on until the potatoes were tender.  Then, I added in the leftover baby potatoes from Friday (cut in chunks), a can of corn, about a pound of chopped deli ham, and half a pound of chopped swiss and american cheese.  A dash of onion and garlic powders, more pepper, a can of evaporated milk and it was done.

The kids are most thrilled that “it has no clams”.

They all liked it!

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We spent some time outdoors this afternoon.  David got his fishing pole out, after noticing sunfish in the bass fish pond.  He said he had to get them out or they would eat the bass eggs this spring.

Isn’t Parker (the dog) funny?  The boys put their fish into a cooler (with buckets of water poured in it) and Parker would stand and look with his nose straight down at the swimming fish.  If we let him, he would catch them in his jaws.  But the boys slam the lid down every time.

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Sarah ran down to the pond in her Sunday dress and got her feet wet!

Don’t worry, Mom, I got her right out and properly dressed, see?

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As the boys fished, I wandered around.  I like this next picture with boys, girlie, hens, dog, and cat all in one shot::

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The hens were all gathered around a bowl of cracked feed corn.

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I packed away all their shorts this winter and they don’t know where they are so they wore their pajama shorts.

David=blue shirt         Caleb=gray shirt

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It just did my heart good to see them together, turning over rocks and boards to find worms.

Caleb caught a fish, too, and Seth also caught his very own first fish!

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With his big brother, David’s, help.

They were good companions all around the pond.  They caught five sunfish and threw them into the other pond.

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And that is what the boys did, today.

day 5: driftwood beach

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Last day on Jekyll.

Driftwood beach.

Mom, Dad, and I drove around and parked at one of the trails for a nice, long walk.  Cameras and binoculors ’round our necks.

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ripples of clouds in the sky

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ripples of sand under our toes

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old trees left standing the way the wind blew as they grew

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along the beach are huge fallen trees, like a nature playground

the roots upended and weathered by salt water and time

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at times it seemed we could go no further, but there was always a way (under, around, through, over)

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glittering ocean foam

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drips and drops leaving perfect circles

 

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 message in the sand; thinking of my love

 

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parents

 

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path to the shops

I endeavored to find a little something for each child; a tiny harmonica, shark tooth necklace, books, little tokens, for them to know “Mama thought of you.”

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baby palms

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bamboo

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lovely pottery shop

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so much beauty in green and brown and pink

 

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hanging spanish moss

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last meal together before I had to go to the airport ~ with my dear Dad ~

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the lovebirds

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I am home-sweet-home again and Jekyll was last week’s memory.  I had such a refreshing vacation; I came back moving and thinking much slower, a good indication to me that the trip away was needed for my well-being.   It was my second visit to this place, and I understand, now, why my parents keep going back.  If you go once, more than likely you will feel the need to return, and I miss it today.  There is a lot to do on Jekyll for activities, but it’s also a good place to relax in nature, too.  I hope to go with my family someday, I know they will love it, too.

click here for more information on JEKYLL ISLAND

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thought for today:

“This is my person, now indwell by the living Spirit of the living God.  I shall not permit it to be cramped and contaminated by exposing it to such dusty trivia as newspaper propaganda, pornography, cheap debasing literature, hours of low caliber television programs, or rubbish from the mass media.  Instead, God’s Spirit will lead me to expose myself to the finest art, literature, and music.  He will put me in situations where my mind can be improved and my soul stimulated with that which is beautiful and noble and lofty.  I can and will become a person of broad interests, noble aspirations, and enormous enthusiasm because I belong to Him and He wishes to put me out into wide fields of fruitful and useful endeavor ….”

“I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”  John 10:10

happy birthday, rich

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I love you.

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You and I have settled down in our relationship, into something that is steady and true.  We know each other.  I know that you will say and do things that shock me at times; like that time you bought a motorcycle without saying a word to me about it.  I found it in the garage one day.  And that other time when you traded in the Lexus for a truck.  I still really miss that car, but I have to admit the truck is more “you”.

You have stayed in the insurance business for the last 16 years but you have never let go of your dreams….you’ve done it all in your dreams….police officer, football player, race car driver, evangelist, homesteader, farmer, truck driver, there is still so much to do.

I’ll never forget the time you came home from work looking a lot more dazed than usual.  You were the first on the scene of a horrible accident and had to pull a trapped man from a burning vehicle; he had already been terribly burned.  You stayed with him until help came.  The man died but he died in a hospital bed and not in a burning vehicle, because of your bravery.

You cry during sad movies.

You love your children deeply, in ways I am just beginning to understand as I see the genuine heartache and tears at the thought of our oldest boy soon to leave the nest.

You are an excellent father.

You are disciplined and like to see things done right.

You respect the men in your family; grandfather, uncles, father, are so important to you.  You try to make them proud and I know that they are so very proud of who you have become.

You love the Lord and are passionate about teaching and preaching the Bible.  In the last few years I have seen you grow and develop in ways I never thought I would see; as a missionary in Jamaica, and as a helper at the teen camp this past fall.  You teach Bible study and Sunday School.  You preach sermons.  I’ve never seen you work so hard as when you have a message to say about God.  You study all night in order to prepare.

You are teaching Ethan to drive.

You stocked the pond with fish for our boys.

You are building a treehouse with them.

You have learned to fix your little daughters’ hair.

You love to run.  (you are downstairs running on the treadmill as I type this, I can hear the pounding rhythm of your feet)

Another favorite memory is from when we were first married and you couldn’t get the coal fire started downstairs as fast as you’d like; so you poured gasoline on it.  The boom from upstairs startled me in the kitchen, and the look on your face when you walked into the room!  You looked like someone who had a narrow escape from death, and the hair on and around your face was all twisted up and burnt.

More recently was when you blew up the kids’ basketball so hard that as soon as you touched it it exploded and tore your fingernail right backwards.  That was another loud sound from your direction.

You’ve gotten your fair share of speeding tickets.

It seems you do things in big ways; big family, big job, big dreams, big home projects……..I LOVE YOU……

I love how you sometimes kiss my feet because you love me so much.

You’re an honest lover.

You hang my pictures on the wall for me.

You are generous with your money and never complain about my shopping trips, and you send me away on adventures with joy.  (oh, wait a sec’…LOL)

You are the one who has the heart to heart talks with our older children, because you have the wisdom and words necessary for the task.

You are worthy of my respect and love; and you have it, with all my heart.

We are one.

It was fun to have babies with you and watch you with them as they grew.

You make me laugh.

You are silent most of the time.  You take forever to answer a simple question.  Sometimes I say “SPEAK!!!” and then you let out a little “woof” just to make me laugh.

I have a carrot cake in the oven for you because that is what you requested.

You leave your hat on the top of the lamp in our room and it used to bother me; but now I just leave it.  I have come to love the sight of it there.

You have twice as many pairs of shoes that I do; but you also wear them out faster.  You have things to do and places to go and miles to run~

 

Thank you for letting me have cats and chickens.

Thank you for overlooking my own many faults.

Thank you for being a good man, not a perfect man, but a good one, with strong character and a hard work ethic.

Thank you for being a provider.

Thank you for keeping yourself in good shape.

Thank you for leading.

Thank you for being fun.

Thank you for marrying me.

Thank you for never keeping your hands to yourself and making me laugh.

Thank you for telling me I am beautiful.

Thank you for who you are.

 

Happy Birthday, husband.

what day are we on now? Day 4

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Nothing is worth more than this day. ~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

 

We are at the end of day four and this is my last night here on Jekyll Island so I am a tiny bit sad.

I am a little sad, but mostly content, though, because we three are having such a great time….today was manicure and pedicure day for Mom and me.

Dad dropped us off at the Jekyll Island club and we walked around a little before we went to our appointment at the spa there.

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There were tall stemmed poppies in bloom, bright orange and white ones, a feast for the eyes.

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Mother in the poppies, looking like a poppy in her yellow sweater.

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Spanish moss is so fascinating and pretty to look at~

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three little birds

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a quick little snack before our pampering–

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Mom got a french mani and pedi and I got a regular mani and a polish change on the toes.  There was only one nail professional working so we sat through each other’s treatments.  It was quiet and nice and no one else was around but the owner and she was fun and easy to talk to.  The woman doing our nails was only 22, and calm and capable.  My polish was OPI’s “Miami Beet”  (such a fun name!)

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After our nails dried and we met back up with Dad, we went to the Rah Bar on a pier by the water.  We had the most wonderful shrimp, I had a half pound of them with some red potatoes, and ice sweet tea.

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Then we headed back to the club for dessert at the cafe.  They had Dad’s favorite black bottom muffins and because he had given us gifts, (as you will see in a moment) Mom and I bought him two muffins.  I had one, as well (a dense chocolate muffin with a little scoop of cheesecake topping and chocolate chips in the cake) and Mother had a big oatmeal cookie with dried cranberries.

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See my pretty nails?

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Mom and Dad swam in the hotel pool while I read my book and then the three of us got into the hot tub.

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My handsome Dad wearing his new hat that he got for himself.

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So when Dad met up with us at the spa he was carrying a bag.  He had gone shopping and of course we wanted to know right away what he had.  But he wouldn’t show us and told us to stop snooping and trying to know his business.  Once we got to the Rah Bar for our shrimp we were still curious and he said, “Oh all right, I’ll show you what I have.” and he pulled out a gift for each of us; a canvas bag with a soy candle inside.  He had chosen each thing carefully.

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My bag is the one with the books and CS Lewis quote, and my candle is “Celtic Moonspice”.  I wonder if I’ll ever burn it.  Dad gave it to me!

I am currently watching American Idol, on the bed with Mom, while Dad is in the other room learning new drumming techniques on his computer.

 

Day 3

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After a gorgeous sunrise this morning on Jekyll, we headed out the door and drove to sunny (but chilly) Florida!

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We had cups of icy cold orange juice at the welcome center.

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Dad and Mom held hands…they didn’t know I was taking this picture from the back seat (I was reading my book).

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After arriving in St. Augustine, FL, we had a delicious breakfast.  Mom and I had sweet potato waffles with bananas, pecans, and caramel syrup.

 

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Everything around me was so beautiful, and the city was bustling today.

We rode on the trolley tour, and got off for a while to do some walking and shopping.

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We enjoyed (part of) a free organ recital at one of the big churches.

(we didn’t stay for the whole thing)

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We went on a history tour, which was very interesting.  This young lady did a very good job at explaining historical facts of Florida and St. Augustine.

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I bought a few little things at this lovely shop.  Owl earrings!

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We enjoyed the stained glass windows in this old church.

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Mom and I toured some very old houses, and of course I took a lot of photos here.

I loved every part of prowling around the old grounds and houses.

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Isn’t this old ceiling light gorgeous?

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This is some kind of old handiwork.  I would love to know more about this craft!  Dawn, you could bring it back!

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Mama

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I love this picture, with the big plant, RED windows, brick, and green chair

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pink building, roses

 

 

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blue wall, yellow, old sofa, painting

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“The Oldest House”

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Palm tree like fireworks.

After a delicious dinner, we drove back to the island and arrived at about 9-something tonight.  Going to read my book now and get some sleep.

News from back home:  my son Ethan got his drivers permit!

Thankful for another day.  ~

xo

day 2

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Last night we were still out to dinner, but this evening we decided to stay in and have a light meal in the room.  It’s been a relaxing afternoon, we did our adventuring this morning by going back over the bridge to Brunswick for shopping.  Dad dropped Mom and I off and we meandered through places that we especially thought looked interesting~

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I have to say that this was the most darling shop for little girl’s clothes, I could have dressed Sarah in a wardrobe entirely from this place.  I did come away with three dresses and a skirt, which I will do a post about at a later date, when Sarah can model them.

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I went in and the owner said, “I would have stood in the window and posed for you!”  He saw me taking the picture.  We were also greeted by the dog, Mr Wriggles, who, after a silent hello, wandered away again.  The owner’s wife kept coughing but assured us she was on antibiotics.  Wouldn’t it be fun to own a nice little book shop with your significant other?

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*cookbook all about biscuits and my bag of dresses for Sarah Joy*

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We can now heartily recommend Arte Pizza on 1518 Newcastle Street in Brunswick, GA.  I had the house salad and a meatball sandwich, made with thick slices of meatball, lightly sauced with a wonderful tomato sauce, with a basil leaf.  It was served steaming hot on an artisan roll.

Dad met us back at the pizza place for lunch; he had two slices of cheese pizza (thin crust).

Mom had a caesar salad and a pasta dish.

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We sat at a tall round table right by the window, on stools.  We were cozy, watching the traffic go by and enjoying our food.

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Then, we had cupcakes for dessert.  (see why we needed a light dinner?)

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we had wedding cake, ice cream sundae, and lemon ones

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They were made by this lady, who has won awards for her cupcakes and isn’t shy to let people know that “God Did This”.  Wouldn’t it be nice to make a sign like that and hang it up in your house or around your child’s neck like a necklace?  I love it.

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ALSO:

we went out to the pool
read books
walked along the beach
watched a cooking show
drank coffee
what else?  I guess that’s about it.

I admit, I do miss my husband and children.  They are doing fine, though.  They adopted a new cat named Billy.

 

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Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things.

 

 

Rich drove me to the airport when the stars were still out and the moon was bright and beautiful.  It was 15 degrees.  My love and I shivered until the heat warmed up the vehicle……he left me with kisses and a wave at the airport and I was on my way.

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The first flight into Atlanta, GA was uneventful.  I was in the very last seat in the back of the plane, without even a window.  A young woman sat beside me and promptly fell asleep.  I read from the book Beth recommended to me,  The Deed of Paksenarrion, by Elizabeth Moon.  I also read As a Man Thinketh (an old purchase on my kindle).  I had forgotten my Bible and needed something for my soul and if you are interested in a good application of Phillipians 4:8, this is highly worth reading.  I jotted down quotes in my journal.  Here is one:

There is no physician
like cheerful thought
for dissipating
the ills of the body.

James Allen

At the Atlanta airport, I scurried to gate 26D to catch my next flight to Bruswick, GA.  This was an “up and down flight” meaning, just as soon as we were up, we were coming down.  A nice, short flight in a little plane.  I worked on my crochet and did some more reading.

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The view from my window~pretty fluff clouds~

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By 11:30 in the morning, I had arrived safely to spend the week (until Friday) with my parents on Jekyll Island.  I gave Dad a quick call and they came to pick me up at the airport.  I was ready, standing outside, to get a picture as they drove up.  I love Mom’s happy smile.

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I am so blessed by healthy, active, Christian parents.

They had scoped out Brunswick that morning, and found a few antique shops to take me to.  But first, we enjoyed lunch at the Golden Corral and then picked up rejuvinating coffees from Mickie D’s.

ANTIQUING IN GEORGIA

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Can you believe it, fiesta lovers?  The first place we visited had a mess of vintage fiestaware.  It was lovely to see, upstairs, tucked away and scattered about a small room.

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I bought a forest green saucer, shiny and small, easy to take home.  It will be a nice addition to my display of green in the dining room.

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for my boys to see

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a page from a handmade cookbook with a wallpaper cover

“Friendship consists in forgetting what one gives, and remembering what one receives.”

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I bought this book, all about African Violets.  It is filled with line illustrations and it makes me smile.  I admire the art of houseplants and this book does a good job at instilling a respect for learning about plants….a whole book all about the humble African Violet!

“Through the neighborly exchange of leaves
or the reciprocal mailing of them
to unmet but not unknown distant “violet friends”
almost every desired variety may be acquired
and the windows of a house soon filled
with oncoming youngsters.”

Helen Van Pelt Wilson

Isn’t that a great quote?  I love it.  I copied it into my journal along with a sketch of the flowers..

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At the last place I found Kangaroos that reminded me of my dear friend Christie, who is about to move back to the USA after living in Australia for three years.

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A kangaroo collection?  How fun!

AND……

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I didn’t buy them but I probably should have:  A Millie and a Willie penguin!

Rich’s DAD’s name is Willie, and Willie has a sister named Millie!!!!!!  It’s Dad and Aunt Millie as penguins!

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Sitting in the same glass case as Millie and Willie were these beautiful fiesta serving utensils, I think they were 168.00, and a vintage tumbler.

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Done with our afternoon of antiquing we drove over the bridge and got settled into the hotel room.

Mom and I then went for a Very Windy Walk…it was about 54 degrees and perhaps about 40 with the wind.

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shells in our hand, sand on our feet, brought back to the room.

For dinner we went to the Driftwood Bistro where Dad got to laughing (a laughing fit) as we waited half an hour for a table.

I had a grilled chicken tenderloin dinner with sweet potato soufflé and green beans, with peach cobbler for dessert.

Indeed, I went to bed with a full stomach and slept so good after a wonderful vacation day 1.

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Day 2 is beginning by yours truly tip tapping out a blog post from the hotel pull out sofa bed in my PJ’s next to a view of the ocean.  Mom and Dad are out walking, and we look forward to warmer temperatures today.

Mom gave me a cup of coffee before they left and when the get back we shall have breakfast.

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(((much love)))) to you, my friends, and God bless you.

Shanda

PS, my side of the suite

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today we had chicken and biscuits for dinner

 

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The cooking onions think it’s springtime and are growing!

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2 organic chickens, 8 cups of stock, 3 onions, 6 carrots, and 2 bay leaves

 

My son is like I was at 16 years old.  As soon as spring was in the air and the ground becomes mud, I wanted to be in it.  I remember one spring when I rubbed mud from the dirt road on my face (I was so weird when I was 16) and guess what happened?  My face turned sore from the road salt in the mud.

ETHAN was outside with his little brothers.  They started out on the trampoline, but as I drove off to pick up Jacob from school, I saw the four of them tramping off into the woods, all in BARE FEET.  Mind you, there is still quite a bit of snow and was only 46 degrees.  They were all thrilled to do it, and Ethan was kind enough to carry Seth part of the way.  I wish I had a picture of them disappearing into the trees as a clump of happy, joyful country boys.  They told me later it was a “barefoot adventure”.

I had to get some groceries after I picked up Jake and there were flowers 75 percent off.  I bought 2 bouquets of roses for 5 dollars.

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Flowers seem intended for the solace of ordinary humanity.  John Ruskin

 

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I love having flowers and plants in the house.

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While I worked on dinner, Seth, David, Sherlock the cat, Caleb, Sammy the cat, and Sarah watched a Winnie the Pooh movie.  (the one from 2011, I love it, it’s such a cute movie).

They looked so cozy that I had to take a couple pictures.  I adore how they snuggle up together.

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I had to laugh when I looked down at the dog while I was taking pictures of the children, he was waiting for his turn.

He even brought his own prop to the photo shoot.

 

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What he really wanted all along was chicken bits.  🙂

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I left Jacob (my hardworking helper) to dice the cooked chicken and veggies while I once again drove to school, this time to get Grace.

As soon as I got home, we finished everything up.

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veggies, chicken, and gravy; right before I put the biscuits on top

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The children were all eager for it to get DONE.  I made a double batch — a big lasagna pan and a 9 by 13 pan.

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Comfort food

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I’m hoping that if you want the recipe, you will click on the photo and it will enlarge enough for you to read it, as it is quite a bit of typing.  I remember when I started making this dish almost 20 years ago.   It was a recipe I found in a Taste of Home magazine.  Rich’s grandma used to renew my subscription every year and I enjoyed studying each issue.  I wasn’t used to cooking or baking when I got married and I found this recipe laborious.  It is still time consuming, but much easier to put together.  Rest assured, with practice, working in the kitchen gets more enjoyable every year.  It just goes to show that if you stick with something you WILL get good at it!

The children all liked the meal, I think, although Seth did object to carrots.  “Don’t you remember, I throw up when I eat these?”  And I know for a fact that Caleb didn’t appreciate the mushrooms because he had to tell me; “I LOVE the mushrooms, MOM.”  So I wouldn’t feel bad because I’m a mind reader and know that he doesn’t like them.  David simply said nothing and left all his mushrooms in his bowl.  I ate them later on.  Jacob asked me if we could add flour to the gravy to make it thicker even though it was already completely baked.  Rich said, “mmmmmm”.

If you have read a book that is impossible to put down because it is so well-written and fascinating, I would be grateful for the title.  I’m getting ready to go on vacation on Monday and I need a few books on my kindle.  I’m reluctantly leaving War and Peace at home because it weights so much.  thx