Would you believe my children have been gone since 5pm yesterday evening? I’m sitting here in a quiet house with no children!!!! My sister Amanda and her husband are watching them for me. Yesterday evening with Rich, just the two of us, was amazing. We were a little sad when we shut the door behind the kids and watched them go off down the road with Uncle Jason, but we got over it and we watched football together! I enjoyed watching it, I normally don’t but last night it felt like a date and it was FUN. We ate chips and chili and just relaxed together.
This morning I have done some chores, but the best thing of all was was sitting and writing in my journal for the first time in ages. I sat and thought through my New Year’s resolutions and did some reading in my Bible and some other books. Amanda doesn’t plan on bringing the children home until this evening so the whole day is before me like a gift.
I thought I would sit and write out my thoughts here on my blog, for the New Year. I really wanted to think of “New Year’s resolutions” as a way to improve my life . . . .but with changes that would feel deep down good. Not necessarily because I HAVE to, but because I WANT to.
First of all. My motto for the year is to ENJOY LIFE. This really means a lot to me because happiness, in my opinion, has a lot to do with attitude. Even if you are a Christian, that doesn’t mean much (when it comes to enjoying life). Sad to say I’ve seen a lot of generally miserable-looking Christians which is strange because we really should be the happiest people on the face of the earth. The Lord is really pressing on my heart to ENJOY the life He has given me.
“A cheerful heart is good medicine.” Proverbs 17:22
(hot beverages in the wintertime make me happy)
“Here is what I have seen to be good and fitting: to eat, to drink and enjoy oneself in all one’s labor in which he toils under the sun during the few years of his life which God has given him; for this is his reward.” Ecclesiastes 7:18
“From now on, I am going to grab the good times with both arms. I am going to walk outside and feel the sun on my face and learn to laugh, really laugh again. Most of all, I’m going to take the love that comes my way and hold on to it for dear life. Sometimes we don’t need new scenery, just new eyes.” ~ Dawn Miller
Here are some ways in which I can enjoy life more:
~LAUGH and SMILE a lot (if I forget “how”, watch the children and do what they do!)
~ BE LIGHTHEARTED (don’t take things so seriously, which I tend to do)
~REMEMBER that it’s all in the attitude
~QUIT COMPLAINING TO MY HUSBAND (for some reason, he’s the one I feel I am free to complain to!)
~Say and think “THANK YOU” a lot (an attitude of gratitude)
~QUIT ANALYZING THINGS SO MUCH — Instead of focusing on whether an aspect of life is “easy” or “hard”, just LIVE LIFE.
(the fourth corner of Seth’s blanket is done. Jacob embroidered this Dear Mushroom.)
(my Dear Mushroom salt and pepper shakers make me very happy)
Here are a few more of my resolutions:
Be a little more creative by making things and adding my own personal touches where ever I can. This will be fun for me, and challenging, because in order to be creative I need to know my likes and dislikes and feel comfortable enough to express them.
Beauty—Look for God’s beauty and do what I can to add some of my own to my life. To some extent I already do this, but it’s fun to be aware and be deliberate in relishing and adding beautiful things around me.
Health—focus on my own, and my family’s health by making sure we eat good food, and get plenty of fresh air and sunshine. Study up on the subject. Learn more.
God’s Word—one of my resolutions is to put Bible verses in every room. I also want to read the Bible with the expectation that it will amaze me. I look forward to his truths filling my heart with light and wonder.
OTHERS–I love to encourage so this year I want to encourage whoever God lays on my heart, in bold ways. For instance, I have been thinking about Rich’s Aunt Mildred for several days now. She has health issues and is basically a shut in. She sent us a nice Christmas card and today I want to sit down and write her back and perhaps find a little something (a candle?) to send along with the note, just to brighten her day. I firmly believe in letting the Holy Spirit guide me in my ministry to others….there is safety in that, as He will never give me too much to do or allow it to become a heartless duty instead of a love-act.
Random question: I love to read and I was hoping, if any of you know of books that will make me laugh and laugh, that you would please let me know the titles. Thank you!
Okay, that about wraps things up here. I did also want to ask you to pray for me and my family if you think of it. Rich is at work now, but has a flight to catch this afternoon, for a business trip and he won’t be back until Thursday.
I just wanted to ask you to pray for him as he tr
avels, and for me and the children while he is away. I already know God is blessing, and answering my needs, by the way Amanda and Jason have so generously provided a quiet day for me today.
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ICE HOCKEY PHOTOS—-Rich and the children are finally able to ice skate on the pond. Rich went out on Saturday, with the kids, to buy them hockey sticks. While he was doing that, I was able to get my hair cut (and yes, Rich does like it, by the way). They have been playing hockey and skating all weekend long.
Rich used his snow blower to clear the ice:
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And that’s all for this very long post. My mind is constantly on baby now, and getting ready for the big delivery day (he’s due 2/12). I’ll be updating my site when I can.
Blessings to you and yours……
Love ~Shanda~