just the two of us

A daughter is a day brightener and a heart warmer.  ~Author Unknown

 

Hello friends, it’s a deliciously rainy morning here.  Ethan and Caleb are sick, so we plan on staying home together as a family, as snug as 7 little bugs can be.  It’s the sort of day that you don’t even want to turn on the lights–the sort of day to keep things dim, light some candles and cuddle in blankets (crocheted by Grandma).  I have my scrapbook things spread out on the living room floor, getting ready to work on my “Summer of 2007” album. 

Yesterday, my daughter Grace and I were able to go have some quality time together-just the two of us.  It was a bright sunny day, perfect for an adventure.  I didn’t take my camera along because I wanted to focus just on her. 

Since becoming a parent, I’ve been afraid of spoiling my children and giving them too much.  But, after a day of spending money on Grace–pampering her–I realized that yes, there is a time for everything.  In my opinion, it was time and money well spent, as our relationship was strengthened, and we were able to talk to each other and look at each other without interruptions.  I  remembered again that I have a sweet and precious little daughter who needs time with me.

She is almost 8 years old and has 4 brothers.  It was time to get out with just Mommy and get away from “boy air” for a while.

It was a milestone day, she had her ears pierced.  (She was so sweet.  When it came to picking out her first earrings, she knew exactly what she wanted out of about 25 choices, her birthstone.)

We both had our hair cut.

We ordered treats at Panera together. (I had a pumpkin muffin and a latte.  She had a strawberry smoothie and a frosted brownie)

We went to Bath and Body works and she picked out an American Girl nail polish set and sniffed all the bubble bath until she decided on a favorite–Lemon Ice Tea.

We held hands everywhere we went.

She talked a lot.

I think Grace is beautiful.  It was lovely to have an afternoon of looking at my daughter, and thanking God for her.

She’s my one and only.

I really hope, and do believe, that she will remember this day her whole life. 

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my little love

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DSC_2984  Grace 

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And thou shalt in thy daughter see,
This picture, once, resembled thee.
~Ambrose Philips

bean town

On September 8, Rich and I spent the day in Boston, MA. 

But first, on the way there, we stopped at a mall and I took pictures of this fiestaware display at Macy’s.  (I love fiestaware!) Do you see the Sunflower 2 quart serving bowl on the chair?  That was what I bought, along with some Fiesta placemats in the same color.

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Isn’t it lovely?

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Boston Pics:

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My husband, Rich

I like the pic w/him sitting on the stairs in front of the State building because he actually testified there not long ago. (insurance)

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Rich liked the refection in this one:

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Boston Public Library:

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Wow.

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(notice the bare feet?)

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another wow.

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“Top of the Hub” restaurant –52nd floor of the Prudential Building.  This is the view we had right next to our table!

 

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I had clam chowder and a salad.

Rich had lobster bisque and a salad.

 

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 It was a hot, humid day–in the 90’s–and we walked almost non-stop all day.  As I sat here posting the pictures, I laughed to myself.  Rich asked me what was so funny and I said, “Well, I’m just trying to figure out if I should tell everybody that I was in tears by the time we left Boston.”  “No, don’t tell them that”, he said, “let them think you’re tough.” 

I AM tough!  

 

Sending a smile to all of my xanga friends. . . . .

more of Davy-do

Does anyone remember the post I did about my almost-five-year-old Davy-do last week?  Remember how I said that he’s been freezing things lately?

Well, just when I thought I could finally share my pictures from Boston, David had to go and do something blog-worthy.  Something funny and unsual, at least to me.

I came inside yesterday afternoon just in time to see David come up from the freezer door (it’s a “freezer on the bottom” that pulls out like a big drawer) with a spoon of “something”.  I had just served them the last of the ice cream the other night so I asked,

“What are you eating?”

“Cereal!” He said, mumbling and gesturing down in the freezer like, “look for yourself”.  Proudly.

I peeked in.  And there, staring back up at me, was David’s leftover breakfast.  Cocoa Krispies.  He froze ’em.

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He froze ’em.  And ate ’em. 
(after I took the pictures I made him put his knife in the sink and get a spoon!)

How?  Why?  What next?

To be con’t. . . . . . . . .

 

Psalm 60

 

We released butterflies this afternoon. 

After reading the latest update on Amy’s blog (who is battling leukemia) I uploaded the pictures of the butterflies and words from Psalm 90 ran through my head.

We fly away. . . we fly away. . .we fly away.

Fly. 

We fly.

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“Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever thou hadst formed the earth and the world, even from everlasting to everlasting, thou art God.”

 

“For a thousand years in thy sight are but as yesterday when it is past, and as a watch in the night.”

 

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“. . we spend our years as a tale that is told. . .”

 

“The days of our years are threescore and ten; and if by reason of strength they be fourscore years, yet is their strength labour and sorrow; for it is soon cut off, and we fly away.”

 

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“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.”

 

“Return, O Lord, how long?”

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“O satisfy us early with thy mercy; that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.”

 

“Make us glad”

 

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“Let the beauty of the Lord our God be upon us”

*at 4:00pm today–just an hour after I posted this– Amy did indeed “fly away” home to her Maker.  Please take time to visit her blog.  Her story will touch your heart.  I did not know her personally, I just visited her blog for the past few months.  Her testimony certainly encouraged me to cherish every moment.

 

 

book-love

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Rich and I got to go away this weekend (alone).  (!!!)  ()

Yesterday we went to Boston and the top 2 pictures are from a cool bookstore that we found.  There were lots of books–floor to ceiling wooden bookcases loaded with them.  Stacked on the floor.  The place smelled wonderful–dusty, papery, old, 100% natural.  I am a book lover and I enjoyed prowling around.  They had taped-up quotes all over the place. 

Went back to the hotel after a day–long day–of walking around Boston.  Crashed in bed with the book I was reading at the time (done now).  The link is to follow.  It was really good–I’m wondering if our friend alaskahannah has read it!?

 

Davy-do

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He is a bright star in my life.  He sparkles and shines and makes me smile and laugh every day.  He’s impulsive, creative, loud, happy, and passionate.

Lately he’s been freezing things in our freezer.  We have a fridge that has the freezer on the bottom–and it pulls out like a drawer–way too convenient for busy 4 1/2 year olds.  First he was freezing bowls of water.  Then we found water with fruit loops.  (mind you, I never see him put these things in!!)  Yesterday he came outside with his own glass of frozen orange juice.  When he was done with that, he appeared with frozen chocolate milk!   I did catch him the other day mixing chocolate chips into a big glass of water–no doubt it was about to be another frozen foods experiment.

The only thing that David is afraid of is bedtime.  Okay, and maybe bees.  (he got stung 2 times the other day).

He is the one who reminds me to keep my heart light and happy like a little child.

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(don’t ask me why I’m pinching him in this 2nd picture–but, it makes me laugh and laugh–poor guy!)

There is a poem that I really like, I think because I have 3 brothers and 4 sons.  (I simply have a weakness for little boys!)   It’s a little on the long side, but I think you will like it, too.  Sometimes a line will run through my thoughts when I watch David play.  I added a couple pictures of lil’ Caleb at the end, too.  He was hanging around watching me take David’s pictures and didn’t want to be left out of the fun.

 

John Greenleaf Whittier
1807-1892

THE BAREFOOT BOY

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Blessings on thee, little man,
Barefoot boy with cheek of tan!

With thy turned-up pantaloons,
And thy merry whistled tunes;
With thy red lip, redder still
Kissed by strawberrys on the hill;
With the sunshine on thy face,
Through thy torn brim’s jaunty grace;
From my heart I give thee joy,–
I was once a barefoot boy!

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Prince thou art,–the grown-up man
Only is republican.
Let the million-dollared ride!
Barefoot, trudging at his side,
Thou more hast more than he can buy
In the reach of ear and eye,–
Outward sunshine, inward joy:
Blessings on thee, barefoot boy!

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Oh for boyhood’s painless play,
Sleep that wakes in laughing day,
Health that mocks the doctor’s rules,
Knowledge never learned in schools,
Of the wild bee’s morning chase,
Of the wild-flower’s time and place,
Fight of fowl and habitude
Of the tenants of the wood;
How the tortoise bears his shell,
How the woodchuck digs his cell,
And the ground-mole sinks his well;
How the robin feeds her young,
How the oriole’s nest is hung,
Where the whitest lilies blow,
Where the freshest berries grow,
Where the ground-nut trails its vine,
Where the wood-grape’s clusters shine;
Of the black wasp’s cunning way,
Mason of his walls of clay,
And the architectural plans
Of gray hornet artisans!
For, eschewing books and tasks,
Nature answers all he asks;
Hand in hand with her he walks,
Face to face with her he talks,
Part and parcel of her joy,–
Blessings on the barefoot boy!

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Oh for boyhood’s time of June,
Crowding years in one brief moon,
When all things I heard or saw,
Me, their master, waited for.
I was rich in flowers and trees,
Humming birds and honey-bees;
For my sport the squirrel played,
Plied the snouted mole his spade;
For my taste the blackberry cone
Purpled over hedge and stone;
Laughed the brook for my delight
Through the day and through the night,
Whispering at the garden wall,
Talked with me from fall to fall;
Mine the sand-rimmed pickerel pond,
Mine the walnut slopes beyond,
Mine, on bending orchard trees,
Apples of Hesperides!
Still as my horizon grew,
Larger grew my riches too;
All the world I saw and knew
Seemed a complex Chinese toy,
Fashioned for a barefoot boy!

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Oh for festal dainties spread,
Like my bowl of milk and bread;
Pewter spoon and bowl of wood,
On the door-stone, gray and rude!
O’er me, like a regal tent,
Cloudy-ribbed, the sunset bent,
Purple-curtained, fringed with gold,
Looped in many a wind-swung fold;
While for music came the play
Of the pied frogs’ orchestra;
And, to light the noisy choir,
Lit the fly his lamp of fire,
I was a monarch: pomp and joy
Waited on the barefoot boy!

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Cheerily, then, my little man,
Live and laugh, as boyhood can!

Though the flinty slopes be hard,
Stubble-speared the new-
mown sward,
Every morn shall lead thee through
Fresh baptisms of the dew;
Every evening from thy feet
Shall the cool wind kiss the heat;
All too soon these feet must hide
In the prisons cells of pride,
Lose the freedom of the sod,
Like a colt’s for work be shod,
Made to tread the mills of toil,
Up and down in ceaseless moil:
Happy if their track be found
Never on forbidden ground;
Happy if they sink not in
Quick and treacherous sands of sin.
Ah! that thou couldst know thy joy,
Ere it passes, barefoot boy!

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Have a wonderful weekend. . . . enjoy your loved ones. . .  By the way, here is our most recent family photo, taken with my self-timer on my camera on Labor Day (we had a picnic).  Speaking of David, he is the one who likes to do funny things as the timer goes off.  Then he jumps up and says, “Can I see it?  Can I see it?”

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Thankful for you

 

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“Have you brothers or sisters living anywhere in this great world?  Have you allowed the friendship to grow cold or the ties to be forgotten?  Have you permitted all intercourse to be broken off?  Lose not a day till you have done the right thing, taken the first step, to gather up the shattered links and reunite them in a holy chain.  If they are far away, write to them words of love.  If they are within reach, go to them in person.  If you are still living in the old home, and if your life together has not been close, intimate, confiding and helpful, seek at once by the wise arts of a loving heart to make it what it ought to be.”  J.R. Miller

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One Wednesday, I had already begun getting the kids ready for prayer meeting when Rich called and said we weren’t going.  Since Ethan looked handsome and Grace looked so sweet, I decided to take some pictures.

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Grace in mid-sentence.  This is a typical occurrence.

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Patient Ethan, enduring a hug from sister.

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Sometimes being a brother is even better than being a superhero.  ~Marc Brown

There’s no other love like the love for a brother.  There’s no other love like the love from a brother.  ~Astrid Alauda

A sibling may be the keeper of one’s identity, the only person with the keys to one’s unfettered, more fundamental self.  ~Marian Sandmaier

A sister is a forever friend.  ~Author Unknown

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I hope and pray that my children will always be close friends.  That is how we train them–to love each other and to be best friends.   I was asked by company once if my kids ever fought with one another and I laughed and said, “We don’t allow it”.  I was only half-joking.  

 

I, who have no sisters or brothers, look with some degree of innocent envy on those

 who may be said to be born to friends.  ~James Boswell

 

 

 

I am the oldest of five.  I feel blessed to have 3 brothers and a sister; David, Amanda, Nathan, and Isaac.  How about you?  Do you have siblings?   

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“A saved soul has many sorrows.

He has a body like other men-

weak and frail.

He has a heart like other men-

and often a more sensitive one, too.

He has trials

and losses like others-

and often more.

He has his share of bereavements,

deaths, disappointments, crosses.

He has the world to oppose,

a place in life to fill blamelessly,

persecutions to endure,

and a death to die.

And who is sufficient for these things?

What shall enable a believer to bear all this?

Nothing but the “consolation there is

in CHRIST.” (Phil. 2:1)

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“In the multitude of my thoughts within me, Thy comforts delight my soul.  Ps. 94:19

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“But have you come to Christ already, and found relief?

Then come nearer, nearer still.

The closer your communion with Christ,

the more comfort you will feel.

The more you daily live by the side of the Fountain,

the more you shall feel in yourself

“a well of water springing up

into everlasting life” (John 4:14)

You shall not only be blessed yourself,

but be a source of blessing

to others.”

 

Quotes from the following book:

makes me smile. . . .

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More friends~me, and Kathy and Karen 

My 10 year old took these on Thursday at Old Sturbridge Village.   We had loads of fun–lots of laughing.  When there are 3 moms and 10 children (10yrs and under) things are bound to get silly.

Is everyone having a good Saturday?  We (Rich and me and our five littles)  found a great pizza and wing place–finally.  Then we went to the grocery store.  We keep reminding ourselves that we have Monday — isn’t a holiday weekend nice? 

It’s sunny and windy here today–a very lovely day. 

 

Emily

She was only 1 pound, 6 ounces when she was born.

My little friend Emily is having a preemie reunion given by the hospital that took care of her (and other little preemies like her).  Her mom asked me to take some pictures for the occasion.  It was a delight to spend time with her yesterday (along with 9 of our other children) and think about God’s wonderful care over this little one.

I remember when she was in the hospital for so long, slowly getting bigger so that she could go home to be with her loving mom, dad, 2 sisters, and brother.  Every Sunday her Mom would cry through all the hymns–most of the time she could not even sing them.  There’s nothing like going through trial to draw us close to our Heavenly Father.

Thank you again, dear Lord, for allowing Emily to grow — to be a healthy, active little girl.  She is a joy to everyone who knows her.

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 Day by Day

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and with each passing moment, 

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Strength I find

to meet my trials here.

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 Trusting in my Father’s wise bestowment,

I’ve no cause for worry or for fear.

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He whose heart is kind beyond all measure

gives unto each day what He deems best–

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Lovingly, its part of pain and pleasure,

Mingling toil with peace and rest.

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My little David is the same age as Emily.  They are special friends–here is a little conversation we had one time that shows how much David thinks of Emily.

Me–“David, eat your food so you can grow up and be like Daddy!”

David–“I don’t want to grow up to be like Daddy!”

Me, surprised–“Why NOT?”

David–“I don’t want to get big.  Then I can’t be Emily’s friend anymore.”

 

 

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