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About Shanda

wife, mom of seven, friend, child of God

 

Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing, wind braces us up, snow is exhilarating; there is really no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather.  ~John Ruskin

 

We woke up to some light, but icy snow.  It’s melting away already, but we had a brief window of time to sled ride before it was too late.  Rich decided to work for a little while from home, and David’s school was delayed, so it felt like a holiday.  After a breakfast of home made biscuits, bacon, and fried eggs, out we went, leaving Rich inside working (but enjoying his homecooked breakfast)…….

Caleb’s squeals and laughter were a joy to hear.  Oh, he had SO much fun!  He’s a good snow-boy.

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It’s so nice to live on a hill!

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And all that climbing back up…..such good exercise for little legs.

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A happy smile from Grace, as she watches her brothers go down the hill.

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This is Ethan…..

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And here are Jacob and David.

Jacob is sick today, but still could not resist coming outside.  He’s got an upset stomach and a headache.  That’s all I have to say about that.  You can imagine the rest. 

Davy-do never did make it to school.  I waved his bus away….he can stay home today.

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Ethan was Caleb’s special protector.  One time the sled (with him on it) ended up in shrubs.  I could hear Caleb all the way from the house, “OHHHH!  NOW WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO????????”, so dramatically.

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We came inside just in time to kiss Rich good~bye…..it was such a treat to have him home for the morning.

Ethan took the pictures for me.

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Always so safe and happy in his arms……

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**happy sigh**

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Okay.  Now I have to clean up the kitchen (and see if there are any leftover biscuits).  David is at the table, stamping pictures on white paper with my rubber stamp collection.  He is very industrious and has already delivered to me several masterpieces, all with MOM carefully printed on in his best handwriting.  Jacob, Ethan, Caleb, and Grace are all snuggled up in the livingroom watching one of my most favorite movies~ Little Women~ I’ll be joining them after I clean up.  We’ll do schoolwork later!

I hope you all have a wonderful day!

Love, Shanda

 

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It’s been such a nice morning.  David had a good long night’s sleep, which he needed, and woke up calm and happy (somewhat unusual).  He ate breakfast, got dressed, and then sat with Caleb in the recliner to watch a Christmas video. . . .but what stopped me in my tracks was when I noticed that David has his arm around Caleb!  They were cuddling in the chair together like two bugs in a rug.  David is not one for open affection with his siblings and it just warmed my heart like you wouldn’t believe, to see them.

And Grace….she came downstairs, still in her long flannel nightgown, with a Bible and sat on the couch engrossed in Genesis!

Caleb’s been awake since about 5:30…but stayed in his room until wake-time, which is 7 sharp every day.  Now he’s been fed (pancakes AND cereal) and is dressed in green pants.  Very Festive.

Jacob also woke up happy and full of conversation (he actually talks more than any of the children lately).  He had a book in his hand and immediately wanted to read me a section of it….silliness from “The Series of Unfortunate Events”.

The first sound I heard when I stumbled sleepily out to the kitchen was sleet.  Then we had a little bit of rain.  And now, now there are gentle, quiet, random snowflakes falling.  “IS IT CHRISTMAS?”  Caleb squealed when he saw them….”when it’s Christmas I will open my presents and it will be Rosie…”  (Rosie is a train)  So, what will I do?  I didn’t buy him Rosie!

The living room floor is covered with bits and snippets of thin white paper.  Grace and I made some snowflakes and the best ones are getting taped to the window next to our kitchen table.

Ethan has been sitting at the table, carefully drawing a rabbit using a one inch grid.

Christmas music is playing.

And oh yes.  The picture at the top?  That’s to show you the two garlands that we made.  One is my yo-yo garland, which are sewn on a brown ribbon.  The other one is made from craft pompoms.  The children made it in all of about 10 minutes, it’s soft and pastel and pretty.  Neither one is very long, just long enough to lay across the top of my piano.  My Aunt Sharon crocheted the Christmas covering for the glass dish, I’ve managed to keep it in one piece all these years and it’s something that gives me pleasure every year. 

We also have about five candles lit, one of which is “Sparkling Pine” and smells so yummy.

Yesterday was a crazy day…I was uptight, tired, and thinking too much about things I didn’t need to think about, and I also had a doctor’s appointment to go to and a trip to Costco, with all five children.  This morning has been so nice, that I think I just might have it in me to actually relax by the fire with hot chocolate and a good read.  A most welcome gift from God…….PEACE in the heart…….mind, and soul.

((LOVE)) ~Shanda

 

~Christmas countdown~ 10 days to go……….

We got our trees up this weekend!

 

Miss Grace, with her favorite Christmas ornament.  It’s always a special moment when we find her in the box.  We named her Charlotte this year (Grace might have guessed,  I chose the name with Laura Ingalls’ beloved rag doll in mind, those who have read the books know what I’m talking about)……

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Here is a group photo of the gang, in front of their own tree.  We put it upstairs for them and let them hang whatever ornaments they have collected or made through the years.  I’m amazed by the strand of lights~ I’ve had them since I was a teenager….(my NY family might remember “Jamesway” which has been out of business for years, I bought them there and they are still working!)

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Rich likes a neat and orderly Christmas tree and because he so rarely has an opinion about such things, I am more than happy to do things his way……he chose the colors, too….silver and blue with white lights.  I did ask for a big fat tree this year, and we love this one.  It’s a Douglas Fir and we bought it from the local fire department.

The tree is always magical in the dark.  I took this picture early this morning as I made Rich’s coffee and toast.

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Can you believe it’s already December 15th? 

I hope you all have a blessed day,

full of the warmth of God’s love.

 

~just a little quiet~

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And He said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest a while.” (For there were many people coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.)   Mark 6:31

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 “Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.”  Psalm 46:10

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1 Timothy 2:2b

“…..that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty

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“Better is an handful with quietness, than both the hands full with travail and vexation of spirit.”  Ecclesiastes 4:6

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“Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the eventide”  Genesis 24:63

“We should all know more, live nearer to God, and grow in grace, if we were more alone.  When Jesus is the theme, meditation is sweet indeed.”  ~C.H. Spurgeon

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“This is an age of nerve tension, and the relaxation which comes from the comforting companionship found in woods and fields is, without doubt, the best remedy for this condition.”  ~Anna B. Comstock, 1911

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“God is a geometrician.  He’s an artist!  How beautiful God is and how artistic and how poetic and how musical!”  ~A.W. Tozer

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“Our real need is inward riches.  We need to learn to be still and know that God is God.  We need to ‘practice the presence of God’ till we take on something of the nobility of our divine Companion.  We need to cultivate silence and discover the riches of secret places.  We need to discover God in the deeps of our own souls.”  ~A.W. Tozer

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“Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honor and power:  for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created.”  Revelation 4:11

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I have been able to spend the majority of this day alone.  These pictures, that I took today on a little walk by our stream,  represent to me the feelings of slowing down, and resting, that were given to me like a gift.  My mind feels peaceful again. 

That top verse, Mark 6:31, makes me chuckle a little, “for there were many people coming and going, and they (the disciples) did not even have time to eat”…..as a mother of five, I often feel that way.  Sometimes I don’t eat “lunch” until 2!

Anyway, it was a wonderful day….

 

 

~7 months today~

Rich looks at me and says I’m cute.  I don’t know about that, but I am slowing down that’s for sure.  The couch is a happy place for me, when I can get there.  Cleaning is getting difficult–dropping things on the floor never made me more impatient, as I detest bending over to pick stuff up.  I’m quite uncomfortable and tired at times.  However, all things considered, I honestly feel much better than I thought I would at this point and am very happy and blessed to feel the baby growing and moving inside me.  I love it when he gets the hiccups.  He is more active in the evening and I love to put my hand on my tummy to enjoy the entertainment, and pray silent “thank you’s” over and over to God as I do.  My husband is starting to forget what it’s like for me NOT to be pregnant……Grace often comments in her dramatic way about how BIG my tummy’s getting, and we are all looking forward to seeing baby Seth.  Actually, I’m DYING to see him.  And sniff him, hold him, cuddle him, feed him, change his tiny diapers, wrap him in blankies, give him baths in the kitchen sink……..oh yes, all of that.  He won’t be out of my arms very much.  Nope.  Won’t share. 

Only 9 weeks until my due date.  And my own birthday, as a matter of fact.

Happy Friday to you!

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~some quotes~

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“The relationship between the shepherd and his sheep, between Christ and those whom He calls, is one of personal, profound knowing; for He knows me intimately, He knows me by name.”

“Most of us are totally unaware of just how well God really does know us.  We are oblivious to the staggering truth that every aspect of our lives is fully known to Him.  If we examine the Word of God on this subject we will discover that even from our conception in our mother’s womb all the hereditary factors that combined to make us each the unique individuals that we are have been known to God.”

“God by His gracious Spirit calls us from and leads us out of our cramped experiences.  He invites us to move out into the rich, nourishing pastures of His Word.  He wants us to roam abroad in the wide ranges of new relationships with others of His flock.  He longs to lead us beside still waters; in paths of righteousness; up into the exhilarating high country of the summer ranges where we are in close communion with Him.”

“The intentions that He has for us are all good.  His desires and aspirations for us are enormous, full of potential for unimagined benefit to us and others.  Because the thoughts He thinks toward us are thoughts of peace and blessing, let us not hold back!  It is the truly wise one who will allow himself to be led out into the broad fields of God’s gracious blessings and benefits.”  ~Phillip Keller

 

~After a bluesy, tiresome sort of day yesterday I found comfort in my Bible reading and book reading last night and this morning.  It’s amazing how a fresh and steady look at Jesus makes all my own little discomforts and anxieties seem easier to deal with.  (An understanding husband helps, too.  The Lord used him last night to give me some much needed encouragement and something to look forward to—he’s taking the kids out all day on Saturday!)

this and that (and a recipe for “colorful cookies”)

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Ethan ended up not able to play in his recital.  He only “got sick one time” however, his teacher thanked me from the bottom of his heart last night at music lessons, for not taking a chance and bringing him….and exposing innocent people to the stomach bug.  We made the right decision in having him stay home and rest on the couch.  Thankfully he was all better by Sunday morning, just in time to play in the snow that fell in the night.

I was so happy on Saturday to finally find the perfect Nativity set for my family.  It is made by Playmobil, and it’s basically a set of toys, but perfect for us because it really means a lot to me to be able to allow the children to freely touch and play with it. 

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My daughter Grace loves to stand here, and get warm……

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Also, I tried to capture the wild side of our family…..David and Caleb were dancing around the living room Saturday night.

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I thought this page from one of the Little Golden Books that I’ve been reading to the children was so cute. 

Mrs. Claus baked some gingerbread boys, and I baked up some boys and one girl:

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We also baked these:

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I wonder if anyone else has made these?  For some reason they have become a favorite cookie of mine, for Christmas.  I found the recipe in a Betty Crocker cookbook the first year I was married and have been making them ever since…but only at Christmas.  They are pink, but who cares?  They look great on the tray…..

C o l o r f u l   C o o k i e s

1 package (3-oz) fruit flavored jello (we used strawberry)
1 cup powdered sugar
1 cup butter, softened
2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon salt
Colorful Glaze

For cookies:  Heat over to 350.  Reserve 1 tablespoon of the dry jello for the glaze.  Mix remaining jello, sugar, and butter.  Stir in flour and salt.  Shape dough into 1-inch balls.  Place about 2 inches apart on ungreased cookie sheet.  Bake until set, but not brown, 8 to 10 minutes.  Cool completely.

For glaze:  Mix reserved 1 tablespoon jello and 3 tablespoons hot water.  Let stand 5 minutes.  Stir in 2 cups powdered sugar and 1 teaspoon vanilla until smooth.  Dip tops of cookies into glaze.  Decorate with coconut, nuts, cherries, colored sugar, or small candies.  Makes about 4 1/2 dozen cookies.

I caught Caleb eating about six of them yesterday.  We had to put them up high. 

Yesterday I had my friend Karen over and we made fabric yo-yo’s together.  I plan on making enough to space apart on a ribbon for a garland.  I got the idea from my friend Dawn, who also suggested sewing buttons in the middle.  Karen and I made a bunch and the first thing I did this morning (after eating breakfast) was cut and sew some more.  Dawn is right, it is relaxing and addicting, especially when one is with a friend, or still in her pj’s sitting in a comfy recliner by the fire.

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Last but not least, one of my Christmas boys.  I think I’ll just sit and stare awhile….at this yummy little love.

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this and that (and a recipe for "colorful cookies")

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Ethan ended up not able to play in his recital.  He only “got sick one time” however, his teacher thanked me from the bottom of his heart last night at music lessons, for not taking a chance and bringing him….and exposing innocent people to the stomach bug.  We made the right decision in having him stay home and rest on the couch.  Thankfully he was all better by Sunday morning, just in time to play in the snow that fell in the night.

I was so happy on Saturday to finally find the perfect Nativity set for my family.  It is made by Playmobil, and it’s basically a set of toys, but perfect for us because it really means a lot to me to be able to allow the children to freely touch and play with it. 

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My daughter Grace loves to stand here, and get warm……

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Also, I tried to capture the wild side of our family…..David and Caleb were dancing around the living room Saturday night.

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I thought this page from one of the Little Golden Books that I’ve been reading to the children was so cute. 

Mrs. Claus baked some gingerbread boys, and I baked up some boys and one girl:

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We also baked these:

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I wonder if anyone else has made these?  For some reason they have become a favorite cookie of mine, for Christmas.  I found the recipe in a Betty Crocker cookbook the first year I was married and have been making them ever since…but only at Christmas.  They are pink, but who cares?  They look great on the tray…..

C o l o r f u l   C o o k i e s

1 package (3-oz) fruit flavored jello (we used strawberry)
1 cup powdered sugar
1 cup butter, softened
2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon salt
Colorful Glaze

For cookies:  Heat over to 350.  Reserve 1 tablespoon of the dry jello for the glaze.  Mix remaining jello, sugar, and butter.  Stir in flour and salt.  Shape dough into 1-inch balls.  Place about 2 inches apart on ungreased cookie sheet.  Bake until set, but not brown, 8 to 10 minutes.  Cool completely.

For glaze:  Mix reserved 1 tablespoon jello and 3 tablespoons hot water.  Let stand 5 minutes.  Stir in 2 cups powdered sugar and 1 teaspoon vanilla until smooth.  Dip tops of cookies into glaze.  Decorate with coconut, nuts, cherries, colored sugar, or small candies.  Makes about 4 1/2 dozen cookies.

I caught Caleb eating about six of them yesterday.  We had to put them up high. 

Yesterday I had my friend Karen over and we made fabric yo-yo’s together.  I plan on making enough to space apart on a ribbon for a garland.  I got the idea from my friend Dawn, who also suggested sewing buttons in the middle.  Karen and I made a bunch and the first thing I did this morning (after eating breakfast) was cut and sew some more.  Dawn is right, it is relaxing and addicting, especially when one is with a friend, or still in her pj’s sitting in a comfy recliner by the fire.

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Last but not least, one of my Christmas boys.  I think I’ll just sit and stare awhile….at this yummy little love.

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~wish came true~

     When Rich and I got out of bed this morning at 7, four of our children were already outside playing in our NEW FALLEN SNOW, which arrived overnight as a surprise.  There was enough of it this time to make snowballs, and to shovel, and sled-ride.  The kids were absolutely thrilled and I laughed as I watched them through the window.

Rich and I made breakfast for them as they played.  We made scrambled eggs, bacon, bagels, and homemade hot chocolate (because we had run out of mix)……after they ate Rich took them to church and I stayed home to rest.  I’m awfully tired today, which is to be expected I suppose.  I haven’t been sleeping well….I’m getting quite uncomfortable with this big belly. 

After they left, I did take a small walk around our property, though, enjoying the coolness on my cheeks, and the smell of fresh snow.

Our house:

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The cat tails are usually dark brown and firm….now they are loosening up and look so interesting with their new shaggy coats and white caps of snow.  I’ve gotten out my nature journal again, and will attempt to draw this picture in it this evening, with the date and a caption.

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This is my absolute favorite picture.  I love everything about it this scene…the calmness of the stream, the dark woods on the edges and the lighter brighter woods in the forward distance.  If only you could have stood there with me, hearing the sounds of the water and feeling the cold air.

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Back inside, I went up to the freshly painted (as of yesterday) office and sat down to wrap some Christmas gifts.  With Josh Groban singing Christmas carols, a yummy evergreen scented candle, and lovely falling snow…..the mood was just right for carefully wrapping gifts.  I opened the window for some fresh air.

(I’ve mentioned the air one to many times…..I’m at that stage of pregnancy in which I am usually too hot, and find so much relief in opening a window or door to stick my face out for some deep inhales and exhales, I actually did that during breakfast this morning, much to my family’s amusement).

 

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Back home from church~

 

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After a quick lunch the children went right back out for more snow-play.

James 1:17

 Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.

 

~Christmas cookie baking~

When you look at your life,

the greatest happinesses are family happinesses. 

~J. Brothers

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My sister Amanda came over today with her three children and we made Christmas cookies together.  I know I’ve said this before, but with all the rest of my family living in NY, I am continually thankful that Amanda and her family live here in CT and we can see each other whenever we want to.  Just like Rich is the perfect husband for me, Amanda is the perfect sister for me….for example, one of the things I love about the two of us is that she is extroverted and I am introverted.  She gets me going and moving and having adventures when I would most likely be home in my own little world. 

Today was spent at home, yes, but it was her idea to get together to make cookies (and lunch, and snacks, and taking care of eight children, *including a 3 year old, 2 year old, and baby*) and it was quite something.  I think we were both exhausted when she left after four hours in the kitchen….but how fun it was and how wonderful it will be to look at these pictures a year from now and sigh over how much the children have grown! 

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Okay, I admit it, Jacob does seem to be growing…….it’s just awful seeing him the same height as his Aunt, even if she is petite!

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And my handsome Ethan Gregory, if you think of it, say a little prayer for him.  He’s feeling a bit under the weather today, and will be sooooo disappointed if he can’t perform his guitar pieces in his recital tomorrow.

I love my sweet E.

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Naomi is such a joy…she’s two and my little friend already.  She was so happy to come to Aunt Shanda’s and did NOT want to go home.  Part of me does want to keep her.

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And here is little Weston.  Some of you may remember praying for him last January, when he was born a month early and had to spend time in the NICU.  He’s a fine and dandy healthy little man now, and all too happy to eat any cookie that might come his way.  He looks just like his Daddy, Jason.

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I love this next picture, because of lil’ Naomi…looking up with that bright little girl face.

Ethan and I were mixing up the dough for Russian teacakes and Amanda took the picture.  I have my elbow resting on the Crisco container and was leaning on my hand as we watched the dough go around, in case you’re wondering what’s up with the pose.

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Grace helped form the Russian teacakes into balls.

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And I love this next one, because of lil’ Weston crawling around under the table, never far from his Mama.

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The kids all got to roll out sugar cookie dough and cut out the proper Christmassy shapes.

Here are Grace and Abbie, who are like two peas in a pod.  I thought I would take lots more pictures of the two of them together, but they were so busy playing that we rarely saw them.  Their favorite thing to do today?  Eat ice off the pond and jump on the trampoline!  And no, they did not call each other to coordinate their outfits, it just happened that way…..

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Just some of our finished cookies:

My Russian Teacakes

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And Amanda’s awesome Pea
nut Butter cookies, with mini Hershey Kisses on top.  They taste good warm from the oven, and at room temperature….I know, because I just ate *another* one.

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Cookie(s), anyone?  With tea?  Or coffee?