Monthly Archives: September 2014
sarah all dressed up
davy’s birthday is today
Last night we had a house full of people for dinner and Bible study, so we decided to have David’s BIRTHDAY cake a day early.
Yes, 12 years ago today Rich and I welcomed our little David into our arms and lives.
Rich was gone this afternoon, watching Jacob and Ethan’s football game, so David and I went for a walk just the two of us.
A few weeks ago, he thoughtfully made me a detailed list for his birthday gifts. Everything was on amazon.com, and he even gave me the monetary total of all requested items.
The Spiderman mask was one of his gifts. He also received an instant-appearing magic wand, magic balls, invisible thread, and a trick pen.
He said to me on our walk that he is gaining a reputation at school because of his magic tricks.
He says that soon he will be able to make about five dollars by performing them.
He’s currently playing with the Spiderman lego set that his best friend Ryan gave him.
After I took this picture we sat down and read books up on the mountain.
Happy 12th birthday, David!
{this moment}
{this moment} ~ A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
“While I was still a baby, my father washed me and fed me and changed my diapers and did all the millions of other things a mother normally does for her child. That is not an easy task for a man, especially when he has to earn his living at the same time by repairing automobile engines and serving customers with gasoline.
My father, without the slightest doubt, was the most marvelous and exciting father any boy ever had.”
Danny the Champion of the World, by Roald Dahl
how to get a free coffee
Video
(sharing just for fun, not to recommend thievery!)
1. you must have mama-brain, you must go through a drive-thru
2. order the coffee, and order other things
3. when they hand you your coffee first, take it, put it in your cup holder and forget you have it.
4. pay for food, wait for food
5. hand donut to child while continuing to wait for food.
6. when they say, “there you go, have a nice day” tell them they forgot to give you your coffee
7. receive free coffee
8. drive away
I’m seriously losing it! This was completely unintentional I would never steal!
The next time I go I’m going to tell them the story and pay for the extra one, I guess. That’s the honest thing to do, right? SO embarassing.
I showed Dave and he said I should do it again, only nine times, with hot chocolate.
these days
Yesterday morning I walked out of the house into a sparkling fall day. In my hands was a little vintage fiesta plate of leftover banana bread and cereal milk from breakfast, to serve the hens. They seemed to enjoy the treat.
They explored the grass along the fence. There are five full grown hens and two half-grown ones.
We do not let the little ones stay outside for very long because the cats come over to try and hunt them. The poor things.
I gave them a bowl of chick food in a yellow fiesta bowl. The way they hop in and out of the bowl, peeping and scratching food everywhere, is amusing.
The leaves were turning.
The fall flowers were in bloom.
My heart was singing.
You are the joy in my morning
You’re my song of praise
Just like the new day dawning
Flooding my world with grace.
Isn’t this green and pink combination BEAUTIFUL?
Caleb was home sick from school yesterday. He had an upset stomach and a high fever. He was on the couch curled up in his soft blanket and as much as I was able, I was sitting by him. The children are so needy and love to have me near when they are sick. As much as I hate to see them suffer, and as long as I know it’s only a common children’s illness, I confess– I love the cuddle time.
Caleb likes to talk. It was an eye-opener to me when he said, “You know why I bury my head in the couch to sleep? Because I don’t want my picture taken.” My heart was so sad to think that I unknowingly made my poor boy uncomfortable with photography, it’s just that I think he’s so cute. He doesn’t like the feeling that I’m taking pictures when he’s sleeping. I told him I would never take another picture of him unless I knew it was okay and I asked him first. He told me that one day he was falling asleep on the bus and a couple of girls took a video of him. It bothered him. I told him some things he could do about it, such as telling them that their Dad doesn’t want videos taken of him, or going to the principal or the bus driver for help, or asking them to delete the video.
We seem to be living in a time when privacy isn’t understood or desired. I know that I personally love to share on my blog, but there is a part of me that almost envies that time not so long ago when families were in their homes and their lives were virtually unknown to the rest of the world. They had their own private and intimate lives within the walls of their “nest”, special and meaningful only to them.
It is something to think about.
(I asked Grace about this, too, and she said she was absolutely fine with me taking pictures of her whenever I wanted.)
I asked Caleb if I could take this picture and he agreed.
Rich and I purchased a coffee table and a loveseat this weekend. We needed more places for people to sit when they come and visit us and we were thankful to find things that we didn’t have to order and wait for. Ethan Allen was having a floor sample sale on a lot of their furniture. Both pieces have small problems but in our family we would rather buy things on super-clearance-sale WITH a problem, then to pay full price for a perfect piece that will get scratched the next day.
The maroon throw at the end of the love-seat is the latest loved comfort with everyone….it’s our very first electric blanket….and the children are all so very appreciative. Ethan had it last night after football practice when he was shivering cold. Seth fell asleep under it when he was sick last week. Sarah had it this morning when the house was chilly. Seth accidentally called it the “electra blanket” and the name has stuck. We love our “electra blanket”.
I have been having fun freshening up the house (after an inspiring visit to my friend Lydia’s house). I had Rich and the boys move the piano from the living room to the new addition and so far we all really like it in there. You can’t tell by the photo, but there is still a good amount of room between the table and chairs and the piano, so we don’t feel squeezed.
I bought our first full length tablecloth, long enough for our big table. It’s a linen fabric with golden leaves stamped on it. We have 8 chairs around the table, and one bench that seats 2.
I also bought the mirror on the right side of the picture. It’s reflection brings in even more of the sunshine.
I’ve been longing to use more of the rhubarb from my garden that Mr. G so thoughtfully gave me to plant before he moved last fall. I found a great recipe for a pie. I used a store-bought crust, and baked it yesterday afternoon. Everyone liked it.
Rhubarb Pie
5 cups sliced rhubarb
6 rounded Tablespoons flour (an odd measurement…it’s basically 1/2 a cup)
1 1/2 cups sugar
1/8 teaspoon salt
Let rhubarb mixture stand at room temperature for 20-25 minutes, then stir and add to a pastry lined pie plate. Sprinkle on top of the filling 2 Tablespoons melted butter, 1 Tablespoon flour, and 1/4 cup brown sugar. Place the top crust over and pinch the edges to seal. Poke top of pie with a fork and bake in a 400 degree oven 45-50 minutes (or until done).
Recipe adapted from one of my favorite cookbooks, A Return to Sunday Dinner, by Russell Cronkhite.
I love candlelight, and these days, my favorite is a chocolate layer cake candle from Yankee Candle. The children, especially Ethan, hate it because it smells so realistic that they are disappointed when there aren’t brownies or chocolate cakes in the kitchen (only rhubarb pie). The candle holder makes me laugh, it’s also from Yankee Candle, and it’s a spoof on Snow White and the seven dwarfs. I told the children it’s me and the seven of them. “But where’s Dad?” they asked. “He’s at work!” I reply.
After Seth got home from Kindergarten we went outside to play. Sarah cut a chunk of her hair off a few months ago so it doesn’t fit into a ponytail unless I use about five bobby pins. Still cute.
“Mom, bring your camera! David has a snake!”
The stream is low so there are plenty of rocks to step on, which makes it easy to walk up and down the stream, exploring. I got my head too close to the branch of a pine tree and it took my headband off and flung it someplace….it was black and I never did find it.
We found crayfish.
I watched this one for a little while. It was busy, I saw it pick up an acorn-cap in it’s little legs. It shuffled around, keeping an eye on me (the big monster?)
The boys like to eat them but yesterday I wouldn’t let allow it …. I became friends with this one.
I took this picture last night because Sammie and Sherlock were sleeping together on the couch. Would you believe they are from the same litter? Sherlock is so much bigger than his sister!
“What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has the eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.” Augustine
book recommendations from a sixteen year old boy
David, age 11 and Ethan, age 16
I would be most content if my children grew up
to be the kind of people who think decorating
consists mostly of building enough bookshelves. ~Anna Quindlen
My brother Dave sent David a book for his birthday. It was a copy of a book that he enjoyed when he was David’s age, Danny the Champion of the World, by Roald Dahl. David read the entire book over the weekend, finishing it in the car on the way home from church yesterday.
Watching David read his new book made Ethan think of all the books he has enjoyed over the years. The other night he went through all the bookshelves in the house and selected his all time favorite titles. As he went from room to room, his younger brother David was with him, too. He brought the stack to the living room to show me and I laughed when he told me that David had already read quite a few of them because he “made him.”
Out of the all the books, David reminded him of the ones he had read, and Ethan gave him a few others that he still has to read (his brother will make him). A couple of them, we agreed, were probably not suitable for his age yet but will be in the “someday” pile.
Here is the entire stack:
Theodore Boone, Kid Lawyer, series by John Grisham.
Tucket’s Travels, by Gary Paulsen
The Mysterious Benedict Society series by Trenton Lee Stewart
The Book Thief by Markus Zusak (for older readers)
The Last of the Really Great Whangdoodles by Julie Andrews Edwards
The Ranger’s Apprentice series by John Flanagan
Pathfinder by Orson Scott Card (for older readers)
The Lord of the Rings series, including The Hobbit, by J.R. Tolkien
Frightful’s Mountain by Jean Craighead George (and her other books, too)
Poppy’s Return by Avi
Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator by Roald Dahl (Ethan preferred this one to Chocolate Factory)
Boy by Roald Dahl
Cryptid Hunters by Roland Smith
The Mad Scientists’ Club by Bertrand R. Brinley
The Wednesday Wars by Gary D. Schmidt
The Black Pearl by Scott O’Dell
Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of Nimph by Robert C. O’Brian
The Tale of Despereaux by Kate DiCamillo (Ethan said the movie was a big disappointment; the book is much better)
((Never judge a book by its movie. ~J.W. Eagan))
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See also Ethan’s sister Grace’s list here. (some of the books are repeats!)
(I am still reading Les Mis)
love & best dishes
We have a terrible cold virus going through the whole family. In fact, three of the children have missed school in the last week. We had planned to go to NYC on our anniversary, but with the lack of sleep we decided to stay closer to home.
With a babysitter at home with Sarah, we went out to breakfast at a place about 45 minutes away. It was a first time visit for us and we were not disappointed. We ordered coffee and hot chocolate first, and the waitress brought me my mug with whipped cream sky high, and sprinkles, too. The mug was resting on a yellow fiestaware saucer. I collect fiesta dishes, so this was a thrill.
Then, we each ordered a version of eggs benedict. My eggs were on a split croissant with spinach and mushrooms. Rich’s were on an English muffin with corn beef hash.
And AGAIN, served on Fiestaware! It is not typical to see fiesta in restaurants, so it was a treat to see “my” dishes used in this cafe.
Well, it was time for the mall to open, so we meandered down the road to do a little shopping, happy to be together, alone.
He didn’t have to twist my arm to get me into Tiffany&Co, where he bought me this dainty platinum ring (set with tiny diamonds).
We wandered around the mall and had a snack at Starbucks, where I pointed to my new ring while eating a pumpkin muffin. Later on, I saw a display of candles; I love how our initials come together in the alphabet, Rich and Shanda.
After a while we left the mall and went to Barnes and Noble to sit and read. I worked on my Bible study lesson and Rich continued his “Holiness” study. I picked out a few books for the children and snapped some pictures of books that I thought looked interesting. (Yesterday, I ordered two of them from amazon.)
We began to feel hungry so we left to go eat an early dinner at a pasta place.
AND GUESS WHAT? Yet again our food was served on fiestaware. At least, it was very similar to fiesta and stamped with the HLC mark.
Our waitress stopped by just as I was taking a picture of my food and when she teased me I told her that I collected Fiestaware and that I didn’t have the certain bowl our pasta was served in. She seemed genuinely interested and asked several questions.
The next time she checked on us, she brought two clean bowls just like the ones we were eating from, and told us WE COULD HAVE THEM.
She didn’t even know it was our anniversary! I laughed and exclaimed; it was such a nice surprise and she received a nice tip to match.
The little bread plates were also made by Homer Laughlin China (company that makes fiesta).
I did some research on my bowls and I think they are from HLC’s Bosque line. It is not technically fiesta but very very similar. I love my new bowls and will treasure them, they are only for Rich and I to use (not the children).
It was a great way to celebrate 19 years of marriage.
We are so grateful for each other, our relationship, the family we’ve made together,
and a kitchen well-stocked with the best dishes. 😉
with my collection in 2008
gillette castle
My husband Rich took Monday and Tuesday off from work because our anniversary was Tuesday. We went to Gillette castle on Monday and I showed no restraint when it came to picture-taking so I have sixty-some pictures to share here today.
On the way there we stopped at this interesting little cafe for a bathroom break. It was called Two Wrasslin’ Cats and there were cat figurines and pictures everywhere. It was great. I had a lemon ginger scone, Sarah had a cookie, and Rich had a coffee.
As soon as we got out of the truck at Gillette castle, Rich told me to take a picture of this tree. ^^
You first have to go into the Visitor Center to buy a ticket (in order to see the inside of the Castle).
The bathrooms were clean and spacious and there were a lot of stalls, but the each toilet was like a portapotty…..sort of scary for Sarah. No flushing necessary. The sinks were normal, however.
William Gillette had the castle built for his home, he was a famous actor in his time best known for his portrayal of Sherlock Holmes.
We bought our tickets and then went into a room to watch a movie about William Gillette. He was the youngest of six children. He was so much younger than his siblings that he was often treated as an only child.
“William’s parents wanted him to follow a more dignified line of work, possibly the law or politics; something more suited to his family class and background. But William had his own thoughts.” Love it.
The saddest thing we learned about Gillette was that his wife, whom he loved deeply, died at the age of 28 from a ruptured appendix. He never married again.
His castle is noted for it’s creative doors. They are all hand-carved and no two are the same.
William was fond of the railroad and built his own three mile run for a small train on his property. Here, Sarah is sitting in one of the old cars. ^^
We learned that he generously gave rides to his guests, and Albert Einstein was most terrified when he was behind the wheel. LOL
Another amusing note about William Gillette and his wishes for his property after he died.
Rich and Sarah Joy next to Gillette’s engine.
The seat Gillette sat on to drive the train!
Behind the visitor’s center is a porch with a breathtaking view. Rich and I both said we would love to go back in a few weeks to see the fall colors.
We know nothing about the vegetable cellar but we were intrigued by it.
We were approached the castle on a nice path and stopped for a picture.
Sarah is wearing a sweater made by her Great Great Grandmother.
The castle; and the interesting walkway with rock walls.
We were greeted by an elderly lady, who took our tickets and let us in the castle. The first picture I took from within was this window latch.
We were told that this narrow door was used by Gillette to take a peek at his guests….if he didn’t want to see them he snuck away….if he did, he jumped out to surprise them.
Tiffany light fixture.
The first room we went to was the great room (living room area).
I love the fire place and the way the wood was kept on a convenient rolling cart…..
William Gillette owned four pet frogs (no longer, of course, in existence) and he had this fountain and greenhouse full of plants for them to enjoy.
This is a display of coins from around the world which have been thrown into the fountain.
A tour guide talked about this door, and how Gillette thoughtfully had it cut away to give it room to open around the corner chair.
He had an inventive nature and I had the feeling that he completely enjoyed his creation (which was the entire Castle).
Sarah enjoyed trying the handles of every door.
William Gillette loved his cats.
He had a lot of books, which are still all in his bookshelves. We enjoyed leaning over the ropes to read the titles.
The office; notice the chair on the rollers.
The owls in the fire place have glass eyes that glow when a fire is lit behind them. I want them so much!!
kitchen area
A Wonderful old stove, I think it would be fun to use one of these for a month or so. Then, I would like my modern one back.
I love every kitchen I see!
After we explored the downstairs, we moved up a level, to the bedrooms.
Sarah and I looked out the window.
I noticed the wood work.
While she noticed the boat!
More of the *47* gorgeous doors.
He had cat figurines throughout the house.
For a time, he lived in a houseboat called “Aunt Polly” which was named for an elderly lady who nursed him back to health after a bout with tuberculosis. It was from this boat that he saw the site which later became his castle property. In one of the rooms there were museum pieces of some of the remains of the Aunt Polly (which accidentally burnt and is no more).
(His bedroom)
The door to his bedroom.
The lamp in his bedroom. He could reach up and adjust it for reading in bed.
View of the downstairs from the balcony.
Then, we were on the third level, where there was a nice art display and more of his books and letters.
We exited the castle and meandered our way back to the visitor’s center for a bathroom break. Then, we got our books out of the truck and went back to read, sitting on the benches outside the castle with a view of the river. Sarah played with a few little toys that she brought with her.
The property is a State Park and we would love to go back to explore some more.
*All information in this post is to the best of my own sometimes faulty recollections. For more information click here.
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