your friend on a zip line

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Rich and I went to Orlando with Caleb and Seth this summer.  I have already blogged about the majority of our vacation except for the fact that we went zip lining.  Gatorland doesn’t allow people to zip line with personal phones or cameras, so our group was photographed by a Gatorland photographer.  We purchased the CD of all the photos, and I just got them saved to my computer this past weekend.

When Rich told me that the activity for our group was zip lining, I didn’t say anything.  I was thinking that it would be a very easy thing for me to get out of.  It was an activity primarily for him and his team (from work) and I imagined I would explore the rest of the park while they had their excitement, which to me sounded exactly like a panic attack waiting to happen.

But somehow, maybe it was peer pressure, I found myself being pulled along with the whole group, until I was in the building signing consent forms for myself and my two little boys, and then watching the educational video and listening to the bearded young men teasing us about what was about to happen.

I felt like I was going to faint or wet my pants or cry, and I looked at my excited sons’ faces and thought what kind of mother am I??

But still I kept going with it!!  I didn’t want to make a scene, so perhaps it was pride that made me zip line that day.

I wasn’t the only one fearful, several of the others were obviously unsure of the whole thing, so that was one small comfort.  However, the whole group loved having the boys with us, because they were so cute and truly inspired us scared adults.  “IF THEY can do it I can do it!!”

“Clip in and ‘zip’ off on an exciting outdoor adventure with the all-new Screamin’ Gator Zip Line at Gatorland  Your journey will take you along 1,200 feet of high flying, heart pounding adventure from some of the finest zip line towers in the world.  Standing over seven stories tall, these amazing towers feature multilevel launch pads and breathtaking views from high above the treetops.”  ~from the brochure

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After walking up several flights of stairs we took turns getting hooked up and watching each other zip along….this is dear Caleb.

As a mother, it was hard for me to see them do this activity, but I was proud of them,  and knew they were in good hands.

They will never forget this experience, I know.

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Tiny Seth sometimes felt as though he wouldn’t make it to the other end, his body didn’t gain the speed necessary to go as fast as he wanted to.

He looked concerned.

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Rich loved it.

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I held on for dear life.

The worst thing was the bearded young men and their teasing.  One time they got me hooked up, let me go off the platform, and as I zipped away, he leaned after me yelling, “No, WAIT!!” It took a moment to realize he was joking, and that moment was terrifying.

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They took another group photo at the next platform.  We’re all happy we survived the first run.

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If you click on the photo, you can see it larger.  These were the best photos of us…over the gators!

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I’m thankful for Rich because if it weren’t for him I would not be having such an exciting life.

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They were encouraging us all to let go and pose for the camera but I didn’t remember until I was almost to the end of the line.

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There was a bearded young man waiting to catch me.

(they all had beards!  LOL)

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Click on this to see Caleb’s adorable face!!  I asked him this morning if he would ever zip line again and he yelled “YES!  OF COURSE I WOULD!”

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My baby boy.

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He waved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I can’t stand the cuteness.

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Seth going in for the landing…….after these two zip lines there were more to do but no more pictures were taken.

Just writing this post increased my heart rate.

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“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” — Mark Twain

There have been many times when I refused to do something because it was scary.  I will never be a daring adventurous person, but it does feels good to say yes sometimes, experience something new, and have the joy of making a fantastic memory.

 

i see fire

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It’s raining this morning, I love the sound and the smell!  Caleb just got on the bus.  Seth and Sarah are playing together for about 20 more minutes before Seth’s bus comes to get him for school.

The trees are colorful, I wonder if we are at peak fall beauty?  God’s creation never ceases to amaze and delight!

I am leaving here soon for Community Bible Study.  Our group is studying Romans and this morning we also have a brunch.   I look forward to getting to know my ladies better today.

Last night the High School had a Variety show.  Ethan and Grace sang a duet together.  I was so proud of them!  All the kids did so well, it made us smile no matter what the quality of performance is.  As Jacob said afterwards, we clapped because they did awesome or we clapped because they were brave enough to perform.

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They sang a rather dark song that had the phrase “I see fire” repeating in it enough that it also keeps going through my head all day, everyday (from hearing them practice).  The song was from the Desolation of Smaug.  I just looked it up, the title is not surprising, “I See Fire”.

Here’s the official music video from the movie:

 

Jacob taped their performance, and if i can figure out how to load it I will do so.  They were so cute together up there.

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At the end of the song, Grace gave E a cute look, like, “Wasn’t that fun?”

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Our church youth group and leadership came out to support them, making the night even more fun!  Thanks, guys!!

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Want to hear something neat?  Two of the Youth Group leaders are brother and sister…..and their names are Seth and Sara!  So this is a picture of the four of them, big Seth with little Seth, and big Sara with little Sarah.

It was a great night.

davy’s birthday is today

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Last night we had a house full of people for dinner and Bible study, so we decided to have David’s BIRTHDAY cake a day early.

Yes, 12 years ago today Rich and I welcomed our little David into our arms and lives.

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Rich was gone this afternoon, watching Jacob and Ethan’s football game, so David and I went for a walk just the two of us.

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A few weeks ago, he thoughtfully made me a detailed list for his birthday gifts.   Everything was on amazon.com, and he even gave me the monetary total of all requested items.

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The Spiderman mask was one of his gifts.  He also received an instant-appearing magic wand, magic balls, invisible thread, and a trick pen.

He said to me on our walk that he is gaining a reputation at school because of his magic tricks.

He says that soon he will be able to make about five dollars by performing them.

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He’s currently playing with the Spiderman lego set that his best friend Ryan gave him.

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After I took this picture we sat down and read books up on the mountain.

Happy 12th birthday, David!

 

{this moment}

{this moment} ~ A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

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“While I was still a baby, my father washed me and fed me and changed my diapers and did all the millions of other things a mother normally does for her child.  That is not an easy task for a man, especially when he has to earn his living at the same time by repairing automobile engines and serving customers with gasoline. 

My father, without the slightest doubt, was the most marvelous and exciting father any boy ever had.”

Danny the Champion of the World, by Roald Dahl

how to get a free coffee

Video

(sharing just for fun, not to recommend thievery!)

1. you must have mama-brain, you must go through a drive-thru
2. order the coffee, and order other things
3. when they hand you your coffee first, take it, put it in your cup holder and forget you have it.
4. pay for food, wait for food
5. hand donut to child while continuing to wait for food.
6. when they say, “there you go, have a nice day” tell them they forgot to give you your coffee
7. receive free coffee
8. drive away

 

 

I’m seriously losing it!  This was completely unintentional I would never steal!

The next time I go I’m going to tell them the story and pay for the extra one, I guess.  That’s the honest thing to do, right?  SO embarassing.

I showed Dave and he said I should do it again, only nine times, with hot chocolate.

these days

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Yesterday morning I walked out of the house into a sparkling fall day.  In my hands was a little vintage fiesta plate of leftover banana bread and cereal milk from breakfast, to serve the hens.  They seemed to enjoy the treat.

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They explored the grass along the fence.  There are five full grown hens and two half-grown ones.

We do not let the little ones stay outside for very long because the cats come over to try and hunt them.  The poor things.

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I gave them a bowl of chick food in a yellow fiesta bowl.  The way they hop in and out of the bowl, peeping and scratching food everywhere, is amusing.

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The leaves were turning.

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The fall flowers were in bloom.

My heart was singing.

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You are the joy in my morning
You’re my song of praise
Just like the new day dawning
Flooding my world with grace.

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Isn’t this green and pink combination BEAUTIFUL?

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Caleb was home sick from school yesterday.  He had an upset stomach and a high fever.  He was on the couch curled up in his soft blanket and as much as I was able, I was sitting by him.  The children are so needy and love to have me near when they are sick.  As much as I hate to see them suffer, and as long as I know it’s only a common children’s illness, I confess– I love the cuddle time.

Caleb likes to talk.  It was an eye-opener to me when he said, “You know why I bury my head in the couch to sleep?  Because I don’t want my picture taken.”  My heart was so sad to think that I unknowingly made my poor boy uncomfortable with photography, it’s just that I think he’s so cute.  He doesn’t like the feeling that I’m taking pictures when he’s sleeping.  I told him I would never take another picture of him unless I knew it was okay and I asked him first.  He told me that one day he was falling asleep on the bus and a couple of girls took a video of him.  It bothered him.  I told him some things he could do about it, such as telling them that their Dad doesn’t want videos taken of him, or going to the principal or the bus driver for help, or asking them to delete the video.

We seem to be living in a time when privacy isn’t understood or desired.  I know that I personally love to share on my blog, but there is a part of me that almost envies that time not so long ago when families were in their homes and their lives were virtually unknown to the rest of the world.  They had their own private and intimate lives within the walls of their “nest”, special and meaningful only to them.

It is something to think about.

(I asked Grace about this, too, and she said she was absolutely fine with me taking pictures of her whenever I wanted.)

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I asked Caleb if I could take this picture and he agreed.

Rich and I purchased a coffee table and a loveseat this weekend.  We needed more places for people to sit when they come and visit us and we were thankful to find things that we didn’t have to order and wait for.  Ethan Allen was having a floor sample sale on a lot of their furniture.  Both pieces have small problems but in our family we would rather buy things on super-clearance-sale WITH a problem, then to pay full price for a perfect piece that will get scratched the next day.

The maroon throw at the end of the love-seat is the latest loved comfort with everyone….it’s our very first electric blanket….and the children are all so very appreciative.  Ethan had it last night after football practice when he was shivering cold.  Seth fell asleep under it when he was sick last week.  Sarah had it this morning when the house was chilly.  Seth accidentally called it the “electra blanket” and the name has stuck.  We love our “electra blanket”.

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I have been having fun freshening up the house (after an inspiring visit to my friend Lydia’s house).  I had Rich and the boys move the piano from the living room to the new addition and so far we all really like it in there.  You can’t tell by the photo, but there is still a good amount of room between the table and chairs and the piano, so we don’t feel squeezed.

I bought our first full length tablecloth, long enough for our big table.  It’s a linen fabric with golden leaves stamped on it.   We have 8 chairs around the table, and one bench that seats 2.

I also bought the mirror on the right side of the picture.  It’s reflection brings in even more of the sunshine.

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I’ve been longing to use more of the rhubarb from my garden that Mr. G so thoughtfully gave me to plant before he moved last fall.  I found a great recipe for a pie.  I used a store-bought crust, and baked it yesterday afternoon.  Everyone liked it.

Rhubarb Pie

5 cups sliced rhubarb
6 rounded Tablespoons flour (an odd measurement…it’s basically 1/2 a cup)
1 1/2 cups sugar
1/8 teaspoon salt

Let rhubarb mixture stand at room temperature for 20-25 minutes, then stir and add to a pastry lined pie plate.  Sprinkle on top of the filling 2 Tablespoons melted butter, 1 Tablespoon flour, and 1/4 cup brown sugar.  Place the top crust over and pinch the edges to seal.  Poke top of pie with a fork and bake in a 400 degree oven 45-50 minutes (or until done).

Recipe adapted from one of my favorite cookbooks,  A Return to Sunday Dinner, by Russell Cronkhite.

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I love candlelight, and these days, my favorite is a chocolate layer cake candle from Yankee Candle.  The children, especially Ethan, hate it because it smells so realistic that they are disappointed when there aren’t brownies or chocolate cakes in the kitchen (only rhubarb pie).  The candle holder makes me laugh, it’s also from Yankee Candle, and it’s a spoof on Snow White and the seven dwarfs.  I told the children it’s me and the seven of them.  “But where’s Dad?” they asked.  “He’s at work!” I reply.

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After Seth got home from Kindergarten we went outside to play.  Sarah cut a chunk of her hair off a few months ago so it doesn’t fit into a ponytail unless I use about five bobby pins.  Still cute.

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“Mom, bring your camera!  David has a snake!”

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The stream is low so there are plenty of rocks to step on, which makes it easy to walk up and down the stream, exploring.  I got my head too close to the branch of a pine tree and it took my headband off and flung it someplace….it was black and I never did find it.

We found crayfish.

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I watched this one for a little while.  It was busy, I saw it pick up an acorn-cap in it’s little legs.  It shuffled around, keeping an eye on me (the big monster?)

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The boys like to eat them but yesterday I wouldn’t let allow it …. I became friends with this one.

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I took this picture last night because Sammie and Sherlock were sleeping together on the couch.  Would you believe they are from the same litter?  Sherlock is so much bigger than his sister!

“What does love look like?  It has the hands to help others.  It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy.  It has the eyes to see misery and want.  It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men.  That is what love looks like.”  Augustine

book recommendations from a sixteen year old boy

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David, age 11 and Ethan, age 16

I would be most content if my children grew up
to be the kind of people who think decorating
consists mostly of building enough bookshelves.
~Anna Quindlen

My brother Dave sent David a book for his birthday.  It was a copy of a book that he enjoyed when he was David’s age, Danny the Champion of the World, by Roald Dahl.  David read the entire book over the weekend, finishing it in the car on the way home from church yesterday.

Watching David read his new book made Ethan think of all the books he has enjoyed over the years.  The other night he went through all the bookshelves in the house and selected his all time favorite titles.  As he went from room to room, his younger brother David was with him, too.  He brought the stack to the living room to show me and I laughed when he told me that David had already read quite a few of them because he “made him.”

Out of the all the books, David reminded him of the ones he had read, and Ethan gave him a few others that he still has to read (his brother will make him).  A couple of them, we agreed, were probably not suitable for his age yet but will be in the “someday” pile.

Here is the entire stack:

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Theodore Boone, Kid Lawyer, series by John Grisham.

Tucket’s Travels, by Gary Paulsen

The Mysterious Benedict Society series by Trenton Lee Stewart

The Book Thief by Markus Zusak (for older readers)

The Last of the Really Great Whangdoodles by Julie Andrews Edwards

The Ranger’s Apprentice series by John Flanagan

Pathfinder  by Orson Scott Card  (for older readers)

The Lord of the Rings series, including The Hobbit, by J.R. Tolkien

Frightful’s Mountain by Jean Craighead George (and her other books, too)

Poppy’s Return by Avi

Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator by Roald Dahl (Ethan preferred this one to Chocolate Factory)

Boy by Roald Dahl

Cryptid Hunters by Roland Smith

The Mad Scientists’ Club by Bertrand R. Brinley

The Wednesday Wars by Gary D. Schmidt

The Black Pearl by Scott O’Dell

Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of Nimph by Robert C. O’Brian

The Tale of Despereaux by Kate DiCamillo (Ethan said the movie was a big disappointment; the book is much better)

((Never judge a book by its movie. ~J.W. Eagan))

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See also Ethan’s sister Grace’s list here.  (some of the books are repeats!)

(I am still reading Les Mis)