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wife, mom of seven, friend, child of God

Grace’s flower garden

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It’s already been a fast and furious two weeks since Grace and I did this project.  We took a before picture to show just how neglected our garden was! 

We did a lot of weeding and Grace rearranged the rock border.  Then, we drove down to the grocery store because they were having a good deal on late-season annuals.  The two of us had such a good time choosing our favorites and then getting icy drinks at the McDonald’s drive-thru.

We left a couple of tall milkweed plants to grow against the house because we are looking forward to monarch butterfly season and they like to eat milkweed.  After we were done planting we surrounded the plants with nice fresh mulch.

The green bush in the middle is a lilac, which we planted two years ago.

Fluffy was one of the chickens that was killed this weekend.

Grace’s navy flower dress came from Target.  She looks very sweet in it, it suits her to a “T”.

Grace’s garden makes me happy every time I walk by it, (which is a lot).  So I say, buy the annuals to mix in with your perennials.  You will only have them for one season but they are well worth the time to put them in because they are food for the soul and a lovely greeting to anyone who may happen by. 

 

PS.  I just showed the boys the sad picture of dear departed Fluffy and I am happy to report that she is actually still alive and well.   They just told me.  “We still have Fluffy!  MOM!!!!!!” (oops) 

Caleb’s birthday party

 I’m sitting on my couch with Grace next to me.  Caleb and Seth are watching Max and Ruby and Sarah is toddling around with a little ball…she is a chatterbox and I love hearing her baby-talk. 

It’s just after 7.  I’ve been up since 6.  Rich left for work at 6:30.  He had all last week off and I never thought I would say this but I’m sort of glad he’s going to work today.  He’s exhausting!  Constantly on the go with things to do……he wore me out.  LOL  In a good way, but honestly I am tired and looking forward to a normal (please?) day home with the children.

The weather has been gorgeous here.  The sun is shining now and it promises to be another beautiful summer day.

We had a (comparatively small) heartbreak on Friday.  We were gone all day, in Boston.  While we were gone, the neighbor’s dog nosed up the the chicken’s little door and our poor girls had to face the monster.  Molly the dog killed two in the coop; Jacob found them.  (One of our roosters, Romeo, and one of our little hens, Pepper.)  The dog also ate (!!!) four of our other hens.  We have 10 hens left and two roosters.  After all that work on the fence, we wonder if we are creating a food bin for dogs and fox.  Rich nailed the chicken door shut and they now walk a plank up to their open window to lay eggs and roost at night.

Ethan had accidently let some chickens out that morning, before we left.  We were so relieved on Saturday morning, when three hens came back home, drenched (it had rained a lot).  Then, later on, Ethan thought he heard a chicken and found Margaret on the other side of the stream, sitting and making forlorn sounds.  The poor hen must have been terrified out of her mind to go across the stream.  They never go over there. 

Feathers were everywhere.  When I come across a clump, I pick them up and throw them into the bushes out of sight.  As I told Rich, “They are only chickens and I know this is just part of the experience but IT STILL HURTS.”  Especially because the children have loved and enjoyed them so much.  Jacob’s favorite, Red, the one who hatched out chicks last fall and was such a good mother, was one of the hens consumed by the dog and it hurt Jacob so much.  He refused to believe it was true and truly believed she would show up, until one last attempt was made to find her at the end of the day, Saturday.  He came back to the house in tears, “I didn’t find any.”  Rich talked to him for a while and promised we would order more chicks as soon as we could. 

The neighbors were gone this whole time (all weekend).  When they came home last night Rich went to talk to the man of the house, and it went really well.  He promised to keep the dog in the fence and he said if it ever happens again (please, no!) he will get rid of the dog.  It was amazing to know that he would choose keeping the peace with neighbors over his pet.  I am so touched by that.

 

So anyway.  Caleb’s birthday was Saturday.  It was a very happy day, with my sister and her family here, and also my brother Isaac.  Happy, that is, unless we let our minds wander to the sad destruction of six of our hens.  So I tried very hard to block out those bad thoughts!  Thanks, to those who saw my “pulse” here on xanga, and prayed for me.  It truly helped, as always.  So glad we can go to the Lord, with everything!

 

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This is Sarah, the way I saw her, when I was mixing together Caleb’s birthday cake Saturday morning.  She was at/under my feet as I stood at the mixer.  She had a little cracker and was putting it in and out of the muffin tin (in the open cupboard).  She had a scraper and was stirring.  She was cooking, too!  I didn’t even know it, until I said OOPS as I accidently flung a handful of flour out of the bowl and  ON HER HEAD!  LOL

Flour in the hair = just one of the many hazards of hanging around Mama, as she bakes.

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I doubled the yellow cake recipe and wondered if I needed a bigger mixing bowl.

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There was activity everywhere around me, and Caleb was enjoying some of his new toys.

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As the sheet cake and 24 cupcakes baked, we watched Caleb open his gifts.  (Although, they were actually in gift bags, as I have temporarily sworn off wrapping.  It’s just too much of a hassle in this stage of life.)

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The rest of the family got at our house at 10-10:30.

Sweet Naomi (she’s 5) adores baby Sarah.  She brought a little book to show her.

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This is my brother, Isaac. 

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There was a total of 15.

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I’m holding Seth, and Amanda is holding her son Weston.  They are a year apart in age.

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We spent lots of time outside in the sun.  The boys played frisbee and football.

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After playing around outside, we had lunch together; make your own sandwiches, potato salad, chips, fresh strawberries, pickles.

Then, it was time for cake!

 

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Caleb’s cake is a homemade yellow cake.  As it cooled, Isaac and I thinly sliced 2 pounds of strawberries, which I sprinkled sugar on and let sit on the counter.  When the cake was cool, I poked holes in it and dumped the strawberries and juice on top, and arranged them evenly.  Then, (this is the fun part), I beat a pint of heavy cream (sweetened with a touch of sugar) until it was nice and thick, which I spread over the cake like frosting.  I decorated the top with leftover strawberry slices.  Basically, a strawberry shortcake.  Yum!  It’s the perfect cake for a July 9th birthday.

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After serving cake and ice cream to 15 people (with help from Rich), it was finally time for me to sit down with a big piece of cake.  As I ate, I started to laugh.  It was such a typical Mama-moment……..

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The Mama, sitting alone, with the dirty table and a nursing baby, while eating her cake and ice cream.

Rich and Jason were cleaning the kitchen and Rich took the picture.

 

Happy Monday!

{this moment}

you are loved

 

A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

If you’re inspired to do the same, leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see.

(Thank you to the gentle Amanda Soule, for the idea.)

we went to the beach today

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The sun was hot and burned brightly on our skin, especially the bottoms of our feet as we went back and forth from our shade tent, to the water.  One little boy saw the “water” for the first time, and by watching his older siblings, he knew just what to do, without fear of anything. 

Baby Sarah remembered the ocean experience from her first time, back in February, and reminded us once again that she does not LIKE the ocean.  She gripped my arms as I held her, with both her arms, each time the wave came up loudly at my feet.  Loudly, she protested on and on until her Papa finally got her to drift away to nap-land.

I was happy to see that the older children could still play; jumping waves, laughing, building sand walls, playing football and frisbee, throwing sand at each other…so many smiles, so many, made my heart sing to give them the gift of this day, at the ocean.  They didn’t want to leave.  They wanted to watch the sunset.  Their laid-back friendliness attracted other little children and there is one picture up there…I had taken several of the same shot….before I realized that the little boy in the group that I thought was Caleb, wasn’t, and Caleb was off by himself!

We left the house unaware that Davy had forgotten SHOES, so we had to stop on our way to buy him some sandals.  Imagine the feelings we had, when we discovered at the end of the day, that the new sandals had vanished.  He was meant to be shoeless (?)  So that’s how he ate his dinner at Ruby Tuesdays, journeying back and forth to the salad bar.  With bare feet.

As I sat (at brief intervals) in my own beach chair, I was grateful to read through five pages of my magazine that I had chosen for the time at the beach.  I truly was honored to look at all the specimens that came my way, as child after child brought me things to see.

Jacob forgot to apply sunscreen.  Oh wait.  No, he “couldn’t find it.”  How he missed all the busy applying amongst the other eight family members, I have no idea.  But, he came home with a sunburn.  Thankfully, he kept his shirt on all day so it’s not as bad as it could be.

As parents, Rich and I soak up experiences like this, just as we soaked up the hot sun today.  It was a great day, watching the children be themselves, the little people we love so much.  Our friends.  Jacob with the burn, Ethan who is everyone’s friend, Grace who calmly explains things to us, and has long hair, Davy who doesn’t wear shoes, Caleb who wants his birthday to be tomorrow (it’s the 9th), Seth who wasn’t afraid, and Sarah Joy, who was, and found comfort in her father’s arms. 

 

she walks

 

Our baby, Sarah, is now 13 months old and has just learned a new skill.  Not only can she say some words: “mama, up, down, hi” but, after months of practicing, she can finally take independent steps.  In fact, she can walk clear across the room.

She has things to say and places to go.  She’s getting faster and faster, ’cause all she wants to do now, is walk.

Watching a baby learn to walk never gets old.  Rich and I delight in her.  We all do.

These two videos were taken out on the porch on July 4th.  The birds are singing…….it’s that time of night when they seem a little louder, as they get ready to settle down for the night.

Her tiny little legs get me.  Babies sure grow up and change so very quickly.  I’m so thankful for this sweet girl.

 

Her dirty feet hurt me.  She’s W A L K I N G!

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chicken fence

 

It is a joy to watch our flock of chickens roaming around the property.  They love to spend the entire day searching for tasty treats and scratching in their favorite dirty spots in the lawn.  It gives me (dreamer of having a flock, with her dream now fulfilled) a content feeling in my heart when I see them.  We have decided that having a flock of chickens has rewarded us in many ways, not just in the excellent eggs they give us, but also in unexpected ways like the observing of “chicken lifestyle”; the way they interact with each other, their different sounds they make to communicate, the way some prefer others but not others.  Some are more shy, some are more talkative, etc. 

We like them to roam free.  But we now have three roasters…(and the older roaster will attack small children), and try as we might, we cannot seem to keep them away from the house, and because they are each certainly little poop machines, leaving droppings everywhere…..we decided to build a fence.

It is currently 9:15pm and I am exhausted.  Rich has this week off from work so we are determined to get some things done around the place.  Task one:  Build The Chicken Fence.

I am proud of us because we’ve worked very hard today and we have the fence done, except the gate.  Go us!

It was a hot day, with several trips to town, (but at least I got an iced coffee!) and everyone got so dirty, but it was a healthy, active day outside.  I just love the smell of freshly dug dirt.  Really.  And  we made yet another family memory.

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Little Sarah doesn’t mind being outside at all, and seems to enjoy the dirt as much as the rest of us.

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Here they are, digging holes for the poles.  Grace-of-the-long-hair was her Dad’s big helper.  But, unfortunately she read on the roll of fencing that it was enough fence for a miniature pony yard, and now she really wants one (again, still, forever and always.).

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Caleb gathered the eggs and dropped two of them on his way to take them to the house. 

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Two-year-old Seth is just the right age to be Papa’s most eager, pint-sized, side kick.  Oh how he makes Rich smile with his charming little ways.  He’s the perfect little buddy for his Dad and says yes to anything even if he has no clue where he is about to go, with Papa, this time.

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I do plan on letting the hens out in the real yard for a little while each day, just before dusk, because chickens naturally go back to the coop to roost at sundown.  How much mischief could they get into in such a short time?  The benefit would be that they could have extra opportunities to eat juicy plants and bugs, since their own yard will be scratched over so much all day, every day.  I want them eating as much “natural” food as possible, because it makes for a healthier “end” product.

(LOL LOL  LOL  I totally just made that up myself!!!  “end product” = “my new name for eggs”!)

So “ends” yet another fascinating blog post.  hmmmmmmmmmmmm?

 

 

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From every mountain side
Let Freedom ring.
~Samuel F. Smith, “America”


We enjoyed a quiet (as quiet as it can be, that is) fourth of July here at the homeplace.  I didn’t sleep well last night so it was a treat to be able to take a nap this afternoon.  We ate pizza for dinner, pretzels with dip, and strawberries.  Pink lemonade.  After dinner Rich took Seth for a run using the jogging stroller and I took these pictures of Sarah, out on our porch.  I think she looks so cute in her short yellow dress, which used to be her big sister’s.  In fact, it was Grace’s first Easter dress, 11 years ago.  And with the flag in the background I thought they made good patriotic pictures of Sarah.

The little ones are now in bed.  The rest of us are sitting together in the livingroom watching the PBS Capital 4th patriotic concert on television.  At the moment we are very much enjoying Steve Martin and his banjo.  

When it gets dark, Rich is going to do some fireworks for us.

Happy fourth of July!

 

spiritual freedom

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The beauty of a life free in Christ has been on my mind lately.  Freedom in Christ….

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.  Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”  Galatians 5:1

Don’t let it happen to you!  Be free.

Don’t allow others to tie a heavy burden on to you.  You have already been set free in Christ, free to love.  To be thankful.  To have peace.

“You, my brothers, were called to be free.  But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature, rather, serve one another in love.  The entire law is summed up in a single command:  LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.”   Galatians 5:13,14

“The acts of the sinful nature are obvious:  sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery, idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like.  I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. 

But the fruit of the Spirit is

love,

joy,

peace,

patience,

kindness,

goodness,

faithfulness,

gentleness and

self-control.

AGAINST SUCH THINGS THERE IS NO LAW.” Galatians 19-25

And we are free in Christ, to do them.

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Would you say a prayer for my Grandfather today?  He is recovering from emergency hip surgery.  Thank you!