My Baby

 

(What a mom would rather watch)

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Slow Dance

Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round,
or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight or
gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down, don’t dance so fast, time is short , the music won’t last.

Do you run through each day on the fly,
when you ask “How are you” do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in bed
with the next hundred chores running through your head?

Ever told a child, “we’ll do it tomorrow”,
and in haste, not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die
’cause you never had time to call and say “hi”?

When you run so fast to get somewhere
you miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,
it is an unopened gift. . .thrown away. . .

Life is not a race.  Do take it slower. 
Hear the music, before the song is over.

 

 

Valentine’s Party

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I  had my 2nd annual Valentine’s Party at my house today.  It was so relaxing and enjoyable.  I invited 8 of my friends and made them dinner.  After dinner we exchanged valentine cards and gifts and we played a little game.  (each person brought a picture of themselves as a baby and/or little girl and we guessed who was who).

We also passed around a journal and we each wrote a little something in it.  I will add pictures to it later.  We used the same journal last year and it was neat to go back and look what we wrote.   Last year, we found out that **** was expecting a baby from our little journal.  There were no such surprises this year!  

When they left, I gave each of them a single rose with a quote tied to it with a ribbon .

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Everyone has left and I am sitting here happy.  We talked and laughed and just had FUN.  I am sure we resembled hens in a henhouse with all the cackling and chattering we did.  What I loved most of all about this night was observing my friends talking to each other and laughing.  It felt so good to be together, this dear little group which has gone through so much together–mostly good times but a few bad times as well.  I know we will always be there for each other.  And the circle is wide.  It includes everyone. 

friends

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I can’t concentrate on what I am writing because hubby is sitting on the floor next to me looking at his new purchase:  a deep fat fryer.  Never did I think I would own such a thing.  He wants to make chicken wings.    What a great man he is, he took all 5 of the children out from 4:30 until 7:30 while I had my party.   When he got back he put the kids to bed and came downstairs and held my friend’s baby so she could eat her dessert.  He’s the one who took the group pictures of us, too.

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By the end of the night we all tend to get a little silly.  I think SOMEONE had a bit too much sugar? 

Thank you, God, for the love of friends.

Valentine's Party

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I  had my 2nd annual Valentine’s Party at my house today.  It was so relaxing and enjoyable.  I invited 8 of my friends and made them dinner.  After dinner we exchanged valentine cards and gifts and we played a little game.  (each person brought a picture of themselves as a baby and/or little girl and we guessed who was who).

We also passed around a journal and we each wrote a little something in it.  I will add pictures to it later.  We used the same journal last year and it was neat to go back and look what we wrote.   Last year, we found out that **** was expecting a baby from our little journal.  There were no such surprises this year!  

When they left, I gave each of them a single rose with a quote tied to it with a ribbon .

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Everyone has left and I am sitting here happy.  We talked and laughed and just had FUN.  I am sure we resembled hens in a henhouse with all the cackling and chattering we did.  What I loved most of all about this night was observing my friends talking to each other and laughing.  It felt so good to be together, this dear little group which has gone through so much together–mostly good times but a few bad times as well.  I know we will always be there for each other.  And the circle is wide.  It includes everyone. 

friends

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DSCN52990001 (The only man allowed!)

I can’t concentrate on what I am writing because hubby is sitting on the floor next to me looking at his new purchase:  a deep fat fryer.  Never did I think I would own such a thing.  He wants to make chicken wings.    What a great man he is, he took all 5 of the children out from 4:30 until 7:30 while I had my party.   When he got back he put the kids to bed and came downstairs and held my friend’s baby so she could eat her dessert.  He’s the one who took the group pictures of us, too.

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By the end of the night we all tend to get a little silly.  I think SOMEONE had a bit too much sugar? 

Thank you, God, for the love of friends.

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 Grow old along with me!
The best is yet to be,
the last of life, for which the first was made;
Our times are in His hand
Who saith, “A whole I planned,
Youth shows but half; trust God:
See all, Nor be afraid!”

Robert Browning

 

Thumb Cookies (Tasha Tudor recipe) & Pineapple Cookies

 

Thumb cookies (from Tasha Tudor’s cookbook, don’t think about frozen critters as you read this)

1 cup butter
1/2 cup sugar
1/4 tsp salt
2 eggs
2 cups flour
1/2 tsp almond extract
1 (8 oz) jar raspberry jam

Preheat oven to 350.  Line 2 cookie sheets w/parchment paper.

In a large bowl, mix together all the ingredients except the raspberry jam, in the order given.  Roll the dough into teaspoon-sized balls and make indentations with your thumb, fill indentations w/rasp. jam.

Bake for 10-15 minutes until delicately brown.  Cool. 

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Pineapple Cookies (this is from an old community cookbooks that my G.Grandma gave me years ago.)

1 c. shortening
1 1/2 cup sugar
1 egg
1 c. crushed pineapple w/juice
1/2 c. nuts
3 1/2 flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. nutmeg

Mix shortening, sugar and egg.  Stir in pineapple. Stir together flour, soda, salt and nutmeg and add to bowl; stir.  Mix in nuts (I never add nuts)  Chill at least 1 hour.  Drop onto greased cookie sheet.  Bake at 400 for 8-10 minutes.

 

 

 

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This morning I was thinking about my mom. 

It’s the first day of February, the month that I was born.  I miss my mom, we talk a lot on the phone but Rich and I moved away 7 years ago and sometimes I am momentarily sad that things aren’t what they used to be.

You know, I would just hop in the car and drive over.  Any ol’ time, I knew I would always be welcomed.  Sundays were my favorite day.  We all went to church and then most of the time we would go back to my parent’s and hang out.  Rich and I only had 2 children then so things were quieter.  Dad would have the newspaper.  The football game would be on.  Mom would be busy in the kitchen.  My brothers and my sister were still at home.  If we wanted to talk, we talked.  We just hung out, completely trusting, being together.

The only house I feel completely relaxed in is my parent’s.

On Thanksgiving day we were there and I started to cry a little because it felt so nice to sit on the couch and not be the one in charge.  I was daughter again. 

It’s special to think about MOM now and then. 

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To her you’ll always be
just a youngster at her knee.
Edgar Guest

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To her whose heart is my heart’s quiet home,
To my first love, my Mother, on whose knee
I learnt love-lore that is not troublesome.
Christina Rossetti

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When You Thought I wasn’t Looking
Mary Korzan

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You hung my first painting on the refrigerator
And I wanted to paint another.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You fed a stray cat
And I thought it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You baked a birthday cake just for me
And I knew that little things were special things.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You said a prayer
And I believed there was a God
That I could always talk to.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You kissed me goodnight
And I felt loved.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
I saw tears come from your eyes
And I learned that sometimes things hurt-
But that it’s okay to cry.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You smiled
And it made me want to look that pretty too.

When you thought I wasn’t looking
You cared
And I wanted to be everything I could be.

When you thought I wasn’t looking-
I looked. . . .
And wanted to say thanks
For all those things you did
When you thought I wasn’t looking.

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