an old house….covered in vines

Grace and Ethan are home sick today and Jacob doesn’t have school.

I woke up feeling optimistic and cheerful for the first time in a long time, praise the Lord!

We watched a little bit of the movie “Newsies” and a little bit of a Harry Potter movie.

I love seeing all the books within the Harry Potter movies….today it made me want to go to the library.

So I did!  After I made my three oldest (who are now 16, 17, and 18 years old) a batch of pancakes and fried eggs, that is.

I paid a typical five dollar fine at the library and left with a nice heavy bag of books.

Then I hopped in my car and drove to the thrifty thrift shop downtown.

It’s gorgeous weather this week, by the way.  Today is balmy.

(Ethan just told me he wanted meat.  Jacob is starting a hamburger for him.  Grace is sleeping.)

I found a dollhouse!

Take a look:

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This was where it was discovered.  I took a picture so I could text Mom and ask her if I should buy it.

“Yes” was her reply.

The best part of all is that it’s a Madeline house.  “In an old house in Paris, covered in vines…..”

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weekend reading.

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I’ve been getting walnuts in the shell for the family, I pour them into a big fiesta bowl,  so when I saw this giant walnut dish while out thrifting, I snatched it up.  It opens.  The kids will love it.

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Isn’t it marvelous?

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I’ve been amused by a couple of Kingfishers.  They’ve been so noisy that I wonder if they’re battling over territory?

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And this tiny bird’s nest.

There is typically a sense of expectation during every walk outdoors.  But the other evening it was almost completely dark so I wasn’t too expectant about seeing anything (at all).  I went outside to shut in the chickens and the night was so warm and soothing that I took a short walk around.  I stood down by the stream to listen to it and happened to look UP….right at this bird’s nest, which I could barely make out.  I turned on my flashlight to see it and the next day I took my camera down.  So small and sweet that I laughed.  Even in the dark God can show us things.

(It’s quite high up, I’m hoping one of my climbers will be able to collect it for me)

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This is where I sit when it’s time for the afternoon bus to come with my young ones.

Happy Friday!

sweet and simple sixteenth birthday at home

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My daughters are reading these books:  Emily Climbs by L.M. Montgomery, and Lucy Steps Through the Wardrobe.  Good, wholesome, soul-full, beautiful books.  There’s nothing like pre-internet literature, in my opinion.

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As I mentioned yesterday, dear daughter Grace turned 16.

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She’s a confident, takes -her- responsibilities -seriously, friend -to -all type of young woman.

She gets ideas and she follows through.

Last week she came home and told me she taught an elective (one time) class with another teacher and she enjoyed it.  The kids who signed up for the class enjoyed it, too.

She might be a teacher one day, and if she is….she’ll be a great one.

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She’s working on ASL fluency.  She has so many ideas about that, too.

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I have this photo of her when she was seven.

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Larissa delivered the cakes yesterday and helped get the room ready for a simple family dinner and cake night.

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Grace requested shrimp scampi for dinner.  Costco sells it frozen, and it’s very easy to prepare.  While the noodles are boiling, all you need to do is dump the scampi in another skillet and heat.

We also had fresh fruit (grapes, raspberries, blackberries), a dish of diced tomatoes as a topper to the pasta for those who wished, and broccoli.  There was apple cider to drink.

While I was busy getting the last things on the table, I found Caleb giving his sister a hug.

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We had an early dinner because Seth and Caleb had football practice.  So we ate and then let Grace open her bag of gifts.

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There was an uproar about finding the football gear but I finally got out the door with the boys…only to discover once we got to the field that Seth had forgotten his helmet and Caleb didn’t have practice, he had a movie night with the team at the Coach’s house.

On the way back home I listened to the radio.

Rich came home and we had some snuggle time on the couch until he went to pick up the boys.

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8pm — delicious cake and ice cream to celebrate our beautiful Grace Lillian.

She was born around 3 a.m. in the morning.  She was the first labor and delivery I smiled through, thanks to a first-time epidural.

Our precious baby daughter had arrived, after two boys.  Oh how fun it was to dress her up in little girl clothes and to see her brothers fall in love with their tiny sister.  She was 5 pounds and 13 ounces when she was born….my smallest baby.

We have had 16 blessed years with our girl and we are forever grateful for the opportunity to raise her and love her.

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There is no such thing in anyone’s life as an unimportant day. ~Alexander Woollcott

To finish the moment, to find the journey’s end in every step of the road, to live the greatest number of good hours, is wisdom. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Jacob and Emily weren’t able to join us for cake because they were working.

(individual ice cream cups made serving so much easier)

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waving the smoke away

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The cake had raspberry filling.

(If you’re reading this an you’re a local friend please stop by for a piece of cake.  There is a lot left over.)

Rich and his daughter have a date planned to go and get her set up with her first bow.  It’s what she has wanted for a long time now.  She will add “archery” to her list of accomplishments very soon.

Be deeply satisfied and ready for more. ~Abraham–Hicks

go easy

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David’s little kitty, whose name is Gentleman Gray, isn’t allowed to go outside very often.

But when he does, he returns as soon as possible with an old dead mouse.

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The mouse was caught by one of Gentleman Gray’s housemates….he himself hasn’t caught any of them, he doesn’t have the opportunity, so he just enjoys playing with them.

Typically, I take the mouse by the ice cold tip of it’s tail and fling it right back outside into the bushes as far as I can fling.  But the other day I let him have it for a few minutes because his antics were making me laugh.

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He has several very nice fabric mice filled with catnip, but there’s just nothing like sinking your teeth into a real live dead one.

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The poor thing had such adorable ears.

If the children or I find one of our cats in the act of killing a mouse we ALWAYS save the mouse’s life.

My husband on the other hand……..is thrilled with every dead mouse he sees.

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There have been a few times when I threw a dead mouse outside (without him seeing me do it) only to have him bring it right back in!  What an amazing sense of smell cats must have.

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Sarah was so so sick last night.  She must have thrown up seven times in the matter of just a few hours.  She was distraught, pale, crying…it was terrible.  What a mercy that her body finally settled down and she was able to eat some animal crackers and keep them down at around 9:30-10.  But then Caleb got sick, and then David.  Pepto- Bismol was the key to helping their tummies.  They all made it through the night quietly so we had some sleep.  Today they have been on the couches all day long but able to eat more and more, starting with crackers in the morning and ending at 5:00pm with all three eating bowls of cooked broccoli!  If you can crave broccoli at a time like this I would say things aren’t so bad.

God has surprised me several times today with unexpected blessings.  One was a phone call from the kid’s doctor, wanting to apologize to me for being very distracted at the last appointment I went to, he even mentioned CHRISTIANITY, LOVE, CHRIST, and the HOLY SPIRIT in the conversation (!!) and other blessing was having Michael come to visit Jacob just in time to go pick up Ethan from school after practice.

Yet another time was much earlier in the day, when I went to drop off lunch money at the school.  The office lady asked how I was and as I spoke to her she could tell I was stressed out.  As I left she encouraged me by simply saying, “go easy.”  Those two little words became my mantra of the day.  Go easy on myself, go easy on my day, go easy with my family, go easy on the housework, etc……..

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I visited my hens.  I gave them fresh water and food.

And then some of them followed me.  I was about to take a very easy and short walk, close to home.

I saw a chipmunk on a rock in the stream.  It froze when it saw me and then as quick as lightening, vanished under some old sticks and leaves.

I wasn’t going anywhere in particular….so I wandered down to Ethan’s fort that he made this summer.

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It’s an interesting feeling to be all alone, looking at your son’s hard work.  Imagining him building it, seeing his thoughts and ideas on how to make it work.  I stood under the roof.  I saw the clippers and a garden tool.

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I admired the way he put together the low walls.

And when I turned around, I saw that one of my hens had crossed the stream to follow me to the fort!  It was an unexpected laugh.

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We talked for a few minutes and then she went back home.  It was a good thing because I really don’t want a lonely lost hen in the forest.

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I would love to know what this shrub or sapling is.  The stem is green but there is brown stiff paper-like bark sticking out around it.  It’s so pretty and orderly.

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The best part of my walk was discovering witch hazel in bloom.

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This is the very same plant that witch hazel astringent is made from, which has many uses and has been around for a very long time.

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It comes into flower just as everything else around us is dying from frosts.

Such a cheerful yellow.

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In the upper left you can see the brown seed pods.  The seeds within them open up on a sunny day and shoot out for a great distance.  Fun!

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I broke a branch off one of the bushes to carry it back to the house so I could admire it.  I’m hoping the seed pods open up and shoot.

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I did all my walking and came back home with my pockets looking like this.  Guess what’s in them?

trust me :: you’re lovely

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It was a long weekend and this will be a long post full of photos!

First of all, the colors this weekend were stunning.  We had plenty of sunshine, which made them seem even brighter.

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We went to Target.

And the next morning Sarah was on a leash….

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My Mom and Dad said “you have to watch the Great British Baking show” so I finally turned it on Saturday morning–we ended up watching four episodes throughout the day.  It’s included on amazon prime.  The first episode was “cake” and my little ones got VERY inspired.

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They came up with this on their own after watching it with me.

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Seth got points for rolling his up, just like the people did with their swiss rolls on the show.   After I took the pictures they got out the whipped cream, too.

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They spilled so many bright white sprinkle balls on the floor that the kitten started chasing them around.

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Rich and I took four of the children to a corn maze.  I think it was the first time that we took 2 boys and 2 girls with us anywhere, an even match-up.

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There was a playground in a deep bed of feed corn.

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There was a hay bale maze for little ones to run through (or over the top which is what our kids did).

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And fun places to take goofy picture of your kids.

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We went through the corn maze but didn’t complete it 100% of the way…it got too confusing.  I don’t think we stopped laughing though.

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There was a “pillow” to bounce on.

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Before we left, we each picked out a pumpkin.

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After a while he asked someone else to pull the wagon because his “legs were too tired.”

We got to the car and he said that I forgot his jacket so Rich had to go find it.  Then, while we were waiting he said he had to go to the bathroom so Grace had to go take him.  It’s amazing what you remember when you have to sit still.

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On Sunday Rich went to church and I took the little boys to their game.  Caleb is number 54.  Both teams won.  It was a great morning to spend outside.  Rich and Grace were able to join me after a while.  Ethan dropped them off after church and went on home by himself (he drives now and it was great when I ran out of creamer for my coffee the other day and I could just throw him the car keys).

I could sit and stare at this picture forever:

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My man and my girl.

As soon as we got home I didn’t go inside…..I wandered around in the gorgeous outdoors.

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I love the faded pinkish red leaves in the background in this picture of glowing yellow.

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And how the fall colors blend and mix and stand out.  I see the brown and gray of tree bark, plus several different shades of red, orange, yellow, and green.

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I call Sam my halloween cat.  She followed me around, begging to get her fur stroked.

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The Osprey was in our dead tree again and this time it had a fish.  I was able to lay down in the grass under the branch it sat upon, which was way up high above me.  The bird held the fish in its feet and lowered its head down to twist pieces off it to eat.  The twisting action was a quick back and forth motion, similar to a person testing a doorknob to see if the door is locked.  It was fascinating to watch this interesting bird.

But Rich wasn’t very pleased with it eating HIS fish from HIS pond.

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But luckily, David ran over to look with us, and the two of them used my camera to zoom in on the fish.  They decided that it wasn’t from our pond, it was a trout.

(I found Dave’s “life is good” t shirt at the thrift store for 25 cents!)

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Kids played football together on Sunday afternoon, until Emily had to go to work.

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On Monday, Seth put clips all over his face!

Rich had to work but everyone else had no school or work, so a trip to Salem, MA was planned.

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Michael, Jacob, Zak, Grace, and Emily went for the day.  This picture was taken before they left to go get Emily.

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Ethan stayed home because he wanted to visit with his friend Tessa, also he had soccer practice.

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The funniest thing happened while I was taking the picture of Tessa and Ethan.  We were at the bottom of the hill and our house sits at the top.  Sarah was playing with the pumpkins on the front steps and let one go….all we heard was her little voice “Here comes a pumpkin” and it rolled all the way down, off the dock, into kersplash!  into the pond!

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Caleb waded into the cold water to get it after it floated close enough to the edge.

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Thank you Caleb!

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Caleb pointed out these mushrooms to me.

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I’m going to dig up this little pink-leaved bush to put in my flower garden.  It’s growing at the edge of the woods.  I love how the leaves turned dark pink for fall.  It’s beautiful!

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Last but not least, I took a this photo this morning while Seth read me his assigned 1st grade reading.  It was a variation of “Jack and Jill” that made me die of laughter…,,,,

he’s home again

Last night I woke up at 12:30 a.m. to my husband getting into bed after being gone on a business trip.  He wasn’t away for very long – Monday through Thursday – but it felt much longer to me, I missed him terribly and welcomed him with open arms.

This morning we slept until 8…the children didn’t have school…I regretted teaching Seth my cell phone number because he kept calling it from the living room, basically right outside our door.

“What is taking too long for you to come out?” he asked in his wee small voice.

We eventually emerged and I got to work making sausage and pancakes for Ethan and his friend Mitch, and Grace, David, Caleb, Seth, Sarah, and Rich.  Jacob was already up and out of the house.  Did I tell you that he has his FIRST REAL JOB?  He’s working at Dick’s Clothing and Sporting Goods as a shoe person.  He’s going to be great.

I made blueberry pancakes and fried some eggs.   Mitch ate his first fried egg from a family chicken rather than a grocery store carton.

By the time our slow relaxing morning and breakfast was over, it was 10.  I needed to get some things at Costco so I asked “who wants to go with me” and soon we were leaving….me, Grace,  Caleb, Seth, and Sarah.

I bought our needed supplies plus a big pumpkin for the front porch.  David needed some duct tape in order to make a sheath for his new cold steel sword so after Costco we went to Target and Grace and I got matching flannel shirts.

It’s a PERFECT fall day, there is a touch of warmth and humidity in the air, it’s windy and the leaves look so pretty swirling down.

We gathered five eggs from the coop.  Soon we will have too many to use up ourselves and I will give some away to my friends.

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bible study with a chicken!

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As soon as the children left for school yesterday, and I had a good start on the household chores, I looked outside and thought, “What a gorgeous fall morning.”

I decided to go out in it and sit with the hens to have my Bible study time.  As soon as I opened my Bible, my favorite chicken hopped up on my knee to join me.  You might notice that I thought it was October 6th at first.  “This all seems familiar,” I thought, and then realized it was now the 7th.  Already!

Hi Chicken!

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I had a notebook with me and a pencil stuck in my ponytail.  The pencil didn’t stay there long, because very soon there were good things to scribble down to save and think about.  The air was fresh and cool, the sounds of contented hens charming.

I want and long to read the Bible every day.  I have found that for me, the best way to do this is to use a  “One Year Bible”.  (click here to see the one I use) In this Bible, there is a reading for each day of the year.  I’ve used it for several years now.  There are times when I miss a few days, maybe even a week or more, but I have found that if I try to catch up I get overwhelmed.  So, I always skip those days because very soon (next year) I WILL get to those verses again.  There is a portion of Old Testament, New Testament, Psalms, and Proverbs.  Even though it is a structured, assigned portion of reading, there are ALWAYS words and truths that my heart and soul needed to hear again and again–never boring or dry.  I usually keep paper nearby so that I can write down the verses that spoke to me that day.  You see, the Bible is ALIVE for those who believe and love it.  The words within it are useful in so many ways, and for Christians, it is like medicine for the soul.  It’s like a food-craving you might get for, say, chocolate.  You find yourself thinking about the Word during the day and wanting it.  And when you get it, you are filled and satisfied.

Yesterday, I wrote these things down in my notebook (verses in quotes, my thoughts *not* in quotes)

~”An honest answer is like a kiss of friendship.”

Always be honest in your questions and answers.  Don’t “play games”, don’t pretend.  Be sincere.  It’s a beautiful way to live–so beautiful that your honest, truthful ways are just like friendship’s kisses.

~”This is what the Lord says:  Don’t let the wise boast in their wisdom, or the powerful boast in their power, or the rich boast in their riches.  But those who wish to boast should boast in this alone:  that they truly know me and understand that I am the Lord who demonstrates unfailing love and who brings justice and righteousness to the earth and that I delight in these things.  I, the Lord, have spoken.” 

~”Your real life is hidden with Christ in God.”

~”Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshipping the things of this world.”

Teach the children about greed.

Greed-intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power, or food.  A selfish and excessive desire for more of something than is needed.

~”Christ is all that matters and He lives in all of us.”
~”Since God chose you to be the holy people He loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.  Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you.  Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.  Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all in perfect harmony.  And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts.  For as members of one body you are called to live in peace.  And always be thankful.  Let the message about Christ, in all richness, fill your lives.”

This is a wonderful set of verses to apply to my FAMILY.

~”Despite God’s wonders, they refused to trust Him.”  —The next time you have some difficulty trusting God, think of as many of His wonders as you possibly can.

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I had no idea there was an app on my iPhone that shows all the steps I take in one day.  I make sure I have it in my pocket now when I take my walks….it’s fun to see just how much I walk in a day as I go about my business.  My mom does the same thing with her phone, and she is the one who taught me about the app.  It came already installed on my phone and dummy me never knew it until last weekend.

I had it in my pocket when I went for a walk yesterday all alone because my children all go to school now (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

I find myself  MAKING REMARKS TO MYSELF OUT LOUD.  I really need to stop because it’s starting to happen at the grocery store, too.

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The birds are quite active at this time of year.  This morning when I let out the dog I saw a cardinal and a blue jay right outside my house in the bushes.  They were busy eating berries in the early morning sunshine.  A blue jay scolded me yesterday from the treetops and I got this fun picture of it stretching to reach some food.

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The colors of autumn dazzle the eye.

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Adorable mushroom.  I want to draw it.  I like to imagine them slowly growing up through the sweet smelling leaves and eventually poking their heads up to the day.

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Dappled sunlight in the woods.

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Hickory nuts are dropping off the trees and oh how I wish I could get to them!!  I want to climb and gather!  But the tree is so very tall.  I have an old schoolbook primer that has a story in it about a nutting party.  (this blog post is similar) The neighborhood people would go gather nuts together.  Why did that stop happening??  My mom and her family used to get nuts in the fall on their farm land. I need to ask her to tell me the stories again.  I know of two hickory trees nearby.  One is by the stream and one is up the road just a little ways on the right and it’s nuts drop on the edge of the street.

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I walked toward the stream…..a golfball caught my eye so I went to pick it up and saw this sight-

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“What in the world are they doing?”, I asked myself (out loud) and when I realized what was happening, I blushed deeply and hid my eyes.

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A worm saw them and wriggled away fast.

Or was it me he was squirming from?  Regardless, I once again spoke out loud, “That was a BIG worm!” I said.

I think I miss my children.  I’m not used to having no one near.

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It didn’t help that there were signs of them down by the stream.

I also found a sock.

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This is not the sky, but a reflection of it in a still pool of water in the stream.

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Well, eventually the children DID come back home.  I went for another little walk with David and Sarah.  We collected acorns and more hickory nuts (just a couple).  I wanted them all (greedy again?) David told me that HE could climb the tree.  Humph.

I did all the talking I wanted to without feeling weird.

Soon it was time for Caleb and Seth to go to football practice.  Grace had a variety show at the High School so we made an outing of it.  Ethan, David, and Sarah came along as I dropped off the boys at the field.  We had extra time so Ethan suggested the coffee shop downtown.  Sarah had an apple juice and a bag of chips that she didn’t like (they had pepper on them.)  David had a diet soda, Ethan and I had coffee.  Ethan snap-chatted his friend who is a girl.  (um)

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We looked out the window and saw that in the park across the street a band was setting up.  The concert was to start in 15 minutes and we still had time so Sarah and I went over to enjoy some great jazz music…

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Is this quaint or what??  I loved every moment…there were people all around us, and more gathered in as time went on.  I would love to go again with Rich.  People had their lawn chairs, picnic foods, sweaters and blankets to keep warm, and a musical spirit…toe tapping, a little dancing, smiles on the faces…it was great.

The boys played down by the water and railroad tracks and could still hear all the songs.

We may not have nutting parties but we do have outdoor concerts!

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After a quick trip to the library we headed to the HS.  Grace was in the color guard Flag routine (she’s on the far left on the floor).  She’s been twirling the flag for just a few months and did very well.  It was fun to see all the kids do their various routines…dance, music, and what have you.  Sarah ate two chocolate candy bars while she watched and we didn’t get home until 9:00pm.

It was a wonderful night being filled up with my children again after a lonesome-like afternoon.

Tonight Rich comes home.  He’s been gone since Monday.  It’s a long weekend for the kids–no school tomorrow or Monday!

in the meantime….

Isn’t the news depressing?  It makes me long for Jesus and Home.  I know the end of my story and it’s worth living in this wretched world for…..as a person who determines to look for beauty, it hurts to write “wretched” but what other word is there when you hear of all the terrible things happening in our country and around the world?

In the meantime, I’m determined to live my own ordinary, quiet, blessed life to the FULLEST.  I’m going to say yes as much as possible, go to bed early and SLEEP the glorious sleep, read the books, dress the children, cook the food, laugh the laughs, light the candles, take pictures of the sunrise, help as many people as I can, smile the smiles, say NO to anything or anyone that drains the energy from me that I need for my family, hug the hugs, pet the cats, make the sacrifices……you get the idea.  All the things that I like, that I need to do and want to do.  I’m so thankful that I have the power and determination to live the life I want to live, regardless of outside circumstances.  We all have that freedom to some extent.

I truly think it pleases and glorifies God when we know who we are and live the way He made us to live, according to each unique person’s story and personality.  Praising, dancing, and yes, even mourning and crying in those times, too.  Feeling all the emotions He made us to feel.  Do you like to cook?  Then COOK with abandon.  Do you like nature?  Then get outside!  Do you like people?  Then get out there BE WITH THEM.  Do you like solitude?  Then stay home and LET THE WONDERFUL PEOPLE COME TO YOU.  Everyone is different and everyone has value.  There is no shame.

My mom said this weekend, “I LOVE MY LIFE.”  She read a story about a woman in her 90’s who still walks to work every day.  She wants to be like that woman.  Relishing her life and her work and never wanting it to end……..to keep going.

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Ethan, Mitch, and Jacob went to the homecoming football game, and so did Caleb, who wanted to go so very much that the boys took him along.

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The dog was at their feet in the photo….Parker the dog loves his boys.  In his eyes, they can do no wrong and totally deserve 115% loyalty and love.

He’s RIGHT!

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Grace was invited to the homecoming dance….and after I asked the brothers if he was a nice boy I said….”If you want to go, then I want you to go.  Experience High School…all of it…and enjoy it!”  And she was happy to say “yes” and go dress shopping.

We had a hallelujah fit in the mall when we got the text telling us the parade was cancelled that morning…..because we needed more time.  This girl hardly has any free time and we shopped for her dress the morning of the dance!!!!  It had to be purple, too.  Thankfully, we had success at Macy’s.  The dress fit her like it was made for her.  Which is was.  🙂

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We went from shopping to lunch with Grandma, Grandpa, and Abbie.

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cousins!

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Then we walked to the bookstore.

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My dad with Caleb.  And a lego mini figure that I bought for my boy.

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My mom who loves life even though it’s very hard at times!

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I fixed her hair, painted her nails, bought her dress, shoes, and necklace, let her borrow my earrings and dress coat (not pictured) and I was happy to do it all for my girl.  It was exhausting, in a good way.  That feeling when a plan comes together.

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Aren’t they sharp?  They had made a plan to dress alike, and they had success!  Grace told me the next morning that she had a lot more fun than she thought she would.  (She was a little nervous).

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I wish I had a better photo of Jacob and Emily but I was so focused on Grace and these two LEFT the house in Jacob’s car before I could even think of getting a picture of them.  Rich and I drove Grace and her date to the school and happened to see Jacob and Emily walking on the sidewalk.  I took the picture out the truck window.  It was freezing cold (in the 40s) so poor Emily was suffering.  Jacob didn’t ask to be taken shopping….he simply raided his Dad’s closet.

Oh and in case you’re wondering…Ethan and his girlfriend didn’t go to the dance.  They stayed at her house with her family and watched four Harry Potter movies.

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The purpose of this photo is to show you my morning glories.  They have vigorously produced more vine and leaf than flower.  I’m enjoying each remaining day with them because when we have frost they will die.  I loved watching them grow all summer long, waiting and waiting for the flowers to appear.

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Yesterday evening we cleaned the chicken coop and put fresh new wood shavings down.

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We found our first white egg ever!!

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Rich took a couple pictures with me in them.  And that’s Caleb helping, too.

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Wooly Aphids are AMAZING gray bugs that have white wispy stuff (called honeydew) coming out of them.  Blogged about last year.

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I was standing on the side of the road on Sunday when I took this picture. ^^  This morning I heard the dog barking and looked outside to see a car parked and running in the same spot.  I put on my boots to run down and see if they were okay.  And GUESS WHAT?  This is so exiting.  It was a lady trying to take pictures (with a Cannon SLR) of an Osprey sitting in our dead tree!!!!!  (the dead tree pictured above).  She and I visited on the side of the road, talking of nature and photography, and became friends this morning at 8am!!!!!!!!!!!  That’s a God-moment for sure!

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This morning’s sunrise.  Sarah said, “Mom, come look at the sky!”

Happy is the Mom whose children show her sunrises.

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Please please pray that Sarah’s UTI has cleared up.  I have to take her tomorrow at 8:45 for a re-check.  She’s certainly acting better, and had a great time eating chocolate covered strawberries yesterday after church.

Happy Monday, friends!

“And now, just as you accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord, you must continue to follow Him.  Let your roots grow down into Him, and let your lives be built on Him.  Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.”  Colossians 2:6, 7  (I read this verse this morning and absolutely LOVED it. Amen!)

they shall be filled

 

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Blueberry Coffee Cake

~very, very good family recipe~

1/2 cup shortening
3/4 cup sugar
1 egg
2 cups flour
2 1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/4 tsp. salt
1/2 cup milk
2 cups blueberries (can use fresh or frozen)

Preheat oven to 350.  In a mixing bowl, cream shortening and sugar together, add egg and beat until fluffy.  Mix in the dry ingredients alternating with the milk.  Spread in a greased and floured 11 by 7 inch pan or two 9 inch pans.  Sprinkle the top with 2 cups blueberries

Crumb topping

1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup flour
1/4 cup butter
1/2 tsp. cinnamon

Mix together with a pastry blender or a fork until crumbly and sprinkle on top of the berries.  Bake for 30-45 minutes until a toothpick comes out clean.

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This morning has filled me up spiritually.

The verse “blessed are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness for they shall be filled” is in my mind, I’m meditating on it over and over and I think to myself that Righteousness is God, I hunger and thirst for Him, for Jesus, and He fills me up to overflowing with this lovely life of mine.  Yes there are dry, exhausting, and difficult days but then another sort of day comes along like this one and the tears of gratitude are ever ready because I feel His restoring care in such a real and deep way.

It’s raining on and off outside which is just lovely, a visual for what is happening inside of me as well.

I’ve been watching Netflix’s Chef’s Table series and today was episode three (watched this morning as I matched socks and folded laundry) it was sooooooooooooo good!  It did it’s part to fill me up, too.  Wow.  (episode one was the same way, #2 wasn’t as good IMO)  People are so unique and there is so much to learn from another’s life.

The rabbit hopped around the living room and ate a pear under the coffee table.  I put down newspapers because she loves to chew and shred them.

Small Gentleman Gray napped in the midst of my clothes piles, I would stop and pet him now and then.

I went outside to take the leftover breakfast milk and cereal, eggshells and crusts of bread to my hens.  I spent some time cleaning the coop and peeked around the corner to slyly take a picture of a VERY skittish hen.  She lays VERY small eggs.  Really nothing to make such a fuss about.

I picked a small bunny salad to bring back in to Rabbit; mostly clover

The stream has filled up again, and I did a little wading in the cold water.

I came back inside and made a cup of coffee in my new sage fiesta mug.  I took a picture of it but the colors of Fiesta can be hard to photograph, it looked much truer to color when I edited the photo to black and white.  I dumped my coffee on the couch, and they were right….leather is MUCH easier to clean.

I’m sitting here blogging and also scratching like a maniac at a bee sting on my ankle which is still bothering me and I’m making it worse but it feels so good to scratch…..ahhhhh!!!…..so I better go make some more baking soda paste to rub into it.

Happy Wednesday, friends!  You are loved.

“The Sovereign Lord will show his justice to the nations of the world.  Everyone will praise Him!  His righteousness will be like a garden in early spring, with plants springing up everywhere.”  Isaiah 61:11

it’s the little things

Good morning friends of the blog,

Today is picture day at school for Sarah, Seth, and Caleb and boy do they look extra cute this morning.

Jacob is still asleep, and so is Mike who is not related by blood but has become a part of the family and spends almost every Sunday to Wednesday with us….

I’m still in my pajamas and just finished eating a lovely omelet made with 2 of our own chicken eggs, filled with mushrooms, onions, peppers, cheese, and spinach.  I can’t start the day without a good breakfast, thanks to my mom and her good care of me growing up.

The temperature is up 15 degrees from the other day because it’s cloudy and going to rain.  The colors are coming out in the leaves beautifully and I’m a touch sad because I love fall and know it will pass quickly.

My favorite thing to drink these days is hot apple cider.

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Gentleman Gray adds such joy to our family with his little kitten ways.  He has such a loud and ready purr.  He’s actually on my shoulder purring and falling asleep as I type, and Parker the dog is on the floor by my bed sleeping (I’m in bed).

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I like to go down to the chicken coop and watch the hens.  Even if I’m in a hurry I find myself slowing down to enjoy them.  Yesterday I sat cross legged in the grass and they all (23 of them) gathered around.  Several tried to bite my toenails off, several used my corduroy pants to wipe their beaks, and several kept snooping in my lap at the three eggs I was trying hide from them.  I held one my lap for a while and admired it’s feather-dress.  Would anyone be interested in an entire blog post about the chickens?

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honeybee on goldenrod (my favorite color yellow)  I took some other fun close ups a few weeks ago that I have to post soon.

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Guess what?  We swapped out our big fabric sectional for a leather one!  We only had the fabric couch for 6 years but it was a mess, the cushions were ripping, the edging was tearing off it, and because it was fabric it was filthy.  At least, that’s how I felt.  I kept it washed and vacuumed as much as I could but with the family and pets on it all day every day it was time to go.  This is our first leather couch.  It smells so good.  My only complaint is that Seth can’t control himself on it….when I try to sit and read to him he slides all over the place….he can’t seem to help it.  At one point he was upside down with his feet in the air while I was reading a book about cats to him.  I think the feel of the leather is too much for him.  😉

As you can see, we have a row of black bookcases behind the couch.  This is so convenient because 1. we always need more room for books 2. we can reach back and put things on the top of  it while we are sitting.  3. I fold the laundry and make my row of piles on it while watching TV. and 4. during parties it becomes another table, the kids sit on stools behind it.

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Rich was sold by the fact that the back cushions do not come off.  Only the seat cushions can be removed.   I don’t mind the children making forts with the couch cushions but it is a pet-peeve of his (and wisely, too, because that’s probably part of the reason our other one got old so quickly).

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The last thing I want to show you today is my kindle has returned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Remember I had lost it on vacation last month?  Well, Rich made some phone calls and located it in one of the hotels and had them mail it back.

Happy Tuesday!!

thirteen

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Isn’t it beautiful to celebrate every child, each special, unique life?

To give birth to a son and watch him grow each and every day.

How thankful I am to have my son David in my life.  Thirteen years ago, on an early fall, sunshiny day, he was born.

I experienced the miracle of new life…my third baby boy.  I savored every minute of those baby days.

This morning I woke up at 7:30 and there was already a party going on.  Dave had a friend spend the night and they were chasing each other around the house with toy weapons.

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After church we had a big cheese pizza, a salad made with radishes, tomatoes, mushrooms, and Italian dressing, and fried chicken.  He played the piano while we cleared the table and turned on the Sunday afternoon football game.

The many sounds of “home”.

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Isn’t it a marvel how God makes a family?   To put a husband and wife together, giving them children to raise?  Each life has a purpose, each life is a gift.

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Thirteen is the age of rapid growing, the beginnings of manhood.  Long legs and arms, his voice cracking and deepening.  But still so much the child remains.

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Some of David’s quotable quotes:

“I really don’t like j’s.  Why can’t they all just be g’s?”

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“is it Monet or Monae?”

“It’s Monet.”

“YES!!  I love silent t’s.”

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“I feel like I just had a genius idea.  But I forgot what it was.”

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“I dreamt that I was grown up and I was skydiving……I was probably smiling in my sleep.  And then Santa skydived.”

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“There is not a SINGLE movie where love isn’t involved.”

“Love is a wonderful thing, Dave.”

“NOT when it keeps happening.”

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Home is where we wrap the presents, secretly in the other room, at the last minute.

Letting little sister help.

Leaving them in a stack for the birthday boy to find.

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Home is an empty couch filled with pillows one minute, full of boys the next.

Home is the sound of guesses, ripping wrapping paper, and surprises.

Shamrock fiesta mugs and nerf guns.

batman and superman

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The wonder of a tiny microscope, books, legos, and a 2 dollar bill.

“I don’t think I’ll ever be able to spend this!”

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“Why did you put tape?…….oh” … “Did you really put tape over every time it says that in the book?  I bet you forgot at least one.”

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Home is cherishing every moment.

And eating cheesecake.

It might even be homemade (it’s not).

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAVID LLOYD, you are a wonderful son.  I love you so much.