recovering!

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Good morning!  I was awakened this morning by Jacob knocking at my door at 6:21 in the morning because I had promised to write him a check for seventy dollars for the prom.  As soon as I stood up, the all too familiar chills and flu headache appeared.  I wrote the check and tortured myself by stumbling back to bed even though I knew I couldn’t sleep anymore…I had to wake up Seth and Caleb.

So here it is several hours later.  The smell of roasting chicken is in the air, as I am getting a head start on dinner later which will be Chicken Divan.  Little Sarah is pattering about upstairs getting dressed.

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I was sick an entire week and indeed, I am not yet quite well.

However, God is to be praised and glorified because He delights in caring for His precious children and I felt his love so much over the last week.  Rich had a business trip from Tuesday to Thursday and I was so sick I had to send out a distress call over Facebook.  My friends came through for me in such generous ways!  By eight that morning four of the children were taken away……Caleb and Seth to my friend Diana’s house, and Grace and Sarah to my friend Heather’s.  And each of these ladies had four children of their own at home, too, not to mention one year old baby boys.  Heather took the girls to the Science center and gave me a candle, card, and jelly beans (which I gave to Jacob to take with him to his track meet).  Diana had the boys spend the night and when she brought them back she also gave us dinner.  Which reminds me, I really need her bread recipe.

My friend Barb came over with essential oils and took the boys to their orthodontist appointment.  She bought me a box of tissues.

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I carry the baggie of oils around with me, they are so very therapeutic!  My sense of smell is returning!

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Last Monday for whatever reason I very dumbly decided to go for a walk with the children.  My only excuse is that I had taken three ibuprofen and felt that I was getting better (oh how I laugh now) …. anyway, the reason I went was because Grace came to me and said, “Mom, I thought I heard ducks but it was really frogs.  They’re back.”  Namely, Spring Fever.

The happy frogs were down by the rushing stream in a quieter tributary, laying eggs.  I’m not sure what type of frog they were, they were NOT the bullfrogs.  Once we were that far, we decided to keep on going and walk up the dam trail.

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David was jumping on the trampoline being unsociable and Ethan was at practice, so it was Jacob, Emily, Grace, Caleb, Seth, and Sarah.

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Jacob shot a tree with an air-soft gun (I know, this was bad of him) and we all ran over to taste the sap.  He looked around for a Maple tree but could not find one.

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It was a little cold for Sarah so Jacob and Emily left with her and Seth.  They also had bare feet and the grass was hurting them.  Grace, Caleb, and I continued to the old beaver pond in the woods to search out some more frog activity.

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We saw a new bird species as we entered the woods by a tiny stream.  We didn’t notice it at all until we were almost upon it, it was so well camouflaged. The pictures I took are truly pitiable.  If you lean in very close to the computer screen you can see it…a small bird about the size of a bantam hen, with an upturned tail, black eyes, and long beak.

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You may have to take my word for it.  It flew away reluctantly in three brief flights; the third one being the last attempt we made to “get a little closer”.  I looked it up later on and decided it was perhaps a Water Rail.

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We sat down by the beaver pond to watch the frogs.  Grace was right next to me.  She had bare feet and said, “What in the world is under my toes.”  It turned out to be a tiny tree frog.  Then, she climbed a tree and just as she settled in the branches she saw a red spider.   Nature loves Grace.

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Dear Caleb.  He proudly wears his waterproof boots.

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Eastern Skunk Cabbage blooms.  It really does smell like skunk…the kids call it stink weed.

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bright green moss on a boulder in the woods.

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Skunk cabbage growing through a leaf.

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Walking with boys ALWAYS involves a few battles with sticks.

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Heading home.  Caleb was our silent third party while Grace and I chatted and laughed all the while…….

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When I got home I decided to open the last bottle of blackberry/sage Kombucha.  It opened like a shot and Kombucha pulp sprayed all over the ceiling.  I had to walk around on the island with clorox wipes to clean it off.  If the cork wasn’t held on to the bottle by metal hardware I would be typing this blog post with only one eye.

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I never even drank it.  I could not taste it and couldn’t be sure that it wasn’t spoiled.  I’m sure it wasn’t, but after cleaning up all the pulp I lost my appetite for it.  It sure got fizzy, right?

After Monday I didn’t pick up my camera again for four days (this is impressive for me).    I did have my phone so I took a few pictures with it:

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I was in the cupboard trying to find something to snack on when Grace saw the word flu.  We had to laugh at the irony.

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Jacob and David, I’m so proud of these sons of mine.

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Caleb after a few days of neglecting to gather the eggs.

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The glorious sky on Friday which prompted me to touch the camera again.  The day was dark and gloomy until the very end when the sun came out briefly.  I love the dark sky and the sunshine trees.

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Snickers asleep on the porch.

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Seth playing football by himself.

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On Sunday I thought I saw the football down by the pond but then realized it was a Muskrat of all things.  It sat at the edge for a while, I think it was eating, sometimes the force of it’s digging made its long tail come out of the water.

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walking away

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Lastly, I took this picture of Rich reading to our youngest two last night before bed.

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I have two book recommendations for you, if you are interested.  The first is titled A Room with  View, written in 1908 by Edward Morgan Forster.  It’s a free download on the Kindle.  After you read it you can watch the lovely movie adaptation.

The second book is one that I am currently reading.  It was written by a Romanian Lutheran pastor who was imprisoned for 14 years of his life in different prisons because of his Christian belief.  It’s titled In God’s Underground and was written by Richard Wurmbrand and is a one dollar book on Kindle.  Here is a quote:

“The prison years did not seem too long for me, for I discovered, alone in my cell, that beyond belief and love there is a delight in God:  a deep and extraordinary ecstasy of happiness that is like nothing in this world.  And when I came out of jail I was like someone who comes down from a mountaintop where he has seen for miles around the peace and beauty of the countryside, and now returns to the plain.”

That’s not to say that he did not experience satanic temptations, torture, and deathly illness, because he did.  But in the midst of it all he experienced over and over again God’s amazing sustenance.  What a beautiful testimony this book is and I think EVERY Christian should read it to get yet another idea of how awesome God is, and what is available to us as believers.

Here is just one more quote and then I will close this post for the day.

“Words alone have never been able to say what man feels in the nearness of divinity.  Sometimes I was so filled with joy that I felt I would burst if I did not give it expression.  I remembered the words of Jesus, ‘Blessed are you when men come to hate you, when they exclude you from their company and reproach you and cast out your name as evil on account of the Son of Man.  Rejoice in that day and leap for joy!’   I told myself, ‘I’ve carried out only half this command.  I’ve rejoiced, but that is not enough.  Jesus clearly says that we must also leap.’

“When next the guard peered through the spy-hole, he saw me springing about my cell.”

Dance for Jesus today, my friends!  Rejoice and leap for joy!

greetings from the sick house

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Saturday.  Myriah’s last day with us.  Oh how we enjoyed having this beautiful girl stay with us during her spring break.  She fit right into the family…we had such fun.  My favorite memory of her visit was her genuine interest in our family photos.  We spent a cozy afternoon looking at hundreds of pictures together, she would take her phone out and take pictures of her favorites.

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Mitch brought Ethan home from baseball practice and the kids played some basketball together on the driveway.

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Sunday.  I was unfortunately coming down with the flu.  Remember how I wrote the other day about Grace being sick?  We took her to the docs again on Saturday and she was tested for flu and it was positive.  So that’s what we are dealing with here.  I have spent most of the last two days in bed.  Yesterday was  my personal first day of sickness and it wasn’t as bad as today has been….the weather was absolutely gorgeous so I ventured outside now and then.  I just had to see what the kids were up to.  Emily and Jacob were in their own little world in the canoe, determined to break up the last of the ice on the little pond.  I sat on the dock to watch and be amused.

Look who joined me after she woke up from her nap.

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She adores Emily and said to me, “Let’s just sit here and watch Emily until she gets back out of the boat.”  You know what else she did?  She asked me if she could make a wish with a rock.  I said no, only with a penny.  So when Emily did get back out of the boat, she gave Sarah a penny to throw in the pond to make a wish.  She wished for “a cat pet” of her own.  She is still wondering today when it will come true.

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Soon Ethan appeared.  He got his first phone on Saturday…. a rite of passage for today’s teen.

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Emily and Jacob moved to the other pond for more canoeing.

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I was thrilled when Rich pointed out this butterfly to me.  It was glorious to see, I love how it looks like it is truly edged in gold….and those beautiful blue spots along the wings.  So masterfully designed in every way.

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Seth played catch with anyone he could possible get to play with him.  At one point we had five children all playing…I had to move back out of fear of getting hit by the ball.

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This morning was rough.  After a terrible night’s sleep I got up to get some tea and almost passed out.  I broke out in a cold sweat, turned white, and was sick to my stomach.  Rich was getting ready for work and I asked him if he could please stay home….the children are on spring break and I didn’t know how I could care for them properly.  He graciously agreed and was able to take the boys to practice, go to the store, he bought the little boys a whiffle ball set which kept them busy outside….although I am sick it has been a wonderful day.  The best part of being temporarily sick is the blessing of slowing down.  Looking around the room.  Listening to the conversations. Having people come in to visit me.  Having the dog lay on the floor next to my bed, faithfully.  The cat giving itself a bath at my feet.  Reading a book.

The picture is something Grace drew for me today, I asked her to add a verse and now it’s by my side of the bed on my nightstand.  Along with all my drinks and vaseline for my dry lips.

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There is the nicest cat curled up at the end of the bed.

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Jacob is making dinner tonight; maple salmon and broccoli.  It smells so good.  The windows in my bedroom are all open for nice cool air.  The children have run wild today and it’s been so good for them to spend most of the day outside.  Seth crashed about half an hour ago on the couch, he’s sound asleep at Ethan’s feet.

Ethan’s getting sick now, poor boy.

spring table

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Monday was my sister’s birthday and we met each other and some friends for lunch.

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After lunch I took her home and she gave me a birthday gift (which was last month…we hadn’t seen each other).  I opened the package to find beautiful April Cornell napkins and a tablecloth.  It’s funny because I had already eyed these things at one of our mutual favorite shops (Marshalls).

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The colors match my much-loved Fiestaware.

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And it’s perfect for spring!

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“I like to think my domestic style is a statement of my ultimate aspiration to create a welcoming, lived-in, loved, used and abused space for living.”  Jane Brocket

seth falls in pond

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Sixteen year old Ethan was recovering from pneumonia and had spent four days on the couch.  On the fifth day, he was finally feeling healthy enough to walk down the hilly front yard to the pond with his fishing pole.  As he sat in the bright sunshine, dressed warmly and wearing his straw hat, his little brother Seth played next to him.  Both boys were on the dock when I walked down with my camera, and their little sister Sarah was playing nearby, too.  She was wearing a warm coat, but was barefoot.  Seth had already dropped his jacket on the ground and was happily pretending to fish with a long, thin stick, wearing a pair of jeans and a thin t-shirt.

Ethan situated himself at the end of the long wooden dock with his feet dangling over the deep green water, and I moved away to the side of the pond in order to take a photo of him.  He looked like the quintessential country boy and I was pleased that he was feeling well enough to be outdoors.  The ice had just melted off the pond a week before and the beautiful water looked irresistible to the young fishermen.

Seth decided to leave the dock and take his “fishing pole” to a large, slopping rock.  He was now perfectly placed between Ethan and myself.  He squatted down with his little bare feet, in order to drop the end of his stick into the water.

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I took another picture or two and all was well.  What a lovely moment of a beautiful day.  I began to smile and dream about sitting down and putting my feet up.

Just then, we heard a quick sliding and a splash.  Ethan and I both turned to look and realized immediately that Seth had lost his footing and slipped into the deep water.  We hesitated for a second, it had happened so fast and we wondered if he could simply touch bottom and pull himself out.  Our boy Seth’s eyes were huge as he gasped.  His little hands were paddling the water as fast as they could go.  Ethan I both realized at once that he needed help.  We ran to the edge and Ethan stepped into the water and leaned over to offer his arm to Seth.  I had my long scarf in my hands to use, as well.

Seth was entirely submerged in freezing water, with only his head above it.  The look on his face was so sad, he looked scared to death (a look I never see on his face no matter what dangerous thing he’s doing…..it is usually a look of great delight).  He made pitiful distress noises as he grabbed Ethan’s arm and allowed himself to be pulled up and out.

“Seth, Seth! Run up to the house and dry off!  You need different clothes on!”

I took his hand and together we ran to the house.  I think he was in shock because he started to cry about his shirt and saying it would “dry in the sun”.

We ran through the front door and up the stairs.   I took his soaked clothes off as quickly as I could and wrapped him in two towels.  His teeth were chattering but he wanted to know what was wrong.  Why didn’t he go anywhere while his arms were swimming so fast in the water?  Why couldn’t he swim when “he was five now”?  It was mind boggling to him.

“I’m never going on that rock again!”

In utter relief that he was okay, I got the giggles as I worked his dry clothes onto him.

“Mom, why do you keep laughing?”

(Why indeed?)

“I’m just so happy you’re okay!”

“I’m glad I’m okay, too.  I don’t want to die.  I wonder what it will feel like to die.”

“I should have taken a picture of you in the water,” I teased.

“NO YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE!”

It took me two hours to recover from it all….as I imagined what would have happened if we were not right there when he fell into the water that was so very deep and over his head.  I have to believe it was all for the best.  Seth lives adventurously (recklessly) so I am of the opinion that God allowed this to happen to teach him an important lesson.   A little fear would do him good.

Every spring I make a note of the first child to go swimming in the pond.  Today marks The Day and for the first time Seth gets the honor:  April 10, 2014.  He said the water “was cold”.

As for Ethan,  after catching nothing but his brother from the pond, he went back inside the warm and quiet house.  He took off his hat and pulled his boots off,  letting them hit the floor.  I warmed up the corn bag and gave it to him, and he drifted off back to sleep on the couch.

We were only outside for 20 minutes.

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(the rescuer, sleeping with the warm cornbag on his chest)