today (so far)

It’s sunny but very cold and windy.

David had speech therapy this morning and I got the giggles. . .again.

Ethan called “pepto bismol”. . .Pepto Dismal. . .

I keep hearing the boys rattle and shoot their guns that they got from my parents this weekend.

David played with blocks by himself upstairs and I could hear him singing, “Bob the Builder” to himself.

The dog stole Caleb’s cheese stick, and Caleb said, “HE. took. my. CHEESE. STICK!!”  (why is my baby talking??)

David found his tooth that the tooth fairy accidently left on the washing machine and now it’s right back under his pillow.

My sister called and we are going to start sewing together. (she just got her first sewing machine)

I’m sleepy and I want to take a nap.

The house is a mess.

I just took these pictures:

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How’s your day going?

 

with 2 edits (so far). . . .

I was inspired by cerwindoris this week to get my speedlight out again.  I’ve been scared of it.  You see, I am not the type of person who feels comfortable with electronics. . .(is a speedlight an electronic?). . .whenever I have a piece of new equipment like my camera or the speedlight, my hands start to shake and I have the manual out and I have to do everything just so, feeling all the while like I’m certainly NOT doing it right.  I get all worked up about it.  So the speedlight was used ONE time and then back in the box in went until today!

So thanks, Doris, for the little push that you didn’t even know you gave me!

Here are the pictures I took with it this morning:

I interrupted their Bible reading to take this one.  As you can see, our map has been covered up by my china cabinet.  I keep meaning to take it down. . .  There is still a Christmas wreath up behind Jacob, too.  I like it there.  Rich did the curtain rods for me as a surprise last year when I was away for a weekend (I think it’s time for another weekend getaway, btw)

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And here is David with no shirt, and Caleb is next to him.  They are playing a veggietales computer game in my room.  You can see a mug from yesterday’s tea, a ponytail holder from me taking out my hair.  See the small calender?  The picture above it is a picture of me at about 4 years old, and I am holding a cat.  I love looking at little me. . .I’ve always liked kitties.  The quilt you see in the bottom right hand corner is something Rich’s Grandma made.  I use it to cover the printer.

(oh my –at this moment, rain is coming down HARD, dark clouds are blowing across the sky and I can hear blustery wind. . .)

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Here is a picture of part of our bedroom:

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I wanted to show Aunt Mary the wall hanging that I bought at her party a while ago.  We hung it up over my dresser.  It’s supposed to have a pillar candle in it, but instead I put these in:

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This picture is for roseteacup.  When I was feeling bad a few weeks ago, she encouraged me to do something creative.  I had some bulbs that I never got in the ground this fall, and they were beginning to sprout in the package.  I had Jacob go in the woods to get me some nice dirt (it was the week of our Jan. thaw) and planted some in containers.  Now, I get to watch them grow.  I wish I could tell you what these are, I think they are crocus.  I also planted mini-daffodils and tulips.

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Last but not least, a picture of me and Grace.  I think her ripped out jeans are so so so so cute!

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I’m pretty blah today.  I actually spent some time this morning in tears. . .I’m stressed out with my duties.  I cannot understand how women homeschool multiple children, along with being mommy to preschoolers.  I feel very very overwhelmed.  Lately I haven’t been able to enjoy making dinners, the past 2 days we’ve had pasta w/hamburger spaghetti sauce.  The dinner dishes are always left in the sink over night.  The dishwasher is constantly running, or waiting to be emptied.  There is always laundry going.  I went through the motions this morning, getting more and more stressed out.  I cannot let the house go, I have to have it halfway decent. . . .so I spend time cleaning only to have it messy again and again.  Yes, the kids help but I’m in charge, ya know? Is this the constant lament of the homeschooling mother?  I was making the kids their little game cards for their “Africa” geography game this morning, feeling actual ANGER that I didn’t even know how to pronounce most of the countries!  How am I supposed to know?  I frankly don’t even want to know!  I’ve managed to survive the first 31 years of my life without knowing all the countries in Africa!!!!!

I have sick kids this week, too.  Caleb woke up this morning with a fever and runny nose. . it’s the same thing that Jacob and Ethan are getting over.  But that’s the life of a mother. . .we’re nurse and housecleaner and cook and and and and. . . . .

I was standing by the kitchen table earlier, ready to blow, just standing and staring. .frozen, when all of a sudden the phone rang.  It was my friend Kathy. . . . .

boy did she get an earful!  It’s nice to have a friend that can listen to it all. . and that was just what I needed, to talk it out.

So.  We’ve done half a day of school and now is lunch time.  After lunch we will finish school.  The kids are thrilled because they read in my teacher’s manual that we get to make animals out of dough!!!!!!!!  We have NO DOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I can’t dash their hopes so I will be making the dough.  HURRAY!  Another pot to wash!  LOL  To say nothing of the dough animals.  They’ll be hanging around for a few days, only to be tossed in the garbage.

I could go on but I won’t. . .

 

I need to spend a long time on my knees today. . . . .

 

EDIT–just want to say that the sun came out!  I was so happy I yelled “look out the window!!”. . .also, I d
ecided to have some fun at some point today filling out my valentines.  My party is Saturday!

 

Edit #2– Friends, I just had something so sweet happened!  I just went to get the mail and there was a card for “Grace and Family” from a strange address.  I could not believe my eyes when she opened the card!  A few years ago, when we sold our previous home, we also had a litter of kittens we were desperately trying to find homes for.  Grace was 6 at the time, and helped give one away.  Listen to this card:

“Dear Grace and family,

I’m not sure if you remember me but I was a real estate appraiser that came to your home in 2006.  I remember Grace as an amazing and persuasive child who made sure I took home a kitten named ‘Daisy’.  We renamed her in honor of Grace and my daughter’s middle name.  This beautiful feline has blessed our family in so many ways.  My husband became gravely ill shortly after we met and that little kitten has been such a wonderful cuddle shoulder for my kids.  We are all well now but I did want to thank you and let you know what an impact that day had on our family.  God bless.”

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Amazing Grace!

 

getting excited about the little things

 

Jacob had a powerful hunger yesterday.

I took pity on him, and

so we made some cake and cookies.

I kept bumping into children every which way I turned.

It was fun.

David helped crack an egg into a bowl and when he finally got it open,

(“Put your two thumbs in, and open it like a door!” I always say)

He said in his dramatic way, “YUCK!!!   This one’s covered in egg juice!”

Jacob and I laughed and laughed.

As we mixed up the cake, I had the dishwasher running.

Soon, millions of soap suds started oozing onto the floor.

Someone ran to get a towel.

Jacob dropped down on the floor to play “fight the soapsuds”.

All in a day’s work, right?

I had Jacob beside me, and David standing on a big heavy kitchen chair,

and Caleb in his high chair.  Grace and Ethan came and went.

We were all busy in the kitchen and it did not take long to mix up that cake!

Caleb got to lick and beater and boy, did he enjoy it

I found myself standing and watching him,

with a smile on my face.

So, I had to run get the camera.  As I took his pictures,

I realized I was enjoying it just as much as he was.

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“Get excited about the little things.  The big things don’t come along that often.  Enjoy the beauty of the day, the perfectness of God’s creation.  Take pleasure in each little accomplishment; there are many each day.  A letter well written, a clean, shining room, a beautiful casserole, a lesson well taught, a sale completed.  There is a wall motto that says, ‘Take time to smell the flowers.’  I guess that is what I am trying to say.” 

~ quote from a little booklet Colleen gave me called “Claire’s Corner” by Claire Killman, April 1979

 

sledding

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outside for hours

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a cold wind, they don’t even notice

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non stop smiles

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will their faces hurt from the chilly air or all the grinning?

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lost the sled

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my heart warms with pride as I watch them together, a perfect threesome

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off to their other “sled run”

they begged me to come, but I had to get back inside to the littles

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one last look back

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this is what a I love about my life

I get to be a recorder of memories

 

Christmas magic, "Good-by, Sweet Day"

To a child, there is nothing quite like the night before Christmas.  My oldest son, Jacob, said emphatically to me on Christmas Eve, “I am NOT going to be able to sleep tonight.”  I remember feeling that same way when I was a child. 

So, was Christmas as magical for me this year?  I must admit, I was not feeling very well.  I’m getting over a cold that “wiped” me right out.  However, as Rich and I finally finished up the Christmas preparations on Christmas Eve, and started gently and carefully placing the gifts “just so” under the tree, I found myself smiling and getting excited.   I put pretty shiny bows on everything and after we were done, the tree, with all the gifts around and under it, looked so beautiful.  One of the things I love about my husband is the way he enjoys making Christmas special for the children.  He is very generous, and wants them all to be thrilled when they get up on Christmas morning.  Spending time with him in our living room, preparing for the next day, made me so happy, and I did actually have a hard time getting to sleep that night!  I couldn’t wait to see Jacob’s face when he opened his castle, or Ethan opening his guitar, or Grace with her new cash register.  And, who can forget my busy little Davy-do?  He would get to open his very own tool box, complete with tools, and a pile of wood, just for him.  Little Caleb only needs “choo-choo’s” to make him happy, and there were four for him under the tree.

The next morning, at 5:20, Jacob and Ethan woke us up as they came downstairs.  Rich went out and wished them a “Merry Christmas” and sent them right back to bed for just one more hour.  An “eternity” to two excited little boys.  Eventually the time came for us, the parents, to get out of bed and call down our wide-awake little ones.  Grace, Jacob, and Ethan came downstairs and sat on the couch to talk to each other about what they could see, and held their stockings in their laps.  Rich and I made some coffee and sipped it from red and green fiesta mugs.

At 6:45, Rich went upstairs to wake up David and Caleb.   We couldn’t believe that they “slept in” on the most exciting morning of the year!  David came out of his room half asleep and scowling, but soon the scowl turned to a smile when he realized that Christmas was finally here!

It was so fun to watch them open their gifts, to see their eyes light up and hear the excitement in their voices.  Caleb took all of his gifts to his Daddy to open, and he just loved all his new trains.  I just kept taking pictures and thinking, “Enjoy it.  Enjoy it.  Christmas won’t be like this forever.”  Like my header says, “These Truly are the Wonder Years”. . .yes, they are, and it’s the wonder of seeing the world, and the moments we have together, through the eyes of a child.  One of the best parts of parenting, is getting to experience the early years all over again, watching our children enjoy their childhood, and remembering our own.

This Christmas, the children played non stop all day long.  They loved the castle most of all.  We bought it for Jacob, but told him that it was for them all to play with.  David loved his tools and I laughed so much to see him wearing the big safety goggles as he hammered away.  You have already seen the photos of lil’ Woody and lil’ Buzz.  How cute they were in their costumes!  Rich would say, “Hi, Woody!!” and Caleb would say, “NO!  I CAY-YUB!” in his little voice. . .so dear and sweet.

Rich started picking up the wrapping paper just as soon as it was all over but I begged him to leave it as it was for a while.  Once the papers and bows are gathered up to throw away, the morning would seem so final.  I wanted to enjoy the mess for a change.

Rich surprised me with a few more gifts — some Godiva chocolates (my favorite), two pairs of black gloves (he couldn’t decide so he bought both), and a tripod for my camera. 

The day was a happy one, I loved this Christmas.

Our house, on Christmas Eve.  I went for a walk….the ice on the ponds was so pretty.

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Our five, in new jammies, on Christmas Eve.  My heart skips a beat when I see this photo.  David is getting taller!  He’s almost as tall as Grace!  How did that happen?  Grace has a new nightgown on, and she has her Bitty Baby doll, who has a nightgown just like her “mommy”.

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Christmas morning, I like how Rich and I are reflected in the window.  (We’re standing in the kitchen.)

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Christmas morning coffee

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Davy-do’s smile when he sees the tree and all the presents.

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Our firstborn, emptying his stocking, and finding a grenade!

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Did anyone else run out of wrapping paper?  I did, but Caleb was so happy to see the Thomas rug, which was one of his gifts.  He loves pushing his trains around on it.

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The boys busy getting their toys out of the boxes.  It’s not easy.  They had me help now and then.  Rich is in the background, with Caleb in his lap.

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Caleb, dressed up in his Woody costume, looking at his new Thomas book.

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Ethan was thrilled with his new guitar and unwrapped the big box so excitedly.  It’s one of my favorite moments of the entire day, seeing him tear the paper off and throw it behind him, smiling so big!

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The most beautiful mess of all. . .the papers and bows from unwrapped Christmas gifts.

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Little David, busy making “an airplane” with his new wood, hammer, and nails.

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David joining his little brother for some choo-choo play.

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Setting up the castle.  I love their bright, happy faces.

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In this photo, the children are all opening cards from their Uncle David.  Look at Grace’s face.  They each got 15 dollars.  They acted like it was a million.  Well, except for Caleb.  He threw his card and slid down to the floor, back to his trains.

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Rich is home all this week, taking a much needed vacation.  I am still so very tired from this cold. . .in fact, this morning I went back to bed at 9am!  I’ve been just sort of hanging around, doing a little here, a little there, trying to avoid all heavy work, LOL.  Rich has been doing most of the kitchen work, either that or making the children do it!  He even scrubbed the bathroom shower stall this morning!  I asked him, teasingly, if he was going to potty train Caleb, too, during his vacation, but he said no.  Today we had to go to the grocery store, but other than that we’ve been pretty low-key all week long.  I can’t believe that tomorrow is Friday already.  Caleb has my sickness now, and is absolutely miserable.  Grace says she’s feeling funny, too.  We were planning on driving to NY this weekend but all signs say “NO” at this point. . .

And, yes, I’ve been enjoying my new piano so very much.  I’m able to play everything that I could play before (it’s been 8 years since I last played) and it’s so so good to do it again.

Thank you all for your kindness to me here, and your friendship.  I had a box come from a dear xanga friend in Alaska, with lovely gifts inside, and several Christmas cards from some of you!  I just shake my head in wonder, and in awe over the way God has blessed us with such sweet Christian fellowship, in which we can be so close, and even love, our sisters in Christ whom we have never seen face to face!  I just love that!  We truly have a wonderful heavenly Father. . . . .

Merry Christmas once again to you all!  I’ll leave you with a dear little poem I read today. 

“Good-by, Sweet Day”

Good-by, sweet day, good-by!
I have so loved thee, but I cannot keep thee.
Departing like a dream, the shadows fold thee;
Slowly thy perfect beauty fades away.
Good-by, sweet day!

Good-by, sweet day, good-by!
Dear were thy golden hours of tranquil splendor;
Sadly thou yieldest to the evening tender,
Who wert so fair from thy first morning ray;
Good-by, sweet day!

Good-by, sweet day, good-by!
Thy glow and charm, thy smiles and tones and glances
Vanish at last, and solemn night advances;
Ah, couldst thou yet a little longer stay!
Good-by, sweet day!

Good-by, sweet day, good-by!
All thy rich gifts my grateful heart remembers,
The while I watch thy sunset’s smoldering embers
Die in the west beneath the twilight gray.
Good-by, sweet day!

~Celia Thaxter

 

Hello from a snowy house in a snowy state

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I just saw two people on a snow mobile go speeding down the road. 

As I sit at my desk, I can see a gray sky and snow falling, swirling, and blowing down.  Church was canceled because of the snow storm, which is a very rare thing indeed.  We are taking advantage of the cozy morning together.  I got up this morning and made homemade biscuits and fried eggs.  Jacob made the bacon.  After everyone was fed, Jacob and Ethan went outside.  They have enough snow piled up from shoveling the driveway that they have made a fort.  Even the dog goes in with them and digs, digs, digs.  Ethan said, “Mom!!  It’s cold out here, but when we go in our hut, it’s WARM!”  They go in, wait a while, and then go back out to “take care of the animals”.  (pretend animals). . . . . .

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I went outside briefly to watch them play and to fill up my birdfeeder.  The snow is half way up to my knees, light and grainy, and it is very windy and cold out there.  I wasn’t even tempted to go for a walk.

When I came back in, David and Caleb were sitting on the counter, playing in the flour canister, making a big floury mess.  I should have known they would get into mischief while I was out.

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I had fun playing around with my camera until the battery ran out.  The children were all busy playing their new favorite game, “button store”.  They pay for them with bottle caps.  Rich and I sat and watched the action. . . . .

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action!

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the “Buy 1 Get 1 Free” sale!

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Ethan was the store keeper

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Our little cat, Patches, has a new favorite place to sleep; in the dirty clothes on top of the washer.  You should see how she vibrates when the washer is in the spin cycle!  It’s so funny.

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Now, my husband is sleeping in his big recliner and Jacob is begging his siblings to go outside with him.  No one wants to.

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We’re cozy.  How are you doing today?

How’s the weather where you are?

Have a blessed day!

 

December memories, thus far. . . . .

(from the notes I’ve been taking during the day)

-finally finishing the CS lewis biography that I’ve been reading for weeks

-Caleb with his “baby”–Tiger–holding and carrying him around

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-Caleb looking at his Thomas book

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-walking away from the stress of putting together the gingerbread house, only to discover that they could do it just fine without me

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-the dog following me outside, happy, as I decorated the porch and filled the bird freeder.

-the flock of bluebirds I saw on Dec. 6

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-kids making tents in the livingroom and kitchen (remember doing that?)

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-kids ice skating during the day, and at night with Rich, using the headlights from the truck to see

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-all of a sudden being homesick for mom and dad

-the huge mess we made making cookies together

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“Blend equal parts of Faith and Hope mixed well with Charity;
Stir in Good Will and Sweet Content and Precious Memory.
Add Kindness, Helpfulness and Joy; of Gratitude don’t spare;
Then drop by drop Love’s Essence sweet, and Praises freely share.
And don’t forget such spices rare as Laughter, Smiles and Fun,
Taste often for the best results, (‘Tis sweet to mince upon).
Now add a
Thankful Heart and then, the recipe’s complete,
Your ‘Merry Christmas’ all will like … so try the season’s treat.”

–Esther Lloyd Dauber (“Special Treat”)

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-going Christmas shopping with Ethan, Grace, and Caleb

-Ethan holding the door open for an older lady who stopped in her tracks to praise him

-the funny thing Jacob said after eating a grapefruit, “Wow, Mom!  This grapefruit is like sledding!  It’s gone faster than it took to get ready for it!”

-standing in the bathroom one night, tired, yet content as I dried Grace’s hair and then braided it so it would be curly in the morning (always thinking of my mom, when she used to do the same for little me)

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-reading Christmas books to the kids

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-David making “hmmm” noices every time I read something that impresses him.  (he doesn’t even know he does it)

-Caleb in his striped footie pj’s

-Rich loving my Christmas cookies (jam thumbprints and raspberry bars, so far)

-quiet lazy mornings

-feeing so sentimental. . .tears come so easily these days

-wrapping gifts (can’t ever keep track of the tape!)

-watching the martha stewart show every day

-making glittery pinecones all by myself, and feeling so content with the children just sitting around me, watching, and talking my ear off.  I used to do the same thing to my mom when she was busy in the kitchen–perch on the counter and talk and talk . . . . . .

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-drinking homemade hot chocolate

-decorating the trees

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-Jacob dangling his army men from hooks to make ornaments

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-the wonder on Caleb’s face

-hearing him say “Christmas tree” for the very first time

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-the non stop motion

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-fleeing the house for a walk one morning, calling behind me to the kids, “behave yourselves and put in a video for David and Caleb”

-completely enjoying my little walk and the beauty of God’s creation

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“Let us remember that the Christmas heart is a giving heart, a wide open heart that thinks of others first. The birth of the baby Jesus stands as the most significant event in all history, because it has meant the pouring into a sick world of the healing medicine of love which has transformed all manner of hearts for almost two thousand years… Underneath all the bulging bundles is this beating Christmas heart.” — George Matthew Adams

 

Good Afternoon

I just got the kids in bed.  Every day the older ones read in bed for an hour or two so that I can have some quiet.  David basically rolls around in my bed and sometimes sleeps.  Right now he is burping.  (don’t ask, it’s a “talent” that he has discovered) Caleb is the only one who actually still sleeps every day.

Anyway, I enjoyed reading what was left for me after my last post.  So many comforting words, and so many who understand a bluesie sort of day.  Thank you.  I still feel on edge today, but not as bad as yesterday, thankfully.

This morning I had to get outside.  The kids were all watching a morning show on TV so I took my cup of hot (instant again, though–we ran out–) coffee and went outside for a quick walk up the road and back. . was only out for about 10 minutes. . the wind was whipping around the trees, I half expected to see some branches fly off .  I noticed some chickadees on the neighbor’s bird-feeder. . a whole group of them.  Such cheerful birds.

Guess what else I saw?  The kids showed this to me! 

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A dead fish on the porch!  We think Patches caught it.  Oh, how I would love to see her do it again!  Do you remember the post I did this summer, with pictures of her catching a frog?  Never did I dream of a cat leaving a fish on my front porch!   How in the world did she do it?  Then she had to carry it up to the porch in her mouth!  That is one funny cat!

After my little walk, I went inside and made the kids all come out with me.  I grabbed my camera, too.

Grace was so sweet, still in her robe, she was so protective of Caleb. . .kept her eye on him the whole time we were outside.  By the way, Caleb’s sweater is handmade by my late Great Grandmother.  She made it for Jacob and all the boys have worn it.  It zips up the back.

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Here is Jacob.  He and Ethan were busy forming little islands–they made a “Little Bahamas”, a “Little Jamaica” and a “Little Tobago”.  (all that geography is paying off!)

Later on, when we were back inside I told Jacob that I loved seeing them make their pretend islands.  He immediately said very seriously, “NO, they aren’t pretend, Mom!  They’re REAL, they are REAL little islands.” 

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Grace said, “Isn’t this nice?  It’s like being at the beach!”

(ummmmm, it was a stretch for MY imagination, but I thought she was cute)

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My little mother’s helper, finding rocks for Caleb to throw.  I like how the boys are on the other side of the pond.  They are all in the picture.

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They saw something in the pond, David makes me laugh in this one:

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They waved me over to see, (“MOM!! Come ON MOM!!”). . . . it was “two big catfish”.

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Can you see them?  Ethan wished he had a fishing pole.

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The sky was so lovely

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This is the view from my porch.  I love watching the sky.  Right now, as I type, it is robin’s egg blue, with some fluffy gray clouds.  Every once in a while, the sun comes out.

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After I took the above photo, I looked at Parker and took one of him, too.  He had his eye on me!

Woof, Woof.  (Yes, David, I did let him eat that candy apple.   He made a mess with it. )

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The rest of the morning was spent on schoolwork, laundry, cleaning, giving the littles a bath, talking on the phone with Joanna (we usually have a big marathon conversation about once a month to catch up) and then my friend Kathy called me, I ate a piece of cheesecake. . . . .  . . .it’s been a nice day.

Happy 7th Birthday to my niece, Abigail!  She is my sister’s oldest child and I am so blessed that they live nearby.  She is the closest thing Grace has to a sister.  Lots of times, when people comment on Grace being the only girl, I mention Abbie. . and I say, “Well, she does have a cousin who is just a year younger than she is!”  They are like two peas in a pod.

This picture was taken on Thanksgiving day of Grace and Abbie.  Are they sweet or what?

 

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Have a wonderful afternoon, all!

 

this that and the other

Somehow half the day has flown by rapidly.  I just came downstairs after reading (about Bible customs, very fascinating) and waiting for David and Caleb to fall asleep.  We have had sleeping issues with them lately so they have to be watched closely. . .it gave me an excuse to sit still for a while, anyway!  I’m thankful for the big comfy chair right outside their bedroom, that’s for sure!

I have a few more photos to share with you.  On Friday, before my parents left to go back home, my mom and I went for a little walk around our property.  I took some little clippers with me to cut some red berries.  It was so frigid outside that we didn’t stay out for very long.  Still, it was nice to get some fresh air and to give the children a chance to show Grandma all their favorite spots around the yard and stream.

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Remember that the most beautiful things in the world are the

most “useless”;

 peacocks and lilies for instance.  ~John Ruskin, The Stones of Venice, 1851

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I brought the berries inside to add some color and decoration to the livingroom.  I love bringing the outdoors in.

After our walk, Jacob and my Dad got out their instruments again for one last practice.  Their song sounds very nice!  It’s so special to listen to them play together and they are making lasting memories as well.  I know Jacob will never forget playing with his Grandpa.  And soon Ethan will be able to join them.

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Play the music, not the instrument.  ~Author Unknown

Music is the art which is most nigh to tears and memory.  ~Oscar Wilde

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That brings us to this morning.  Our dumb dog has been barking in the night so my poor husband was exhausted this morning. . .I left him alone so he could sleep and you all know what I do when I’m free!  Take pictures, of course!  This morning I was keeping my eye on my littlest munchkin, Caleb, who was wearing new pajamas which, by the looks of them, will not last long!

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A hundred hearts would be too few

To carry all my love for you.

~Author Unknown

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They were all watching a Saturday morning cartoon.  Or was it a Thomas video?  I don’t know . . . .

Here is Grace, still wearing her snow suit (she and Ethan went outside first thing this morning). 

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Parker stole someone’s candy apple off the kitchen counter.  He loved it.  (**sigh**)

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The children all enjoy our wood-pellet stove and there is usually one child perched on top when they watch tv.  Jacob and Ethan just got soft new robes.

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Last but not least, Davy-do with one of his typical wide-eyed expressions.

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For you see, each day I love you more

Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.

~Rosemonde Gerard

Rich and I went out shopping yesterday afternoon with the kids.  It wasn’t too bad, actually.  Ever since I went to NYC, Rich has been wanting to get me some proper sneakers (I got sore that day!) so he took matters in his own hands and picked them out for me.  I am not a sneaker girl, I would
much rather wear other types of footwear, so I let him decide.  They are white with pink and silver on them and they feel good on my feet.  (notice I do not focus on brand, but appearance, LOL, they were Nike) Hopefully they will help me avoid back and hip pain!  We bought the kids some things that they needed–pj’s, socks, mittens, boots, etc.  Thankfully some of the children can still use their things from last winter.  But last year’s gloves and mittens completely disappeared.  It’s amazing!

This morning we let the kids watch some tv and then we all cleaned the house (again).  Rich just got back home with Jacob and Ethan, he returned some things to the library and ran some errands.  Now that cleaning is over and done with, he and the older 3 children are all sitting at the table, reading.  I asked husband to pick me out some books, which is risky but better than going myself –(for today anyway, I’m too tired)–he brought back 2 cookbooks that I’ve already looked at many many times and 2 biographies that I have not read but look interesting–one is about C.S. Lewis, and one is about John Wesley.  He did good!

By the way, the leftovers have been yummy! 

Hope all is well with you!

 

 

home. . . .home. . . . home. . . .

 “There’s no place like home, there’s no place like home”
~Dorothy, from The Wizard of Oz

What comes to mind when you think about HOME?

Perhaps it is not so much what we think of but how we feel:  relaxed, peaceful, calm, loved, secure, wanted, needed, protected, happy.  How do you feel when your are home?  Or at your childhood home?

We haven’t lived in this house for a year yet.  When we came home on Sunday from a week-long absence, we were so happy to be back.  When we opened the door to the house I thought , “ahhhhhhhhhhh, home at last”.  The smell was familiar, the sights were familiar.  Our relationship to this place was bumped from “still feels a little new”, to “isn’t nice to be back where we belong”.

Where else can we sit and read a note from a friend on our very own front porch, in our very own rocker, next to our very own little table that’s decorated with a jar of roses and a doily made by our very own Great Grandma?

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I read a delightful children’s book when we were away.  The book was about animals in nature and each chapter was themed.  In the chapter titled, “Home”, I read this quote:

“Whatever the plant or creature,
there is a certain place that suits it best,
a place where it feels a measure of
abundance, security, comfort, and familiarity.
Such a place becomes ‘Home’.”

and this one:

“Find yourself a home, make it the seat
of your affections, respect it,
cultivate it, appreciate it.  For in the spirit
of home do you find all that is good and
decent in life.  Homes build communities,
communities make nations, nations of
home-loving people make civilization!”
(Sam Campbell)

I truly believe that God is honored when people have the character to secure a home in order to have a safe place to go to for refreshment and rest, to have a place to raise a godly family or entertain dear friends.

In another book titled, Home-making, which was written in 1882 by J.R. Miller, I read this quote:

“The benediction that falls upon the homes
of a country is like the gentle rain that
descends among the hills.  A thousand springs are
fuller afterward, and along the banks of a
thousand streamlets flowing through the
valleys the grass is greener and the flowers pour
out richer fragrance.  Homes are the springs
among the hills, whose many streamlets,
uniting, form like great rivers society, the
community, the nation, the Church.  If the springs
run low the rivers waste;  if they pour out bounteous
currents the rivers are full.  If the springs are pure
the rivers are clear like crystal;  if they are foul
the rivers are defiled.  A curse upon homes sends
a poisoning blight everywhere; a blessing
brings healing and new life into every channel.  Homes
are the divinely ordained fountains of life.”

The more I think about it, the more I say, “Yes, home is the place for me to work, to dream, to play, to be with my husband and my children, my family and loved ones.”  God made family!  Does our home reflect His love, goodness, grace, forgiveness?   I want the flavor of my home to be Christ-like.

Every wise woman buildeth her house:
 but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
Proverbs 14:1

What sort of dreams and goals do you have for your home life?
What special things do you do as a couple to keep your relationship strong?
What about the children?  Do you have any traditions or fun times that are unique?
What sort of things do you like about your home? or anyone’s home?

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“Homes are the divinely ordained
fountains of life” ~ J.R. Miller