Seth and Sarah in the field

We hadn’t seen our friends Matt and Laura in about four years.  What a delight to find them *just the very same* as they have always been. 

Let’s see, David  was a baby when it all began.  In fact, Matt came to see Davy in the hospital when he was born.  So, almost 9 years back.  How can that be possible? 

Matt (who was single at the time) started coming to our church and we began having him over for dinner once a week.  My sister was living with us and as part of the living arrangements, she made dinner one night…well, that one night became the night Matt came to our house.  He and Rich would go running, and then we would eat as a family.  This continued for several years even after Amanda (the weekly chef )  had her own apartment.  It’s pretty much a blur to me now, really…except little bits and pieces, it was mainly a nice time for Rich and Matt.  I do have old photos.  Of Matt on his birthday with the little ones standing around him at the table, with his cake.  Of us outside all together.  I remember the last time, before he moved away.  It hurt, as it always does, to see a friend moving on. 

The happy thing is, with friends, it always feels the same when you get back together again.

Matt’s not single anymore…he has married lovely Laura.  We’ve spent time with her before (Matt’s brought her for visits several other times) so she’s also an “old friend”.

Last Thursday, because they were back in the area visiting, they came for dinner.  And just like old times, the two men went running, talking together as they ran.  Laura and I didn’t talk as much because Laura attracts children like moths to a flame.  Like flies to honey.  Just like that.  They basically lined up to show her things.  I’m laughing just thinking about it.  After we saw the chickens and Davy catching a fish, we went for a walk to the field.  I gave up trying to keep up so while Laura and the children explored, I sat with Seth and Sarah.

“I want to pledge my undying devotion to you, sweet sister”

 

“And I shall seal this pledge with a small kiss.”

 

“She did not like my kiss and that makes me sadder than anything.”

“How about a hug, instead?”

“No.  She is also not enjoying the hug, as much as I am.”

“What to do, to gain her approval?”

“How about a pretty?”

He’s a smart one, that Seth.

Pretties for Sarah, the wild black eyed Susans, and Sarah loves them just as much as her Mama does.

“Oh yes, Mama needs one, too!  The two ladies I love the most will get pretties!”

He didn’t actually say these things.  But I can read his mind and none of these pictures are staged.

 

In the field, at dusk.

 

 

 

dresses

 

 

What do you say, ladies?  Good find?  Grace and I stopped by our favorite treasure-shop (thrift store) and I struck gold with two vintage Polly Flinders dresses for Sarah-dear.  The one in the first picture also came with a ruffled bandana (in the same yellow fabric), to tie on her head like a sunbonnet!

I hope you all are having a restful, fun Saturday.  Drop me a line to say hello, if you have the time. 

 

 

a short trip to Boston

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These are all pictures from our Boston trip on Friday.  We were there for about four hours; at the library and park while Rich attended a business meeting.  David never stopped trying to catch a pigeon.  The  children and I stood and watched two violinists play in the park.  Their sign said, “Help us eat tonight”, so we threw in a few dollars and *felt quite sorry for these poor young men who were obviously hungry*.   It was a beautiful-weather day, warm and sunny.  I was on edge/alert the entire time, trying to take care of my row of “ducklings”. 

Make Way for the Ducklings was written about/for Boston so I always think about that book while there.  It was a treat to see the ducks for that reason.

Then, a peaceful journey back home. Babies sleeping, radio playing, soft rain falling, and my arms around the driver in front of me…..

 

Grace’s flower garden

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It’s already been a fast and furious two weeks since Grace and I did this project.  We took a before picture to show just how neglected our garden was! 

We did a lot of weeding and Grace rearranged the rock border.  Then, we drove down to the grocery store because they were having a good deal on late-season annuals.  The two of us had such a good time choosing our favorites and then getting icy drinks at the McDonald’s drive-thru.

We left a couple of tall milkweed plants to grow against the house because we are looking forward to monarch butterfly season and they like to eat milkweed.  After we were done planting we surrounded the plants with nice fresh mulch.

The green bush in the middle is a lilac, which we planted two years ago.

Fluffy was one of the chickens that was killed this weekend.

Grace’s navy flower dress came from Target.  She looks very sweet in it, it suits her to a “T”.

Grace’s garden makes me happy every time I walk by it, (which is a lot).  So I say, buy the annuals to mix in with your perennials.  You will only have them for one season but they are well worth the time to put them in because they are food for the soul and a lovely greeting to anyone who may happen by. 

 

PS.  I just showed the boys the sad picture of dear departed Fluffy and I am happy to report that she is actually still alive and well.   They just told me.  “We still have Fluffy!  MOM!!!!!!” (oops) 

Caleb’s birthday party

 I’m sitting on my couch with Grace next to me.  Caleb and Seth are watching Max and Ruby and Sarah is toddling around with a little ball…she is a chatterbox and I love hearing her baby-talk. 

It’s just after 7.  I’ve been up since 6.  Rich left for work at 6:30.  He had all last week off and I never thought I would say this but I’m sort of glad he’s going to work today.  He’s exhausting!  Constantly on the go with things to do……he wore me out.  LOL  In a good way, but honestly I am tired and looking forward to a normal (please?) day home with the children.

The weather has been gorgeous here.  The sun is shining now and it promises to be another beautiful summer day.

We had a (comparatively small) heartbreak on Friday.  We were gone all day, in Boston.  While we were gone, the neighbor’s dog nosed up the the chicken’s little door and our poor girls had to face the monster.  Molly the dog killed two in the coop; Jacob found them.  (One of our roosters, Romeo, and one of our little hens, Pepper.)  The dog also ate (!!!) four of our other hens.  We have 10 hens left and two roosters.  After all that work on the fence, we wonder if we are creating a food bin for dogs and fox.  Rich nailed the chicken door shut and they now walk a plank up to their open window to lay eggs and roost at night.

Ethan had accidently let some chickens out that morning, before we left.  We were so relieved on Saturday morning, when three hens came back home, drenched (it had rained a lot).  Then, later on, Ethan thought he heard a chicken and found Margaret on the other side of the stream, sitting and making forlorn sounds.  The poor hen must have been terrified out of her mind to go across the stream.  They never go over there. 

Feathers were everywhere.  When I come across a clump, I pick them up and throw them into the bushes out of sight.  As I told Rich, “They are only chickens and I know this is just part of the experience but IT STILL HURTS.”  Especially because the children have loved and enjoyed them so much.  Jacob’s favorite, Red, the one who hatched out chicks last fall and was such a good mother, was one of the hens consumed by the dog and it hurt Jacob so much.  He refused to believe it was true and truly believed she would show up, until one last attempt was made to find her at the end of the day, Saturday.  He came back to the house in tears, “I didn’t find any.”  Rich talked to him for a while and promised we would order more chicks as soon as we could. 

The neighbors were gone this whole time (all weekend).  When they came home last night Rich went to talk to the man of the house, and it went really well.  He promised to keep the dog in the fence and he said if it ever happens again (please, no!) he will get rid of the dog.  It was amazing to know that he would choose keeping the peace with neighbors over his pet.  I am so touched by that.

 

So anyway.  Caleb’s birthday was Saturday.  It was a very happy day, with my sister and her family here, and also my brother Isaac.  Happy, that is, unless we let our minds wander to the sad destruction of six of our hens.  So I tried very hard to block out those bad thoughts!  Thanks, to those who saw my “pulse” here on xanga, and prayed for me.  It truly helped, as always.  So glad we can go to the Lord, with everything!

 

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This is Sarah, the way I saw her, when I was mixing together Caleb’s birthday cake Saturday morning.  She was at/under my feet as I stood at the mixer.  She had a little cracker and was putting it in and out of the muffin tin (in the open cupboard).  She had a scraper and was stirring.  She was cooking, too!  I didn’t even know it, until I said OOPS as I accidently flung a handful of flour out of the bowl and  ON HER HEAD!  LOL

Flour in the hair = just one of the many hazards of hanging around Mama, as she bakes.

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I doubled the yellow cake recipe and wondered if I needed a bigger mixing bowl.

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There was activity everywhere around me, and Caleb was enjoying some of his new toys.

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As the sheet cake and 24 cupcakes baked, we watched Caleb open his gifts.  (Although, they were actually in gift bags, as I have temporarily sworn off wrapping.  It’s just too much of a hassle in this stage of life.)

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The rest of the family got at our house at 10-10:30.

Sweet Naomi (she’s 5) adores baby Sarah.  She brought a little book to show her.

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This is my brother, Isaac. 

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There was a total of 15.

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I’m holding Seth, and Amanda is holding her son Weston.  They are a year apart in age.

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We spent lots of time outside in the sun.  The boys played frisbee and football.

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After playing around outside, we had lunch together; make your own sandwiches, potato salad, chips, fresh strawberries, pickles.

Then, it was time for cake!

 

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Caleb’s cake is a homemade yellow cake.  As it cooled, Isaac and I thinly sliced 2 pounds of strawberries, which I sprinkled sugar on and let sit on the counter.  When the cake was cool, I poked holes in it and dumped the strawberries and juice on top, and arranged them evenly.  Then, (this is the fun part), I beat a pint of heavy cream (sweetened with a touch of sugar) until it was nice and thick, which I spread over the cake like frosting.  I decorated the top with leftover strawberry slices.  Basically, a strawberry shortcake.  Yum!  It’s the perfect cake for a July 9th birthday.

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After serving cake and ice cream to 15 people (with help from Rich), it was finally time for me to sit down with a big piece of cake.  As I ate, I started to laugh.  It was such a typical Mama-moment……..

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The Mama, sitting alone, with the dirty table and a nursing baby, while eating her cake and ice cream.

Rich and Jason were cleaning the kitchen and Rich took the picture.

 

Happy Monday!

{this moment}

you are loved

 

A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.

If you’re inspired to do the same, leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see.

(Thank you to the gentle Amanda Soule, for the idea.)

we went to the beach today

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The sun was hot and burned brightly on our skin, especially the bottoms of our feet as we went back and forth from our shade tent, to the water.  One little boy saw the “water” for the first time, and by watching his older siblings, he knew just what to do, without fear of anything. 

Baby Sarah remembered the ocean experience from her first time, back in February, and reminded us once again that she does not LIKE the ocean.  She gripped my arms as I held her, with both her arms, each time the wave came up loudly at my feet.  Loudly, she protested on and on until her Papa finally got her to drift away to nap-land.

I was happy to see that the older children could still play; jumping waves, laughing, building sand walls, playing football and frisbee, throwing sand at each other…so many smiles, so many, made my heart sing to give them the gift of this day, at the ocean.  They didn’t want to leave.  They wanted to watch the sunset.  Their laid-back friendliness attracted other little children and there is one picture up there…I had taken several of the same shot….before I realized that the little boy in the group that I thought was Caleb, wasn’t, and Caleb was off by himself!

We left the house unaware that Davy had forgotten SHOES, so we had to stop on our way to buy him some sandals.  Imagine the feelings we had, when we discovered at the end of the day, that the new sandals had vanished.  He was meant to be shoeless (?)  So that’s how he ate his dinner at Ruby Tuesdays, journeying back and forth to the salad bar.  With bare feet.

As I sat (at brief intervals) in my own beach chair, I was grateful to read through five pages of my magazine that I had chosen for the time at the beach.  I truly was honored to look at all the specimens that came my way, as child after child brought me things to see.

Jacob forgot to apply sunscreen.  Oh wait.  No, he “couldn’t find it.”  How he missed all the busy applying amongst the other eight family members, I have no idea.  But, he came home with a sunburn.  Thankfully, he kept his shirt on all day so it’s not as bad as it could be.

As parents, Rich and I soak up experiences like this, just as we soaked up the hot sun today.  It was a great day, watching the children be themselves, the little people we love so much.  Our friends.  Jacob with the burn, Ethan who is everyone’s friend, Grace who calmly explains things to us, and has long hair, Davy who doesn’t wear shoes, Caleb who wants his birthday to be tomorrow (it’s the 9th), Seth who wasn’t afraid, and Sarah Joy, who was, and found comfort in her father’s arms.