I probably shouldn’t use the word “crap” to describe this photo because the other day we were standing in a little cafe and Sarah said, “I don’t know what to order, everything here is crap” (She said this because all she could see were sweets and pastries and nothing healthy. if it’s not healthy it’s crap, apparently).
Hello and good day to you my bloggy friends! I’m awake but very tired after a restless night. It was one of those nights when Rich and I unwisely plunged into a heavy discussion right as we got into bed and then hours later in the night, Seth woke us up with a headache and stomach ache. Rich is working from our island home from here on out (for the rest of our stay) so he was up very early with the birds this morning and then just as I was falling back to sleep after that, Seth came in my room. I might fall asleep as I type.
Rich is right next to me typing on his laptop and Grace is across the table on Pinterest. The therapy of Pinterest, I should say, as she is adding to our mutual private board entitled “I am Independent” which is for us as we are both nurturing types that tend to forget ourselves as we love everyone else, and have a hard time putting up bounderies when being sucked dry in unhealthy relationships. (hows that for a mouthful?) Easier said than done, because we are both loyal to a fault, as well. To all the independent women out there reading this, we want to be like you.

We took the children to DQ the other day. To save money since there were ten of us in all, I said, “Eat a sandwich at home first and we will go just for ice cream.” Still, we overtaxed the workers. The cashier laughed as she gave the order to the ice cream makers. “That’s a lot,” she explained.

They almost got our order correct. And it was super fun. My peanut butter sundae was divine.

We were walking home from the pool.

Home Sweet Home

Naturally, we brought some of the vast fiestaware collection from CT to GA.

This area gets the most use BY FAR. We have another living room upstairs but the TV is downstairs so we are always on top of each other here, it’s fun and heart-healthy to have the family pile-ups. We still need curtains for these windows.

The giant shell decoration on the stand is where we all put the shells and things we collect. The door to the right is the girls’ room.

I just love it here.

This is the back of our home. We own half this building. Our building-neighbors are named Cindy and Clay and we have all met them, they are very nice. The place is well- built and solid, and they assure me that they hear nothing from our side. They gave us a lovely card and a Target gift card when we moved in. They told Grace about an app she could put on her phone which tells you the names of the boats outside on the ocean.
In the photo you can see David upstairs on the porch and Jacob on the lawn below. David and Grace like to be on the upstairs porch and tend to listen to music, play the guitar, talk, read, or chat with their significant others on the ipad/iphone together. They are good friends.

a new friend

Ethan with his beach hair. Rich and I took him out for an ice cream one evening.

a good book

We took Jacob, Brittnee, and Ethan out for seafood the day they had to leave.






We are all such good pals.


Faith Chapel on the Island


I’m getting overwhelmed with blogging all these photos. But it must be done. 🙂

beautiful; it was the condensation on the windows that struck me…


Ethan took this one.

Jacob took this one.


While we were biking Rich stopped to read this little plaque tucked up on a tree branch.
“Kahlua
This area was a favorite of an amazing little dog. May you experience an unconditional love while here.
I’ll love you forever, Baby Girl”


Lunch at The Pantry over at the Jekyll Island Club.

Photography by Seth

my friend

I loved these jars (in The Pantry) I’ll be keeping an eye out for them while browsing antique stores in the area.

back at home…….our Jekyll home…..I miss my cats so I started a little cat knick-knack collection. The tails get me. The set of four (a litter) on the right have real bells upon their necks. And silly faces.

whimsical turtles (the red shell opens up!) I want to hide notes in there. Today I will. It will say “Happy Birthday Caleb” on it……I wonder if anyone will find it?

Naturally, Jacob being a friend to all and an extrovert, we had our first company while he was with us; his friend Alec from work in CT who now lives in FL along with his girlfriend Alex. I took this photo as they were coming back from the pool.

Everyone needs a Life Is Good shirt!!!! My biggest and my littlest (sons).

Life is Good shirt for G
Its the arm that gets me, and those faces, and they way they were talking to each other in the long long line for BBQ.

my heart!
Grace is DREAM of a daughter. We get along so well, we are so alike and I marvel at her.

the best……….loved my chopped beef brisket drenched in the sauce with a side of collard greens.

When you’re feeling kinda sad that afternoon and reading a book quietly and he reaches over and puts his hand on the hurt spot without saying a word …..and you feel the love, the healing love, in just the time you needed it.
This is my healing place. We all have them.
I think it’s brave
i think it’s brave that you get up in the morning even if your soul is weary and your bones ache for a rest
i think it’s brave that you keep on living even if you don’t know how to anymore.
i think it’s brave that you push away the waves rolling in every day and you decide to fight
i know there are days when you feel like giving up but i think it’s brave that you never do.
Lana Rafeala

It was so much fun to read this blog entry.
❤️ miss talking with you. So very glad you have this beautiful happy place. ❤️
I really should get back on MP, I miss you too. Love you dear friend.
Looks like a happy place! Great pictures as usual! ❤️
hi shanda…….dropped your post card in the mail today! thanks for sharing all the pics. love the new “life is good” shirts! love all your sandals! loooooove the living room table! love the big shell to collect all the little ones! but mostly i love seeing you and your family together ❤️…….love & friendship, connie
You are just the sweetest and I thank you for this comment, it brightened my day! Can’t wait to get your postcard and I’ll pop one into the mail right back for you! Enjoy your day and family, dear Connie! ~ love, Shanda
Your vacation home looks lovely! Thanks for sharing all the photos. Where you are is my idea of a perfect vacation!!
I so loved everything about this post!!!
Gorgeous!!
Shanda, I absolutely loved this blog. What a happy place! Soak up every minute to remember during rough times. I liked your sandals in the one picture. They were so cute. Enjoy these beautiful summer days my friend! ☀️🏊♀️🚲🌼
Shanda, I absolutely loved this blog. What a happy place! Soak up every minute to remember during rough times. I liked your sandals in the one picture. They were so cute. Enjoy these beautiful summer days my friend! ☀️🏊♀️🚲
I love that poem about being brave. So timely! 😘
What a wonderful entry …so beautiful and fun ..so much can’t write about it all …I absolutely love your new seaside home …gorgeous ..your beautiful family …Mrs Miniver ..Have you seen the movie ..I have watched it several times and used to sit with my Mother to watch it when she was alive and weep on the sofa together ..ha! ha! …My dear friend Heather buys me the wooden cats like yours …I have two cats Toby is 19 years old and Bella is 8 …I think I like boy cats the best they are more loving ..I have always had cats ..keep having fun