Hi!  Well, we’ve been through 2 weeks of summer vacation.  The first day was very difficult for me but in hindsight I know it’s because of the dramatic change of schedule.  I went from 2 children during the school hours, to 5 children all day every day. 

Today I wanted to share something from my life as a mother.  I had noticed that my 3 1/2 year old was getting very mischievous, and he was starting to be slightly rebellious.  Nothing that a stranger would notice (well, I hope not), but something that as a mother, I noticed and sensed (we Christian mothers should not underestimate our discernment and our instincts in raising our babies).

To make a long story short—I realized that he was deprived of attention.  I have a baby who gets lots and lots of love, hugs, and time with Mommy.  The older ones get lots of attention. But, my 3 year old was getting lost in the shuffle.  A 3 year old still needs lots of attention and love, too.

I’ve been holding him more, talking to him (really talking, with all my attention), and making all kinds of contact with him throughout the day.

He is a different child now.  Is it my attitude?  I think part of it is, but part of it is him.  As a result of more mommy and daddy time, he’s calmer, more obedient, more thoughtful (he’s been putting his dirty dishes in the sink without being told!!!!!), and more of a blessing to all of us! 

So, all you mothers out there, make sure that you are giving your children quality time.  Not over-the-top, “unnatural affection”, but quality mother time.  It will make a big difference in your relationship with them.  Don’t just feed your child’s body.  Feed his mind, heart and soul, too. 

Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord:
and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man;
so are children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath is quiver full of them:
they shall not be ashamed,
but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.

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